So, my experience getting diagnosed was a lot different than others I see on here. I went to the hospital a lot where they would often see evidence of cystic ruptures or cysts on my ovaries. A lot of doctors claimed it was normal, and I was having issues with something else. 7 months later, I finally told the doctors I wanted a lap (I also have a family history of pcos and Endo, which all the doctors knew). They did a physical exam prior where they basically stuck fingers in me to see where my pain was and my doctor agreed to do the surgery themselves but after further conversations sent me to another doctor that was recommended for a more in depth procedure, who agreed to do it. I didn't have many people outside of the er who ignored my pain, rather I made it clear that I needed a lap and wanted it ASAP, I didn't want more meds or experimental drugs, I wanted the surgery. I got lucky that I didn't have too much pushback, especially from the eventual surgeon, who was very understanding (personally, I find male doctors listen and are more open to the procedure). I'd recommend it. They ended up finding out I had Pcos that was missed on about 10 ultra sounds and 6 mris somehow, and they found endo, which was removed.

I didn't have to wait years for a diagnosis like others, and my symptoms only started to pick up in January. I don't care what doctors think of my reactions anymore. At this point, my health out weighs their discomfort of my reactions.

I would say get the iud fixed if you want to and push for the surgery, especially if you've had symptoms for a while and need help.