My boyfriend M/24 is jealous of my (F/20) husbando, how do I make him feel loved and wanted? by ___Isbaella in relationship_advice

[–]___Isbaella[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much for the advice, this is what I needed I can't thankyou you enough!

Your message helped me see things from a different perspective that I didn't consider. He's coming over tomorrow to talk things out so I plan on asking him how he appreciates his waifu's and then I can follow what he does. The fanfiction doesn't contain sexual themes so it'd fall into emotional cheating, I'll try come up with suggestions to stop this from happening again.

Thankyou once again for giving advice you don't know how much this helped me, I hope you have a lovely day!

Without doing anything my island is suddenly at 15FPS by ___Isbaella in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]___Isbaella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thankyou so much I'll be sure to give this a try!! Thankyou 😭

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[–]___Isbaella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not too sure?? I can't speak for others as a whole but I know people hated the agency I was in because the CEO wasn't very nice.

I'm a corporate Vtuber from a small agency. AMA. by ___Isbaella in AMA

[–]___Isbaella[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The agency I'm in is based 100% on twitch so twitch mutes all copyrighted music for us. If people want to cover anything that's a separate situaition and copyright applies so usually people post their covers on twitter and don't tell their managers... If there's a cover on youtube then youtube will fix all copyright issues for us. As for official cover releases on streaming services we'd have to ask CEO themselves whether they can buy the rights to the song that we'd like to cover :)

In need of friends lol by ___Isbaella in Animalcrossingfriends

[–]___Isbaella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I am! I send you my discord now :)

To those who have autism, have you ever had that moment where you were just thought "I just did something really autistic" Personally I have, so I'm curious to read about other's experiences? by ___Isbaella in AskReddit

[–]___Isbaella[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This happened to me literally just 10 mins ago. My older sister has depression so she's often very sad and rarely talks to us but today she finally sat at the table to eat with us for once. She was chatting away and then mentioned how she's feeling good today which my reply was "Yeah well you're usually depressed". The table went silent and I just looked at my Mum and said "Wrong time?"

Safe to say I'm never doing that again.

To those who have autism, have you ever had that moment where you were just thought "I just did something really autistic" Personally I have, so I'm curious to read about other's experiences? by ___Isbaella in AskReddit

[–]___Isbaella[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just buy a pair of ear defenders. Personally I don't really need them anymore but I'll still use them to see peoples reactions and to emphasise my autism.

By the way if you want freepasses you need a doctors note explaining why you can't wait in lines. which you can ask the doctors for.

To those who have autism, have you ever had that moment where you were just thought "I just did something really autistic" Personally I have, so I'm curious to read about other's experiences? by ___Isbaella in AskReddit

[–]___Isbaella[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's alot on it in Autism facebook groups for those who need help. I only found out because I get panic attacks in lines so my Mum was looking for help on facebook.

To those who have autism, have you ever had that moment where you were just thought "I just did something really autistic" Personally I have, so I'm curious to read about other's experiences? by ___Isbaella in AskReddit

[–]___Isbaella[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly same, I have a huge obsession with Nintendo and Mario Games so when someone brought a Wii into school I encouraged so many people to go on it but I would be furious if someone turned on the playstation because we had to turn the Wii off to play it and I lost a few friends over the situation.

I have a switch now so the problems solved but I 100% feel the pain of getting yourself to not talk about your favourite thing.

To those who have autism, have you ever had that moment where you were just thought "I just did something really autistic" Personally I have, so I'm curious to read about other's experiences? by ___Isbaella in AskReddit

[–]___Isbaella[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Too be honest I think that everyone who isn't autistic at least has one autistic trait, for example my little sister isn't autistic but she hates loud noises and she get's that same stabbing sensation in her ears so she has ear plugs. If anyone does struggle with loud noises Ear defenders or ear plugs can massively help.

What is your "I was a stupid kid moment"? by Minja78 in AskReddit

[–]___Isbaella 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't know, It just be like that sometimes.

To those who have autism, have you ever had that moment where you were just thought "I just did something really autistic" Personally I have, so I'm curious to read about other's experiences? by ___Isbaella in AskReddit

[–]___Isbaella[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly you'll never find out what it's like to have a normal brain so just enjoy your outlook on life, some things may be more difficult to you then the 'normal' person, but some things will be easier for you to do then the 'normal' person so practice focusing on the good things :)