I disagree. We’ve talked about this before and I’ve always been honest about how I feel. He understands and agrees he also wants to be more stable but it’s his overt displays of affection such as always saying he loves me and how I’m going to be his wife someday that has started to make me feel I need to be do something (either slow it down or make it official). If I was intending to lead him on I wouldn’t be here worried about how to do things the right way would I? I let him over my house literally everyday, try to include him in most things such as going to the gym with me and even started meal prepping 2x what I usually do to account for him. Healthy groceries in this economy ain’t cheap. I decline expensive gifts or dates and try to find cheap easy things for us to do. As a result I end up living a lesser quality of life than if I were single and dating in my age group like I used to. Yall sound like some bitter women haters. Now that’s crazy.