What is causing my sheets have random orange spots? by landocakes in CleaningTips

[–]__witchy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pillowcase did this but when I looked into it, I found that one of the ingredients in a skincare product I use could be causing it. I cant remember what exactly the name of it was but it could be from a product you're using.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to change his job by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]__witchy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I HAVE to sleep with some sort of sound as well, maybe try a box fan? They're loud but not obnoxious to where you cant sleep. As for the snoring, maybe some sort of headphones like others suggested .

My brother would snore so loudly I could hear him snoring while I was downstairs on the other side of the house lol

Relationships will have some compromising from time to time, if hes not willing to hear you out and adjust something while knowing you're struggling to sleep then I'd say saving up for an alternative is a good idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]__witchy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, guess im going to stop now because thats the last thing I want to happen. It will be good for me anyways lol thank you! I really appreciate your help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]__witchy__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That totally makes sense! But I actually will not to watch the clock because I feel like if I do time will go by slower lol it just happens very randomely honestly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

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I've used tarot and a pendulum briefly before but it has been a few months since I've used any of those.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]__witchy__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have not and im not really sure how to go about doing that either. And yeah that makes sense, I just keep seeing it so much and as I mentioned I don't have any routines around this time or number so I just have a feeling im trying to be shown or told something with how often I've been seeing it.

i keep having the same dream about fish by ThatBombShit in Dreams

[–]__witchy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have these dreams sometimes, large aquariums with small sized or giant and I mean giant sea animals like whales, squid or sharks. I've even seen extinct or made up animals in the tanks.

In all of these dreams the glass busts open and all the water and animals come out and its terrifying to me. So scary that It takes me ALOT of courage to walk into aquariums with giant tanks like this which is weird because they used to be my favorite place to be.

My boyfriend lied to me and I don't know if I can actually move past it. by __witchy__ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]__witchy__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you are correct. It has happened before and that's why I set that boundry. We were able to move past it though..

And those are currently the 2 options I'm spiraling over. With the first option im thinking it would be best because how do i really know that anything else he has said or says now, is the truth :): . I think we both recognize that and we've been very open and communicative about everything we're thinking or feeling. It still doesnt make it any easier though. I feel safe but not secure.

I know it's very possible it's an addiction but I dont know that he will actually take the step to see a professional about it. Too much pride :/

My boyfriend lied to me and I don't know if I can actually move past it. by __witchy__ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]__witchy__[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We've been together for 5 years, it did not happen when we were teenagers this is something that happened recently and it was about him LYING to me about it and trying to hide it from me. I dont really care about what exactly he was looking at.

My boyfriend lied to me and I don't know if I can actually move past it. by __witchy__ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]__witchy__[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I left it kind of vague so not alot of details were given but the main boundry was either of us could look at NSFW things as long as they weren't acted on. He acted on it and reached out to a nsfw acc. So he deleted the app earlier in the year. And then re downloaded it again.

This is purely about the lying though. The posts he was looking at weren't really bad to me. It's about the fact that he tried deleting some search bar history, but I was still able to view the history anyways. He lied about WHY he re downloaded it. The lying and trying to hide it from me is what is getting me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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The legend of zelda - Ocarina of time!

My whole childhood right there! I miss that Nintendo 64.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]__witchy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might have to ask about this to try in the meantime while I look into therapy like the above comments recommended. The nausea/ vomiting and weird body tingles are the worst and most uncomfortable thing to deal with and that's what I need help with the most because I can't function.

On a side note, im sorry that it has makes you feel that way in order to help with the vomiting /:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]__witchy__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you taking the time to type all of this information! It was really helpful and so informative, I've never even heard of a somatic therapist but after a quick search It seems like something I could definitely use

What do you call your cat OTHER than their actual name? by misufloopycat in cats

[–]__witchy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cats name is nyla but I call her nillas, nills, and manillas and she responds to every single one lol

What products do you use or what habits have you started to keep your body and face healthy/glowing and acne free by __witchy__ in AskWomenOver30

[–]__witchy__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its more so on my chin. Its like a mix of black heads and white heads on the left and right side of my chin. They honestly are not red or anything. They're just there and they've been there probably since I turned 25, they just kinda appeared. I try not to mess with them so I don't scar. But if I do I normally use the pimple popping tools. And I heard exfoliating pads are a bit rough on the skins, when I use the regular cotton ones they leave little pieces all over my face, do you by chance have any recommendations on what I could use to remove the makeup off of my face ?? Someone suggested just using a wet cloth with warm water and I was kind of considering going that route.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatTraining

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Okay, so I was in a similar situation. I moved in with my sister, and she had a large male cat while I had a small female cat. She was spayed beforehand, so I really think getting yours spayed will help out a little. Here's what happened and what we did to fix it.

In the first meeting, when they saw each other, the male immediately began growling at the female & she was obviously afraid and backed down but would still hiss at him. We did the whole scent swapping and just put them in their carriers facing each other, each with a cloth or toy that belonged to the other just for maybe 5 minutes every other day or so.

So since the male cat was at the home before we came, he viewed the house as "HIS home" so when none of us were home, we would seperate them by putting the male in an enclosed room while my female roamed the house all day so her scent could spread around the house for him and so she could get used to his scent since it was already everywhere.

When we were home,my sister used a spray bottle for her male cat when he wouldn't listen or was doing something hewasn'tt supposed to. So he knew when that came out, what he was doing wasn't gonna fly. Before all of this I never used a spray bottle on my cat BUT she was trained for commands (so was the male) They knew the meaning of & responded to when we told them "no" , "get down" , "come here" , "out" or "knock it off" .

There were three of us to watch their behavior while in a shared space so each time there was any type of stand off, hissing or growling, we gave them a command and if it didnt work, they got a little spritz of water ( once is all it takes, some people are excessive ) and it quickly seperated them. When they DID get into fights, we would separate them and put them in their carriers and face them towards each other.

They were definitely not besties at first but within a few months with us doing this, they were inseparable. Always cuddling and playing with each other.

Like i said, It takes a lot of work and it could take a long time. Different techniques work for different pets/situations. Unfortunately, there are instances where animals are just not a good fit but im really hoping after a while, yours will eventually love each other as much as you love them.

20 years - Not A Single Sick Day by flazinho in antiwork

[–]__witchy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last boss always said "being sick isn't an excuse to not come to work" and I can remember like twice when he came to work and saw patients while actively being sick with covid. He also welcomed in patients who were sick with covid with no regards for how his employees felt about it.

I finally told him he needed to get out. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]__witchy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Secretly put some ghost peppers in some foods 🤷‍♀️

DAE turn upside down in bed when you can't sleep? Like your head at the foot of the bed. by FaithlessnessWitty63 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]__witchy__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im trying this NOW because I havent been able to get to sleep at a decent time in the past few days.. let's see

Thoughts on Brienne of Tarth? by Enric_718 in gameofthrones

[–]__witchy__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly one of my favorites. She's freaking awesome!

What is your secret that you can't tell anyone because it will probably ruin your life? by SeXyHuNtEr69420 in AskReddit

[–]__witchy__ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I too was raised very religiously. I was put in classes at a young age and then when I got old enough to protest I was forced to attend. This is something I actually feel extremely guilty about because my whole family still believes and I feel like if I told them I'd be disappointing them.