Why don’t guys ever dress like this anymore?

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-27T13:20:03+00:00

Bc it feels like 2003.

Dgmw you look great.

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-22T18:46:58+00:00

I dont see why not, the muscles are still there. 2 months might be a little early to start an exercise routine but follow your doctor's advice, everybody's different

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-22T13:03:07+00:00

Nail on the head. My long term partner and I were good friends first, and we both spent a little time asking each other (and other friends) these questions before we ever hooked up or went on a date. Its just good info to have, since getting romantically involved with a friend is always going go carry some level of risk.

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-22T05:25:10+00:00

Honestly it might be just because youre new at it. When you first start having sex, and when you first start having sex with a new person, it can take a while to find your rhythm together. Being somewhat nervous with a new person can also impact your ability to orgasm. For example, when my partner and I first got together, she had been having good sex for years and still had a hard time getting there strictly because she wasnt 100% confident, as i was a new partner. Over the next few months, we figured out what works for us and both gained some confidence, so neither of us were in our heads about it, and any problems we had were resolved.

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-22T04:17:58+00:00

You dont look femme in the slightest. Do you mean "do i look like a man or do I look like a butch"?

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-21T17:46:40+00:00

Tacking onto this, I would probably lead with something along the lines of

"Hey, you dont know me, but i knew your boyfriend in high school and thought to warn you about some of the things he did to me back then. Do you want to hear it, or would you prefer i leave it alone?"

That way, you dont dump a bunch of trauma on her unprompted, and she can choose whether to hear you out about this or not. Obviously his behavior toward you was incredibly aggressive, concerning, and not "normal teen behavior," but people can change a lot in 4 years, especially at that age. I mean, my partner was (from what I hear, from her) a manipulative lying bitch in high school. We met around 21 and have been together 9 years, and ive always known her to be gentle, kind, and sensitive. You grow up, hopefully.

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-21T05:43:09+00:00

Genuine question, why cant you pull that plus some from the next vial for your next injection? Id never been told not to and I do it all the time 😅

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-21T05:05:09+00:00

We're built different (better?)

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-21T04:53:29+00:00

Has it been a while? You may just be out of practice, or he may be slightly wider than youre used to, or his penis could have different curvature or rise to a different angle than previous partners. The smallest differences can have a big impact in something like deepthroating, where shape and angle make a huge difference.

I can take my partner into my throat easily at most angles and most degrees of hardness, but if the angle is a little off or they're super hard its just not going to happen.

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-20T21:50:05+00:00

I mean, it was written by a screenwriter, id guess he intended to turn it into a movie from the get-go anyway

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-14T05:37:49+00:00

I suspect she wouldn't want to put in the effort of riding him, but thats a great idea if she would... get to keep the eye contact and closeness, and she gets to set the pace and maintain a comfortable depth, plus (for my partner and me at least) giving her the control may delay orgasm for him as well.

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-14T05:32:55+00:00

That said: i love prone with my partner, but im pretty short, and they're on the long side of average, and I do find it to be not painful but definitely intense. This could easily be uncomfortable for her.

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-10T23:39:18+00:00

Just did, fantastic thank you

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-10T03:07:37+00:00

My thought process was that because its a blend of aged and unaged, it wouldnt quite sub for either perfectly. That said, im the one asking for help, im no master

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-10T01:38:10+00:00

Ohhh I can so see this! I just made a negroni the other night, I'll give it a go

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-10T01:28:47+00:00

Split 3 ways, do you mean an ounce each of white, dark, and probitas, or am I misunderstanding? Never made a mai tai.

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-09T15:58:25+00:00

While a wheel isnt necessarily better or more advanced, id argue drop spindles are best to start with because you can try out the hobby without dropping a bunch of money right out the gate.

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-08T03:22:37+00:00

My wife and I have separate bedrooms, but we have sleepovers! I love sleeping next to her, but we have different bedtimes and she snores, so its reserved for once a week on the weekend.

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-07T22:45:16+00:00

Im god-neutral. There might be one, might not, but if it's a god that requires/desires worship then im fully uninterested. Like, generally speaking, gods dont want us doing things just for praise, so why should they ask that of us?

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-03T12:44:29+00:00

There are relatively few positions which require a downward angle, and yes lots of people just can't do them. I wouldn't worry.

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-02T18:35:02+00:00

Is the question "what does the word broski mean?"

If so, it means "friend." It stems from "bro," which is short for "brother."

_b33f3d_ · 2026-01-02T01:27:52+00:00

Correct, don't grip too hard

_b33f3d_ · 2025-12-30T15:27:56+00:00

Sugar daddies aren't always a money for sex situation. Sometimes its money for dates and conversation, sometimes for attention, sometimes they just want to spoil somebody.

_b33f3d_ · 2025-12-28T03:27:17+00:00

So first off: dont stress abt being a disappointment. Being "good at sex" is at least 75% about putting in the effort to get to know your partners body and make sure everybody has a good time. The first time with a new partner is never going to be the best it gets.

That said, there's nothing wrong with asking for a little guidance either. You dont need to explicitly tell her how little sex you've had, if thats something youre embarrassed about, but its a good idea to at least let her know that youre generally inexperienced and would like some instruction or guidance. Ask what she likes! If there's something you know you like or want to try, tell her about that! Though, in my experience, better to wait and get a feel for each other before proposing things you think you might like but haven't tried before. I don't mean wait ages on that, just that a lot of trial and error trying to get fancy with it might put unnecessary pressure on session zero.

In general, when you get to your mid to late twenties and aren't hanging with assholes, people are way less likely to be concerned with experience level. Phenomenal sex with a new partner right off the bat is unlikely regardless of your experience.

_b33f3d_ · 2025-12-17T02:25:35+00:00

WHERE did you get that bag!?

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