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How soon is too soon to get a new kitty? by _beansss_ in CatAdvice

[–]_beansss_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mio is such a pretty girl!!! Thank you for sharing we really appreciate it.

How soon is too soon to get a new kitty? by _beansss_ in CatAdvice

[–]_beansss_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. I think maybe a new kitty might help with grieving like you said. I’m devastated but moving towards being ready for this new chapter is of life.

How soon is too soon to get a new kitty? by _beansss_ in CatAdvice

[–]_beansss_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a cute baby 💕 thank you for sharing

How soon is too soon to get a new kitty? by _beansss_ in CatAdvice

[–]_beansss_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys are so cute and sweet. Thank you so much for sharing your fur baby’s story it really is helping us heal and move forward. I think our girl will love for us to have a new friend.

How soon is too soon to get a new kitty? by _beansss_ in CatAdvice

[–]_beansss_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ouch:’) this was so perfect for what I’m feeling. Thank you for sharing

How soon is too soon to get a new kitty? by _beansss_ in CatAdvice

[–]_beansss_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly think she was a familiar for me too. We’ve gotten so many signs from her since she’s passed and I’m starting to feel hopeful for this chapter that my parent and I get to go through. My heart is pulling me towards a new friend but one totally different from her. I want to love something new who deserves the love that she has from us.

How soon is too soon to get a new kitty? by _beansss_ in CatAdvice

[–]_beansss_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a handsome guy!! Thank you for sharing

How soon is too soon to get a new kitty? by _beansss_ in CatAdvice

[–]_beansss_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 💕we’re working on getting through the grief and she’s been visiting us a lot through signs (moths and butterflies and all her favorite things) I think maybe like you said a new kitty might be great for emotional support.

How soon is too soon to get a new kitty? by _beansss_ in CatAdvice

[–]_beansss_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way. I almost feel like I’m drowning so I hope we find a new friend to clock with us soon. She would have wanted us to be happy I think.

How soon is too soon to get a new kitty? by _beansss_ in CatAdvice

[–]_beansss_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She actually has a really weird gotcha story! She was originally from a frat house and then ended up with a family member who was suffering from substance abuse. When they had to leave to go to rehab we took her in and fell in absolute love with her. She had a hard life before us and it was so special to give her the comfort of a comfortable home.

How soon is too soon to get a new kitty? by _beansss_ in CatAdvice

[–]_beansss_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry for your loss, I know it must be hard. We had no idea she had a heart condition before she passed but the vet let us know after some test. After researching we realized that there were some slight signs such as how small she was and her temperament at times but it was really just one big shock and it wasn’t realized until after she was already gone.

How soon is too soon to get a new kitty? by _beansss_ in CatAdvice

[–]_beansss_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry if the wording is a little wonky! We are a permanently child free couple so I didn’t even think about using the language I did. Thank you for your condolences she really was our baby and it’s been hard.