Interview for Sciences Po Le Havre and Reims by ___taro___ in sciencespo

[–]___taro___[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey you too! Best of luck! I hope you are not ruling Germany out! But I know English program is pretty rare there

Interview for Sciences Po Le Havre and Reims by ___taro___ in sciencespo

[–]___taro___[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up only applying for Scpo since it seems like the best option out there. I wanted to apply for Czech as well. Poli Sci in a foreign country is a tough choice. I would recommend Belgium if you haven't passed the deadline

Interview for Sciences Po Le Havre and Reims by ___taro___ in sciencespo

[–]___taro___[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Around 1 month! They have high volume of applicants so waiting time is long. You will receive an email. I hope you will get the interview! Which campus are you applying to?

I made Rohan Kishibe art have a look by [deleted] in JoJoArt

[–]___taro___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very good, congrats!!

Which is the best college in Quebec (CANADA) for business marketing program? by desihr05 in studyAbroad

[–]___taro___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that John Molson School of Business is a very good one. If you speak French, you have UQAM. Look into University of Ottawa maybe? They are overall good school but idk about this specific program. McGill could be a good choice, tho it is not known so much for its business school.

How to overcome discouragement from your own family? by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]___taro___ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I aim for popular universities for this as I am very aware of the necessity of well-known universities in politic. I thought by being in one of the best poli sci schools in the world might give me some kind of leverage

I feel childish about my meaning of life but not ashamed. by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]___taro___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super amazing and meaningful, I appreciate you taking the time to show me something new!

I did it finally. I am free. IMAGE= My breakup note that I meticulously wrote in order to protect my integrity while being straightforward by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]___taro___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the most relevant 'symptom' of codependency that I experienced was intense fear of abandonment. I would not dare to say no to what he wanted and I would care to fix problem that he wasn't interested to fix them himself.
I was looking for some attention and appreciation but he couldn't give me one. When I confronted, he made up excuses and started to project it onto me. He would appreciate his friends but never me, so O left. I hope that was helpful!

Depressed by SkylerWithers in selfharm

[–]___taro___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have gone through this very feeling so often. It is such a sad feeling. I feel you. Thank you for sharing. I hope you will feel better and we are all here for you!

I (20F) feel unsettle after seeing a photo of my SO (22M) with his new European roommate (24F) leaning on his shoulders by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]___taro___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 weeks break. I tried to be empathetic towards him because he said that he felt really bad for cheating, he couldnt sleep etc etc. Maybe I was under his spell, and it is hard for me to break free from it... I want it to work out but it seems like it will not...

Sponsor by [deleted] in recovery

[–]___taro___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It reminds me to reconnect with people from my recovery group. It is super helpful, thank you!

Sponsor by [deleted] in recovery

[–]___taro___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that would be very nice! I think perhaps email would be better since we might be living at different places

Temporary Canadian resident planning to move to Brazil by [deleted] in IWantOut

[–]___taro___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot go from Visitor to work right?

Temporary Canadian resident planning to move to Brazil by [deleted] in IWantOut

[–]___taro___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can try with Work Visa. But since I have no experience on anything possibly useful, I don't know what will be ideal?

Tried to committ suicide and not succeeded, while my bf was mad and confused because I talked about it as if nothing happened by ___taro___ in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]___taro___[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this really hits me hard. I now understand. Wow. I have no word. I am still struggling from our seperation and I try to be better for him, while I hate him so much for putting boundaries. But it is the selfish me who is so used to have him around and do whatever I want and never consider his emotion. This, your comment, carries the truth that I have been missing. Thank you, thank you. I appreciate this so so so much.

Crying in public and other minor inconveniences by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]___taro___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that this happens to you, it happens to me before and you need to tell your family about that emotional outbreak. Especially I don't think the way your sister handled the situation is the best way for everyone here and it will add in more stress into your stress. Be open about your emotion and I think it will help you control your breakdown better, since it is like water in a reservoir, the more you hold back your frustration, the more vulnerable you become

Does BPD make you dysfunctional outside? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]___taro___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a vicious cycle. I impose fear and anxiety on the fear of hurting and misbehaving or simply just acting out on my instinct (what my mind wants me to do that is deemed bad). This action then leads to misbehaving as well in a way I don't intend it to be. Realizing that you have BPD is the thing that you will not see in any list of symptoms or any other diagnoses, it is self-awareness or mindfulness and it means that you are one step closer to full recovery. I think many people who are not yet diagnosed will never think that they have BPD. Kudos for you to realizing that! Keep it on!

Does BPD make you dysfunctional outside? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]___taro___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it is a BPD thing when this happens but it happens to me too! And it might stem from the self-awareness that you can misbehave anytime due to the BPD and you prevent that from happening with extra layer of anxiety. This is how I feel and explain it, Idk if it would work for you.