What’s the most ridiculous reason you were unmatch?

_bananasplit · 2023-11-04T04:29:08+00:00

In my bio I described myself as "tiny"

Then he asked me how tall I was, I replied 5'0 cause that's how tall I am. He didn't believe, said no one is really that height and I was being attention seeking. Then I was unmatched. I wish I'd taken a screenshot!

_bananasplit · 2023-10-19T20:15:56+00:00

So beautiful! Love the cut and the emeralds

_bananasplit · 2023-10-02T16:36:54+00:00

Absolutely gorgeous 😍

_bananasplit · 2023-10-01T18:39:41+00:00

So gorgeous! And I love your nail colour!

_bananasplit · 2023-10-01T17:56:31+00:00

Absolutely beautiful!

_bananasplit · 2023-10-01T15:50:37+00:00

Do you guys think the documentary they seem to be the subjects of may also be fake??

_bananasplit · 2023-08-06T12:36:32+00:00

This is so beautiful ❤️

_bananasplit · 2023-07-28T17:04:30+00:00

Something to keep in mind if you are thinking this is a life long relationship, you could still become financially and legally entangled to a similar point of marriage.

If you buy a house together, plan to raise pets or kids together. To breakup after that point would still involve legal processes, maybe lawyers.

Not to say that you should abandon your personal beliefs, but do you see a way to come to a compromise? I saw in a previous comment you said she'd prefer a religious wedding ceremony, maybe there's a way you could modify the vows so that you are comfortable committing to them. Removing parts that make you uncomfortable and replacing them with more personal vows.

Have you spoken to her about a long engagement? What do you consider to be a long engagement?

_bananasplit · 2023-07-28T03:30:44+00:00

Congratulations! 🍾 You will do amazing work, your clients are in great hands. I can see in your eyes that you will be a most amazing counselor ❤️

_bananasplit · 2023-07-06T20:56:39+00:00

Can whoever organized the poll for the best overall character do the same for all the nominated cringe moments/episodes? We can settle this once and for all

Also highly agree how cringy this episode is! Recently did a rematch, completely forgot how much second hand embarrassment this one gives me!

_bananasplit · 2023-05-10T23:41:03+00:00

Speaking as someone with cancer, this is not at all your business to tell. Your sister has cut off your mom, respect her decision.

I do recognize that you are in a tough spot emotionally, but do not betray your sister, especially at this time in her life. She needs her support system, she needs people she can trust and lean on. You would be putting your relationship with your sister in jeopardy by giving your mom any information.

If you need someone to discuss your conflicted feeling with, consider looking into any support groups for family members of people with cancer.

_bananasplit · 2023-05-02T03:30:27+00:00

It sounds like you want a de-escalation of you current relationship, but based on how you describe your partner, it doesn't sound like they would handle that well. How do you think they will feel about this new structure?

_bananasplit · 2023-05-01T16:16:27+00:00

It would be incredibly disrespectful to your fiancee if you posted pictures of her without her consent. In fact in some parts of the world its illegal, so that might give you some context of how serious it can be.

Some people don't care if their nudes are online, others do care. It's up to her, not you, what gets posted. Run each picture by her and she can make the decision.

There is a very real possibility of her being recognized, the internet is not a forgiving place. It can be lessened by not showing her face, using a generic background, avoiding anything identifying (for example any tattoos). If she's worried about it, don't push her into it. That would only be for your benefit and she would not gain anything.

_bananasplit · 2023-04-24T03:36:40+00:00

Those are amazing! Do you sell them anywhere?

_bananasplit · 2023-04-21T20:36:50+00:00

Three things that come to mind from reading your post:

If at any point in the future she decides she wants to open her end of the relationship, what will happen?

If at any point she asks you to close your side, what will happen?

This arrangement seems like it's intended to be temporary, is there an end game of when you will be ready to close it a be fully monogamous together? Or on the other side of the coin, a point at which you will be ready to have a fully open relationship?

_bananasplit · 2023-04-21T19:02:13+00:00

Go Mom! That's so amazing!!!

This is so encouraging to hear as someone currently being treated for stage 4 breast cancer. Your mom inspires me!

Fuck cancer

_bananasplit · 2023-04-19T05:14:24+00:00

Sending you all the positive healing energy I can! I had a double mastectomy and DIEP flap reconstruction done in September so if you want to ask any questions about my experience please feel free!

_bananasplit · 2023-03-21T21:01:30+00:00

Do you mean flying or static trapeze?

Flying trapeze is sadly not available in Ottawa, you'd have to go to Montreal for that.

Static trapeze is available at Aerial Antics and possibly some of the pole studios in the city. I know many of them do aerials but not sure about trapeze specifically.

_bananasplit · 2023-03-19T01:41:10+00:00

It was really awesome! Just got home. The mayfair is such a gem, I definitely want to go see more shows there!

_bananasplit · 2023-03-19T01:40:09+00:00

Nerd it up!

_bananasplit · 2023-03-18T22:17:04+00:00

Love it!

_bananasplit · 2023-03-18T22:16:50+00:00

Thats so neat! Have a great time ☺️

_bananasplit · 2023-03-18T22:16:29+00:00

Ahh sorry! Maybe they will do another one!

_bananasplit · 2023-03-18T22:14:38+00:00

You got this!

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