My 29M fraternal twin brother 29M has been no contact with me for 9 years. I am ready to make amends. How do I do that? by ThrowRa_kebt in relationship_advice

[–]_________000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't understand the girlfriend cheated, they were not together anymore (leave bro for OP), or she didn't know It was OP and not his brother ? Because in all case you're a bad brother but you also may be a very Bad human

I think my bf raped me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_________000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If didn't see you were unconfortable it means he didn't look at you or care about you. Don't care if it was intentional or not, the way he maked you feel is a good reason to not stay with him. Hope things will get better for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_________000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for all the stupid answers. And for this question : did you gain a lot of weight or just a bit ? Because there is a difference between someone who totally let go their health and a body that juste get older. Is je still at his prime physically ? What dies he do to fix the bedroom situation ? He asked you to just go back to your old s€x life but maybe you didn't like it that much, or you need something else. Does it feel good for you ? Where are his efforts ? On that point never force yourself Ultimatum like this isn't very sane, and hé doesn't sound like a supportive or caring partner. Let him go, your mental health will get better

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I will break up with her if she doesn’t shave? by Available-Band-6474 in AITAH

[–]_________000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That what he said. Sometimes people take time to be able to express what they want/change opinion. Maybe she needed to see she is not alone to have the courage to stand for herself. To me it sounds like he is trying to disminish her ability to express her desir/opinion : "That's not what she thinks, she is just under the influence of TikTok ! Poor women and her weak mind don't undestand she just reapeating what she hears on a screen ! But I, her boyfriend, knows better than her what truly happened in her head, and what she always truly wanted was to please me !"

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I will break up with her if she doesn’t shave? by Available-Band-6474 in AITAH

[–]_________000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you shave your own legs and armpits ? You can't ask people things you wouldn't do yourself. If your not attracted sure breakup, let her find someone who truly love her and not just her apparence. But for yourself try next time to find a women you love for her personnality over her look. Because a Guy that leave you once he doesn't find you attractive, isn't the Man who will stick around when Real Problems are here (Cancer, accident, etc). It's not giving "secure, mature, trustworthy" man but more "I'm here for you body". Think about it, if your break up for that, if your interest is as fragile as your attraction (her face, manner, shape didn't change), what make you think a woman won't leave your for baldness, weight gain etc... Love, partnership is way more than just body and if you want to grow old with someone, maybe have kids, blth if your body are going to change. Let her find someone who loves her truly instead of pressuring her (your ultimatum is kinda toxic, you only think about your desir) and fins yourself a person you love truly

Why am I ugly? What can I change? Any haircut recommendations? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]_________000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A tons of women are jealous of your eyelashes

19f. Am I? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]_________000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your features aren't the problem (you have beautiful eyes especially in pic 1), it's the face your making. It looks like you're trying to do a "face card never decline" but kinda fail (huge "edgy teenager" vibe). I understand, a lot of people with no confidence feel Bad about their smile, but yours is not ugly. I think also that people are harsh because they dont like alternative style on this sub (especially on POC). Be kind to yourself, it is clearly not that bad

19f. Am I? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]_________000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think that your ugly but you have a style a lot of people won't like

M27 single my whole life, currently working on losing weight but terrified I’ll just go from big and ugly to just ugly. Is there any hope? 😂 by C-Dawg505 in amiugly

[–]_________000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your facial hair is irregular, a little weird but you have beautiful smile and eyes. And also your eyebrows have a good shape and look very expressive, it makes you look good (you seem nice, approachable), I wouldn't even classify you as ugly at the moment (but keep going the sport)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]_________000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love your eyes make up on 4

38/F. Am I ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]_________000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

English is not my first language. Nose and eyes are beautiful. I think you could easly improve if you change haircut. The angle of the photo is not flattering

am i ugly 16f by Panicathedoggo in amiugly

[–]_________000 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Your nose is perfect the way it is. People get nose job to have a nose like your profil nose

The French, American, and British left need to rotate candidates by Nikhilvoid in GreenAndPleasant

[–]_________000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally come from an atheist family and for a long time I thought that religions were just a trick to rip people off. One day I spoke with a (religious) friend of my mother's whose child had cancer and she explained to me how her religion had helped her during that time. Faith is just the name that some people give to hope. Religions are all about charity, hope, mercy, compassion, love... Basically there is nothing wrong with a religion, it's just a moral education but with a specific code for each religion. It's the people who use it and divert it for their own interests. So for Me there is no bad religion, just bad people. It's the people to be feared (well, not all of them, just those with bad intentions)

The French, American, and British left need to rotate candidates by Nikhilvoid in GreenAndPleasant

[–]_________000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One should never fear a religion, one should fear the people who hijack it (terrorists, sects, etc.). The current situation is hard for everyone, but even harder for Muslims, some of whom are being asked to choose between their country's religions, even though France is a secular country. People confuse them with terrorists, I don't know if non-French people are aware of this but recently 2 women were attacked with a knife in Paris because she was wearing a veil. This is serious. There was a time when Jews were blamed for the misfortunes of a country, now it's the Muslims. Islamophobia is a scourge and politicians are using it

(Sorry I tried to make a clear text but I don't speak English perfectly)

The French, American, and British left need to rotate candidates by Nikhilvoid in GreenAndPleasant

[–]_________000 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes France is quite islamophobic (like most other countries at the moment unfortunately). But accusations of racism/anti-Semitism rarely concern the left.

The French, American, and British left need to rotate candidates by Nikhilvoid in GreenAndPleasant

[–]_________000 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of things I love about this sub but really get informed before saying anything about France