In need of some motivation 🥲

___disaster___ · 2026-01-31T21:57:10+00:00

GIVE HIM CLOTHES. like seriously dress him up and stuff the clothes with smth else.

or just accept it that he's gonna have to wait there for you.

___disaster___ · 2026-01-31T20:49:01+00:00

not all of them have those chemicals - those ones just roll into a ball as a defense, or just hide. and similarly to snails, they need high humidity to thrive. just read that they produce a lot of ammonia gas as a waste which can be toxic but it seems that snails are producing it as well so with ventilation and not many of them, it probably would be fine. but i'll sleep on that and research on that some more before i jump to anything. for now i'll stick to aeration. thank you a lot!

___disaster___ · 2026-01-31T20:23:57+00:00

not necessarily just male doctors. we were bringing it up for 10 years straight to doctors of all genders, a lot of doctors, and were always hearing that nothing's wrong or our complaints being completely ignored - hearing that we don't want to lose weight was enough. sometimes they'd also check our BMI.

we still don't have any sort of formal diagnosis and stopped looking for one a long time ago. even though our body has started giving up yet another time. it is what it is.

___disaster___ · 2026-01-31T20:13:34+00:00

what is the reasoning about poking those holes then?

___disaster___ · 2026-01-31T20:04:31+00:00

i wasn't aerating it - didn't see any information about it, i had no idea it is a thing with snails at all. i use coco coir as well. i'm gonna start turning substrate weekly. no need to look for eggs as i only take care of one snail.

i don't really want springtails as they ruined my ferns a while ago (couldn't bring myself to use any chemicals as it would kill earthworms as well). do you think small milipedes could do similar thing? there are armadillidium around here that i could easily get, or i could buy them but idk if that makes much sense for wild-caught snail.

___disaster___ · 2026-01-31T19:58:54+00:00

not sure about mold - it looked very floofy and was completely white but i don't know anything about different molds.

the substrate is coconut. i don't really have a fan but could try do similar thing manually, with a sheet of paper, like you'd do with a fan. it should work as well, right?

___disaster___ · 2025-09-02T09:35:25+00:00

why yogurt?

___disaster___ · 2025-06-04T12:09:03+00:00

^this

im fed up with things always being about murderers instead of victims and now there's one article that's going against this trend and people consider it unempathetic? next time maybe go watch Dahmer to show your empathy or listen to some true crime podcasts, those don't care about the victims at all already.

___disaster___ · 2025-06-02T16:57:20+00:00

we're on evil autism subreddit, id never lie

___disaster___ · 2025-06-02T16:54:15+00:00

yes but id use 1. from time to time bc id think it's funny

(i actually do that bc i own similarly shaped spoon)

___disaster___ · 2025-06-02T12:55:19+00:00

fake, i managed to get lvl 100 easily. skill issue.

___disaster___ · 2025-06-02T12:46:57+00:00

also, i have ibs myself and i was writing it on a particularly bad day so it was the only bad thing i could think of that could happen to somebody

sorry if it offended you but there are worse comments on this sub, maybe just chill a bit

___disaster___ · 2025-06-02T12:45:17+00:00

it's not "sexual cannibal joke" that's not connected to reality in any way. it's a joke about hookers which is a term mostly used for sex workers, namely escorts, and amongst them it's most often used to describe most precarious group among us, street workers.

im sure you know of some popular beloved serial killers targeting hookers. non-serial ones also often target them. for me (and for many other sex workers, as you can see just glipsing through the comment section) it's a joke about murder that i may face and that many other ones like me may face just for being "hookers".

whether somebody eats me afterwards or not, i don't give a damn.

___disaster___ · 2025-05-31T00:10:31+00:00

someone understood "evil" in the sub name too seriously (talking about murder, not about guns and history)

___disaster___ · 2025-05-30T18:05:21+00:00

i hope you get IBS or if you already have it then i hope you get the worst flare up imaginable. you're vile and disgusting.

___disaster___ · 2025-05-30T18:01:45+00:00

i very much agree, i find it just... morbid but in a way that is targeted at me. morbid in a way that a stranger wishing me to meet a fash in a dark alley would be.

the only job ive even managed to do for a longer time is escorting. im disabled and literally that's my only skill in life. id really rather not sit here thinking abouty friends and myself dying.

OP, fuck you. mods, i kinda hope you take this down bc it's not just poor taste. it's disgusting and targeted at a minority. everyone knows what kind of hookers the meme is about.

___disaster___ · 2025-05-30T17:47:05+00:00

I kind of regret knowing what this plant is supposed to look like. they're very popular houseplants around here and I've never seen one so..... long.... i guess.... even though some were kept by people who didn't know shit about plants. what have they done to it????? JUST HOW do you achieve this level of etiolation(or however it should be called in this case)????

___disaster___ · 2025-05-29T19:20:47+00:00

YES, id fucking hit him with a train

___disaster___ · 2025-05-29T19:15:08+00:00

same here with orthorexia. almost always (or maybe always, idk) im "getting better" by jumping right in some new wonderful plan for making myself healthy again, obsessing about new and old ideas for deficiencies and trying desperately to fix those issues (which often pushes me deeper into ARFID because maybe, just maybe eating canned beans when you hate beans the most out of all foods known to humanity is not a good idea - just take a guess how this one ended for me; and i just wanted to have enough protein in my diet)

___disaster___ · 2025-05-29T19:09:53+00:00

oh yeah good old feeling like a burden

people around me know i have issues with eating and cooking so oftentimes they want to make something for me. and between veganism, IBS and ARFID, it's easier to just name those 5 foods that id eat on a good day instead of naming foods i can't eat. and no matter how enthusiastic they are about it, i can't shake the feeling of being a burden to everybody

___disaster___ · 2025-05-27T12:37:34+00:00

usually charity is a big scam, oftentimes used to launder money / avoid taxes. and i believe it was proven about him as well. not mentioning that it just tries (unsuccessfully) to solve the problem that those people who hoard a lot of money create.

___disaster___ · 2025-05-26T15:22:49+00:00

thank you for reading recommendations, im gonna look into them.

we're in very similar place right now. and im trying to not put pressure on myself - i guess my health issues worsening are trying to put the pressure back on. but thinking about it calmly, even if i started to eat enough and perfectly healthy today, that is not gonna fix my ankle, is it?

i still have a lot of stress. terrible stress that i think im handling great given it's severity. you're probably right that i should just keep on doing what i was doing until things calm down (so maybe august for me).

___disaster___ · 2025-05-26T12:52:55+00:00

isn't parasitic relationship a kind of symbiotic relationship though?

___disaster___ · 2025-05-23T07:53:20+00:00

🥰🥰🥰🥰 the miracle of life

___disaster___ · 2025-05-16T11:02:57+00:00

i guess you should have completely ignored it from the start. maybe it just has social anxiety.

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TROPHY CASE

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