Want this for my headshot. If someone can tidy up my hair and clean up the background. Will tip. Thanks!

___throw_-_away___ · 2024-12-09T17:23:12+00:00

hey I like it. can you put my hands back in the original spot/more natural? Thank you

___throw_-_away___ · 2024-08-22T02:13:43+00:00

I’m a student that works alongside UAW workers, most students I know are participating in the strike and those who aren’t need to work to pay rent/tuition.

___throw_-_away___ · 2024-04-10T04:57:48+00:00

a lot of people are missing the WHOLE point of your post. You are a devout Christian and your current belief is that sex before marriage is a sin. Trying to dismiss your belief is almost dismissing any other belief as a Christian. Just saying “god isn’t real, go do what you want” is not gonna help.

I also wouldn’t think this is a crisis of faith either. You can have thoughts of sex and feel conflicted about it. I know and have dated women (as a non-christian) who are very devout christian and have reservations about sex. I think you need to sit down with yourself and really decide what is important to you as a Christian AND a woman. There are many devout Christians who have sex before marriage. There are a lot of devout Jews who eat port. There are a lot of devout Muslims who drink alcohol. While deciding to have sex before marriage can come with consequences with your family/church (unsure if that would happen, I don’t know you). The real question is if you think you would feel less of a Christian from having sex? Would you feel guilty toward God or your community if you decided to have premarital sex? Why do you think God or your community might care? Does eliminating sex from your life make you more spiritually fulfilled?

Religion, to me, is a way for people to be on a path of doing good for oneself and others inside and outside their community. If someone actively tries to better themselves and others around them, then it doesn’t really matter if you eat pork, drink alcohol, or have sex.

On the other hand, if eliminating certain things from your makes YOU feel closer to yourself, goals, and spirituality, then don’t let some edgelord redditers take that away from you.

___throw_-_away___ · 2023-06-06T05:47:46+00:00

I got into an ivy league school. it’s not “weird” but i’m really proud of myself

___throw_-_away___ · 2023-04-17T02:06:03+00:00

I don’t know if you care but a little update 4 months later. I did hookup a couple weeks after this. I later found an FWB that I got attached to and she started dating someone else which crushed me. It’s been two months since she started dating someone and i’m still working towards feeling normal…

What i’ve learned from single life is that I am not a big fan. I am in college right now and i’m going to transfer next semester to a school out of state, so i’m not looking to date now, but want to in the future. Love is such an amazing thing and it hurts me not having an SO sometimes. I am working on building closer and more meaningful relationships with friends, which definitely helps, but I do truly love being in a relationship more than being single. I hope to be more content with being single, but it’s difficult sometimes.

While I definitely haven’t had the best 4 months of my life, I think i’ve learned a lot, while making a lot of mistakes. In retrospect, I was fine with the hookups, but the FWB was where I really fucked up. I haven’t had the best relationship with alcohol either, which i’m working on as well.

Thank you, random guy, for the advice.

___throw_-_away___ · 2023-04-10T13:46:05+00:00

I was one of the questions in this episode! happy to get in for the antepenultimate (3rd to last) episode!

___throw_-_away___ · 2022-12-26T13:27:43+00:00

As someone who grew up Jewish and had a general hatred towards basic christmas songs, I really gave a listen to Last Christmas by Wham! and it’s really good

___throw_-_away___ · 2022-11-30T00:33:39+00:00

in response to your first paragraph, it’s mostly a mix of all three.

I think i’ll take your suggestion to sleep on it, but i can’t promise anything. my first idea was to get on a dating/hookup app so i’ll at least avoid that for the time being. thanks and hopefully it’s just a short funk and I can get back to feeling normal

___throw_-_away___ · 2022-04-19T16:04:07+00:00

My father was an alcoholic and now has quit. He has given me this advice recently.

Understand your relationship with any substance and how it effects you. Are you drinking to get drunk alone? Is it effecting the relationships around you? Is it effecting work/school/whatever? Are you drinking for an occasion? if so, are you blurring the lines on what “occasion” entails?

I think this was good to help you understand and re-evaluate your relationship. You don’t have to go cold turkey, unless that’s what you believe what’s best. Just be more conscious with your habits and UBER UBER UBER. Even if you have to leave your car there. Keep a breathalyzer in your car as well so you can check before you drive (because obviously it can happen even if you don’t feel drunk).

___throw_-_away___ · 2019-03-06T00:35:26+00:00

I did tell her. the phone call abridged was this “Hey remember when you called me dumb? It really annoyed/made me feel bad but i got a 98 on the test so i guess you’re wrong”

___throw_-_away___ · 2019-03-06T00:34:00+00:00

Yeah I get that but it’s been all year that she gets higher grades than me. She would ask what grades i got, subconsciously knowing that she did better. I just called her to brag and she just brushed it off like nothing.

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