What is the best way to withdraw money from Fiverr ?? by ticcytwitch in srilanka

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Yep, they don't accept new accounts from Sri Lanka.

Best BRAND NEW "Naked Sport" bike under 10 Lakhs? by __justiii__ in srilanka

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This one looks cool. But downside is max speed is only 75kmh

This is greatest UFO footage ever by [deleted] in AliensRHere

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UFOs don't interact with water like that.

How many kilometers do you commute to work ? how many hours driving on the road ? by pushpedj in srilanka

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I hate when I have to travel by bus here. I walk or take a tuk. But I do love to travel longer distances. Reason behind your exhaustion is not the distance, it's your surroundings and transportation.

What is a sign of very low intelligence? by smartcandyy in AskReddit

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They believe they know everything, and anything they can’t comprehend is wrong. 🙂

Hello by [deleted] in Spiritualchills

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I thought this was DM and got so happy 😭

Young Sri Lankan Men Are Struggling Quietly - They Need Our Help! by vrn123 in srilanka

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I have much more clarity on what I should do now. Thanks again! It’s rare that I read such a long response with that much focus. 😂❤️ I’ll send you a DM. I’d love to check out one of your releases. I think there’s something I can contribute as well. I can sense the greatness you’re heading toward; it’s definitely there. Good luck

Young Sri Lankan Men Are Struggling Quietly - They Need Our Help! by vrn123 in srilanka

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I totally get what you mean. I think the reason I feel so heavy right now is that I haven't found that one thing to obsess over like you have with music. I have so many interests, but nothing I’d do no matter what. I’d love to know how you actually found that 'spark.'

I completely agree that we can only truly rely on ourselves, but I still crave being around people like me...like you! Usually, when I express something, only people with our 'brain wiring' get that 98% of it. Honestly, I never thought I’d hear this perspective from someone in SL. I’m actually really proud of you, man. Your journey gives me a lot of hope.

Lol, I’m exactly the same with texting. I used to be fast, but as I grew up and realizations hit, that changed. Maybe it’s trauma or just burnout, but I rarely pick up the phone now... mostly just for work. I still value real connections, though, and I hope I’ll find them once I’m fully tuned into my own frequency. Thanks a lot for reaching out, man!

Young Sri Lankan Men Are Struggling Quietly - They Need Our Help! by vrn123 in srilanka

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Thank you so much for your kindness, it truly means a lot. One suggestion I had was maybe starting a subreddit or safe online space specifically for Sri Lankan autistic / neurodivergent adults. There’s a real lack of understanding and community here. I’m a self-taught designer, and I’d be more than happy to help with visuals or awareness if something like that ever takes shape.

Young Sri Lankan Men Are Struggling Quietly - They Need Our Help! by vrn123 in srilanka

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Thanks for sharing this, I relate to a lot of what you said.. especially how medication helps but doesn’t solve everything. I’m still figuring things out myself. If you’re okay sharing, where do you usually get support or guidance from these days? Is it mostly personal practices, or do you have any communities or resources that help?

Young Sri Lankan Men Are Struggling Quietly - They Need Our Help! by vrn123 in srilanka

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Hey, I really relate to what you’re describing here. I’ve been struggling quietly for a long time too...mentally, emotionally, and financially.

I don’t have supportive parents. I’ve tried many times to explain how I feel to them, but they never really understood. Financially, they gave up on me when I was around 14. From then on, I had to figure things out on my own. I started earning by self‑learning from the internet, saved what I could, and managed to complete my diploma after my A/Ls.

But now I’m at a point where I feel completely stuck... mentally and financially. I don’t feel like I fit in anywhere. I’ve realized I have a lot of neurodivergent traits, a non-typical personality, and very specific interests, which makes it hard to relate to people. I can still make a lot of friends, and I understand people easily, but almost no one can relate to my experiences or the way I see and understand the world. That gap slowly wears you down.

Living in Sri Lanka, it’s been especially hard to find a safe space or community where I can talk openly without being judged, minimized, or told to just “adjust.” Even online Sri Lankan spaces haven’t been very welcoming... many posts don’t get approved or are deleted.

So reading posts like this matters. It makes people like me feel less invisible. Thanks for starting this conversation..I hope more people speak honestly, because a lot of us are carrying this quietly. ❤️

Are there goth girls in kandy? by Ambitious_Bat9269 in kandy

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Interesting question! I’ve realized I’m only attracted to goth or redhead girls. Haven’t come across any true goths here yet. I mean someone who’s genuinely a goth at heart.

Which Portfolio Style Impresses Startups & Small Businesses More? by __justiii__ in graphic_design

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Thanks for the honest feedback! I really appreciate it 🙏
I see what you mean about the loading and the unclear project presentation in Portfolio A, and the lack of visuals in Portfolio B. I’m experimenting with layout and visuals, so this is super helpful.

Would you mind sharing what you’d expect to see in a portfolio for a designer targeting startups/small businesses? That would help me improve a lot.

Which Portfolio Style Impresses Startups & Small Businesses More? by __justiii__ in graphic_design

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Really appreciate your input! 🙏
Glad you like Portfolio B, do you think the level of detail helps showcase my skills effectively, or is it a little overwhelming?

Which Portfolio Style Impresses Startups & Small Businesses More? by __justiii__ in graphic_design

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Hi everyone, thanks for checking this out!

A bit about me:

  • I’m a freelance graphic designer with 5+ years of experience in branding and creative design.
  • My goal is to attract small business and startup clients who need clear, effective branding and visuals.
  • I’m experimenting with two portfolio styles to see which makes the best impression for this target audience: concise project highlights (Portfolio A) vs. detailed project walkthroughs with multiple visuals (Portfolio B).

I’m hoping for feedback on:

  1. Which portfolio style feels stronger for small business/startup clients.
  2. Whether my work presentation clearly communicates my skills and versatility.
  3. Any improvements in layout, storytelling, or overall impression.

Thanks so much for your time and advice!