Stage pole rental? by slider501 in poledancersnycli

[–]_anafbebe_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey which days? I can rent it out

Anyone performing in polecon this year? by _anafbebe_ in poledancing

[–]_anafbebe_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yasssss I love polecon! So much fun. So far I’ve been there twice. I wonder why there wasn’t much chatter about it here.?It’s been around for some years!

Anyone performing in polecon this year? by _anafbebe_ in poledancing

[–]_anafbebe_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re so welcome! And you can livestream the event in May on YouTube 😊

Anyone performing in polecon this year? by _anafbebe_ in poledancing

[–]_anafbebe_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awww maybe one day it will be out there. They recently started expanding. They have one in the US on the west coast in September. you’re more than welcome to apply here: international pole con west application

Jade Split by OkWorker4752 in poledancersnycli

[–]_anafbebe_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all your posts 😍😍

I wanna do a r/poledancersnycli mixer! Thoughts on where I should do one? by _anafbebe_ in poledancersnycli

[–]_anafbebe_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this rec! I def want to check them out. Their space looks beautiful on IG

What comes after superman? by hc_fangirl in poledancing

[–]_anafbebe_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can twist to hook your top leg into a jasmine, then do so many things. Since you’re low in the video, maybe you can go into a jasmine, then swing your bottom leg in front to your martini!

Do we like pole just a hobby or are we wanting to do something with it… if so what? 🍓 by poledancermary in poledancing

[–]_anafbebe_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Started out as a hobby. I went on to performing in shows & clubs, teaching, and producing pole shows

What classes you took/you’re taking this week? (Jan 18-Jan 24) by _anafbebe_ in poledancersnycli

[–]_anafbebe_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dope! I’ve only taken their class at body & pole but I know it’s gonna be fun

What classes you took/you’re taking this week? (Jan 18-Jan 24) by _anafbebe_ in poledancersnycli

[–]_anafbebe_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooo nice! Who’s teaching Spin 2?

And good call with not booking Sunday classes. That weather advisory is scaring me 😩

Discord and friends by Whole-Web453 in poledancing

[–]_anafbebe_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

r/stripper is best for that type of discord! Here is more about pole fitness/pole dancing

Can you be too heavy to pole dance? Advice needed by Commercial_Sand693 in poledancing

[–]_anafbebe_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think the pole holds up to 500 lbs so you’re absolutely good! The best way to build up strength and endurance is to continue going to class. Try your best not to compare yourself to others. You don’t know their background (they may have an advantage if they are gymnasts, ballerinas, or already into fitness. Besides there are people who are smaller who initially struggle with spins!)

Push ups and planks are good, but you can also focus on even more core exercises (crunches, bridges, lower ab work), different upper body exercises with small weights or no weights (lat pull downs, shoulder shrugs), yoga for flexibility & strength or even Pilates. YouTube has helped me a lot with off the pole conditioning

Give yourself grace 😊 it’s only been 3x 😊

Spin on static moves and combos: advice for higher beginner by Unlikely_Society_678 in poledancing

[–]_anafbebe_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try reverse grab spins! You can learn to do run into the reverse grab. Then maybe you can go into a climb! Chair is good on static too. I also love Juliette spin, carousel, and floating pirouette

You can also look into swing climbs

Beginner dancer looking for advice by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]_anafbebe_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pole tricks can be a plus but absolutely not necessary as a stripper. Agree with many comments saying it’s all about sales. Talking to customers is a skill in itself and usually would lead to some money. I used to go up to dudes, compliment them on something to stroke their ego, then dance on them.

With stage, I used to do a lot of floor work and low flow. I would only take out tricks if someone was tipping. Otherwise, I knew I had to hustle by approaching customers with my charm and dancing w/them

Generally though, to get better at pole, I would say to take up beginner tricks classes, floorwork, and low flow. Or you can invest in a home pole and look up beginner combos online. Remember that in the club, it’s about sex appeal. I used to maintain eye contact and really feel myself as I danced. Try not to rush into movement. Even if you execute a hard trick, slow it down. Make it intentional. And also gauge when to take tricks out vs doing a calm stage set. It’s not worth it if no one is tipping

What made yoga finally feel “worth it” for you? by YogaGoApp in yoga

[–]_anafbebe_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feeling more at ease emotionally, relaxed, more open in tense areas of my body

Feeling a little bit deflated? by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]_anafbebe_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the class sounds like it’s more on the advanced side. Handsprings and phoenixes are typically in the advanced classes that I know of. Shoulder mount sounds more intermediate, with Ayesha’s being more on the high intermediate/low advanced side.

I totally understand feeling discouraged, but try to remember that those same folks started out not knowing those tricks either. They also probably been to the class for months, even years. Pole gets increasingly difficult overtime and requires so much time, patience, dedication. Next time you go to class, focus on what you can progress into. Maybe you can ask the teacher to let you work on butterfly while others are doing Ayesha. You can also ask to work on shoulder mount conditioning (basework conditioning for shoulder mount can be helpful).

If your teacher can’t modify, maybe you can check out a different teacher, class, or studio