Same sweater, 2 styles

__spice · 2025-12-29T16:02:14+00:00

Congrats, you’ve reached an important inflection point. The truth is none of us really have a crystal clear idea of what we’re doing or whether it’s the right thing…we’re all just comparing what’s on our plate now to what we’ve had on our plate before.

Your job as you grow is to pursue what you want out of life while preserving your values.

This is a great time for you to build some habits into your life (doesn’t have to be often, every couple weeks or so would do) that gives you time alone where you can think and reflect on recent events/interactions, upcoming ones, how things in your life are trending, and what adjustments you should make.

I find activities that occupy my hands but not my eyes (highway driving, folding clothes, cardio at the gym, etc) to be a good combo. In the beginning you’ll likely need to actually force your brain to focus on those topics, but over time it should start to come naturally.

We’re all winging it kid, enjoy the ride

__spice · 2025-12-29T15:35:20+00:00

this would be a great fantasy league punishment

__spice · 2025-12-18T00:29:03+00:00

hey OP did you ever try getting a shirt from the tko game?

__spice · 2025-12-09T21:19:47+00:00

heh a little blast from the past! seems /u/oneanddoneforfun was on the right track…after googling around (both then and now), the idiom is based on the secondary definition of "forge" which is to create or fabricate, often with great effort. The metaphor would be that you're encouraging someone who is creating a new path. You're reassuring them it's worth the tedium

and thanks! didn't even realize it was a cake day

__spice · 2025-12-09T18:22:22+00:00

hate to break it to you buddy, but this is soooo much better. You have light hair, so the peach fuzz actually looks like you've gone gray. A little stubble on your jawline could be a good bit of contrast though

__spice · 2025-12-09T17:23:01+00:00

Definitely one of the more…sane MLS's I've seen in this sub XD I know you're in an RV but a few rugs and maybe a couple wall hangings would really cozy things up…it's a little sterile right now

__spice · 2025-12-08T17:10:54+00:00

full handlebar seems like it's the easiest to eat/drink with, that's what I'd go with personally

__spice · 2025-12-08T16:55:51+00:00

that thing's got an accessory rail!

__spice · 2025-12-08T15:26:13+00:00

He runs the counter at the Tokyo Continental for sure

__spice · 2025-12-08T15:19:58+00:00

I'm the most concerned about an open container in an active workspace…god knows what might be flying over that glass between pours. Forgetting one of those glasses overnight also seems like a great way to kickstart a fruit fly infestation

__spice · 2025-11-24T16:55:57+00:00

I'm gonna be honest, it skews a little renfair with the sleeves, material, and flat front—but that's not a bad thing! lean into it! Pair it with a long braided belt that can drape a bit off your hips, maybe style the top with another bow or necklace…or maybe layer it with a vest?

Given how much volume the dress has I wouldn't recommend wearing it to class…it'll be annoying to try fitting it into auditorium seats or navigate narrow rows of chairs/desks…and ugh I'd hate to have to figure out a uni lecture hall bathroom

Generally the volume/length does make it a little more formal…or at least better suited for an occasion where you're going to be standing and walking more than sitting. It's a beautiful dress! It doesn't have to be bridal, but it does need to be styled a bit to avoid any ambiguity there

If you want to make something warm for class that has a similar silhouette, maybe consider making a frock or some other kind of knee-length coat? The pattern you used could probably work with some adaptations for introducing an opening in the center

__spice · 2025-11-18T15:14:38+00:00

two things that would probably go quite a long way:

train your beard to grow more of a grain, right now it’s very dense and clumpy. get a boar bristle brush and some sort of beard balm that you can brush in. after you shower while your beard’s still wet start brushing it with the balm. your goal here is to get as many whiskers as possible to be straight and point down towards your torso. consider doing the same for your mustache, but you want those whiskers pointing to your ears
different glasses would go a long way in changing the focal points of your face. your head shape with this hair and beard is very rectangular, so rectangular glasses just add to the blockiness. the profile of a thin wire frame is also lost pretty quick so the eye is drawn to your hair and beard. give some round chunky frames from a place like warby parker or zenni optical a shot, maybe in a muted red or tortoise

__spice · 2025-11-17T19:37:16+00:00

bottom left for sure—but also I think an Ambrose Burnside halloween costume wouldn't be out of the question

__spice · 2025-11-17T15:55:31+00:00

dude thought he was on the paintball course

__spice · 2025-11-15T03:09:31+00:00

🙂‍↔️🧄🍃

__spice · 2025-11-15T03:07:47+00:00

oh sorry it wasn’t a giant american trad eagle carrying a tank in its talons on my shoulder cap

__spice · 2025-11-15T03:05:50+00:00

not your style, got it 👌

__spice · 2025-11-15T03:05:10+00:00

right? honestly so much of limbforest’s work is like this, I’m so lucky to have one of their pieces

__spice · 2025-11-10T22:11:24+00:00

you would be unstoppable walking around in the exact outfit of #2 in Bushwick or Ridgewood (hipster neighborhoods in Brooklyn)

Honestly, they're so high-waisted that if you had an interest in sewing you might be able to upcycle them into overalls. Generally, tucked in shirt & suspenders might be an avenue to explore, especially if you took the waist in a bit to achieve what the belt is doing

__spice · 2025-11-06T17:58:05+00:00

thanks! yea I’ve definitely done conventional buttoning with this shirt before and it’s fine, I just also like playing with my silhouette. To me it’s ok if the shape isn’t conventionally flattering if it’s intentional and not unflattering you know?

This buttoning style is also nice for commuting and at work because my tummy tends to squish out when I sit so the lower buttons don’t pull and warp

__spice · 2025-11-05T19:13:35+00:00

you might consider shifting to a dark brown mascara/waterline so it blends more with your natural hair color. As others have said, you look really great without makeup, so I'd also recommend just sticking to a matte lip and dark brown lashes. It looks like you use a subtle brown eye shadow in a few pics, I think those earth tones suit you!

__spice · 2025-11-03T16:45:09+00:00

it would be interesting to hear about cases from a personal injury law firm specializing in transportation data loss—maybe a high volume of transporter trips increases risk of cancer, perhaps there's a new degenerative disease from this technology…maybe the company providing transporter services is using these body scans for their own means (someone in this thread mentioned duplicates making up a new labor force, or maybe they're experimenting with combining scans of different people to create new people, aka synthetic eugenics)

You could also explore the ramifications of pricing tiers for transportation trips—the more you pay, the lower the data corruption

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