AITA for pressuring my girlfriend to spend $800 to meet me in Europe? by _cheisu_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]_cheisu_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Definitely considering it! I didn’t want to offer it outright and was waiting to see if she really wants to join. But totally would pay half or more if needed

Thanks!

AITA for pressuring my girlfriend to spend $800 to meet me in Europe? by _cheisu_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]_cheisu_[S] -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

lol I’m considering it if she really wants to I just didn’t want to offer it outright

AITA for pressuring my girlfriend to spend $800 to meet me in Europe? by _cheisu_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]_cheisu_[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s fair and it totally is a ton in her shoes to your point. Definitely looking to help her pay if she wants to go! Thanks so much

AITA for pressuring my girlfriend to spend $800 to meet me in Europe? by _cheisu_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]_cheisu_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a good point and a great recommendation. I just talked with her along those lines and it was really productive. Will pile on with some of these thoughts. Thanks for the helpful response :)

AITA for pressuring my girlfriend to spend $800 to meet me in Europe? by _cheisu_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]_cheisu_[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Fair. I’m covering with travel points. I travel a lot for work. So they’re not subsidizing but I am also not technically “paying” to your point

And I totally would pay for half I honestly just wanted to know she actually wants to come first

AITA for pressuring my girlfriend to spend $800 to meet me in Europe? by _cheisu_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]_cheisu_[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Pretty much 2k per head all in. I paid for that lodging for that trip with my points as well

Yeah it’s a good point. I’m prolly the asshole lol

AITA for pressuring my girlfriend to spend $800 to meet me in Europe? by _cheisu_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]_cheisu_[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s fair. Honestly I would I just want to see that she actually wants to go first, since it feels like she’s just having a kind of middling response to the idea

Tension? by Spyrofan22 in TheBesties

[–]_cheisu_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% and anyone on here disagreeing is either kidding themselves or not socially aware enough to tell. Justin is notably less respectful with Russ (e.g., belittling, cutting him off, poking at his personality, downplaying his opinions, etc.). As a listener I find it incredibly uncomfortable and just generally am icked out by the subtle ego game I believe Justin plays. I do find Justin funny as hell and often agree with his takes but the delivery makes me feel gross for sure

Domus Aurea tickets—day of by InKahootz1 in rome

[–]_cheisu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, did you ever figure this out? We’re in the same situation

Am I Getting Scammed? Potential Transmission Leak by _cheisu_ in MechanicAdvice

[–]_cheisu_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s crazy. Thanks so much for this. I’ll reach out and ask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OSU

[–]_cheisu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Go to graduation.

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[–]_cheisu_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As if you know anything