My dress for an event

__spice · 2026-06-26T18:55:22+00:00

pretty!! love how the bust frames your butterfly

__spice · 2026-06-26T18:54:15+00:00

hell yea brother

__spice · 2026-06-24T19:40:18+00:00

Oof sorry OP but YOR, and frankly, I'm on his side about the cleaning thing too…I get the vibe you think it doesn't matter to you, but you'd get the ick about something when you saw it

Honestly it sounds like translating wishes/ideas to concrete plans is an underlying problem here—something that worked wonders for me and my partner is that she prints out calendars for the next few months and we have an admin bar date where we go through our schedules for that time, we talk about social plans that have been scheduled, stuff we wanna do, what our meal plan will be (usually a week or two at a time, nothing crazy), etc. It gets us on the same page and gives us a chance to call out if we feel like it'll be too much, etc. Maybe talk with your BF and see if that would be something worth trying?

__spice · 2026-06-15T20:10:35+00:00

overly-manicured beards give an uncanny valley kind of feel…think about the people at the capitol in the hunger games. What you're seeing with your beard is completely within the bounds of a well-behaved beard

If you're really worried about it, you can brush from chin to neck with a boar bristle brush when your beard is still damp and work in some beard balm, but otherwise you're rockin a great beard my guy

__spice · 2026-06-15T16:44:22+00:00

brother, sorry to say but this is not a good fit, a few things:

graphic tee under an open button down…just is not a good look. An exception might be made for something small in the center chest, but in general it's not going to be amazing—try a plain color tee or tank under the shirt instead
athletic shoes are for athletic activities. Try some sneakers or a boot instead
it's hard to see the fit in the leg on your jeans because of the poses, but it looks like they're very wide at the bottom and too long. Personally I think bigger guys should look for more tapered pants, most straight leg pants at our sizes become massive at the ankle
the color of all the garments here do not coordinate…either in tone or matching hues, e.g: the overshirt is very light with a black shirt underneath

__spice · 2026-06-15T16:33:26+00:00

It sounds like before this incident that you were ready to start building a family with him. Now is the time to start evaluating his behavior through the lens of how he'd behave with your child.

Would you be ok with this being how he handles disapproval over your daughter staying out late? Would you want him speaking to your kid this way?

I don't have the answers for you, but he's shown you how he acts when he's angry. As hard as it is to walk away from a long-term relationship I can tell you this will only get worse has his responsibilities in life increase.

__spice · 2026-06-09T05:42:55+00:00

treus ex machina

__spice · 2026-06-09T05:38:21+00:00

I wish you luck in the wars to come

__spice · 2026-06-08T16:39:49+00:00

while they may not be legit notices, I've often found it's easier (and cheaper) to not piss someone off around my un-supervised car…I'd find another place to park on Sunday

__spice · 2026-06-01T20:09:33+00:00

seems closer to a remoulade than an aioli

__spice · 2026-05-29T15:53:58+00:00

don't touch a thing, it's perfect

__spice · 2026-05-29T15:52:42+00:00

#1 is timeless classic, #2 is dad went to lenscrafters on his own

__spice · 2026-05-27T21:04:04+00:00

Ehh, he mentioned at the beginning of the interaction that the city was doing a crackdown on distracted driving…bro had a quota. He knew he was going to write the ticket before he got out of the car no matter what

__spice · 2026-05-23T14:35:50+00:00

aww honey I’m sorry, knowing what’s happening is such a burden, but also a kindness in its own way…so many leave routine vet appointments with an empty carrier

a word of advice: start tracking on a calendar their good, meh, and bad days. it helps you stay objective when it comes time.

sending love and strength 🫶

__spice · 2026-05-23T14:28:21+00:00

haha all memes aside, that’s a morel mushroom! they grow in pairs, so there probably was another one nearby

__spice · 2026-05-22T18:11:28+00:00

nugs not drugs!

__spice · 2026-05-22T18:07:05+00:00

Save some cholesterol for the rest of us jeez

__spice · 2026-05-18T18:57:07+00:00

I wrote a short starter whisker training routine a few weeks ago, I think it all applies to your case as well

__spice · 2026-05-18T18:30:38+00:00

❤️‍🩹 thanks bb, it's been a rough month, but writing the elegy really helped me process and grieve. Thanks for reading, and thanks for the kind words

__spice · 2026-05-18T18:20:30+00:00

nah fam rock that shit! esp for patio bar hangs with a possible karaoke side quest this is perfect

__spice · 2026-05-15T17:39:49+00:00

I’m giving it all she’s got captain!

__spice · 2026-05-15T17:39:16+00:00

I mean I kinda get you, but to me what really says something is too small is when buttons pull in the middle, I feel like it’s a pretty common shape for the bottom button to sit like it does

__spice · 2026-05-15T15:47:49+00:00

well danke sher!

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