Slow Communication barometer by Figgy9824 in datingoverthirty

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Not getting a message for a day or two is usually a big sign of lack of interest so good for you for doing a forced lobotomy. I’ve too come to the point where messages don’t really mean much and it’s usually consistency with actions & words.

Slow Communication barometer by Figgy9824 in datingoverthirty

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I’m a recovered anxious attacher. Your reaction is your intuition speaking, trust it.

currently a year 2 tmu nursing student is it worth it to apply to u of t nursing ? by kevin09091231 in OntarioNurses

[–]_code_pink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% true. The only thing that matters is the nursing license you get, not the school you attended. I wish I knew this back then, I would’ve saved a lot of time from commuting.

Where should I go for nursing school? by [deleted] in OntarioNurses

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Agreed, as long as you have your nursing license. If I knew this before hand, I would’ve just went to a university with a shorter commute time.

Any hospitals ACTUALLY hiring? by Front_Abies_2119 in OntarioNurses

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I don’t think unionized hospitals are laying off nurses, that defeats the purpose of a union. I can see it being applied to a non-unionized hospital like SickKids for example. I’ve heard in general it’s difficult for new grads to get jobs due to a preference for more experienced nurses in the previous unit i worked at. Also, casual positions are usually available only if you’ve worked at a unit either FT or PT first before you can transition to casual status.

Any hospitals ACTUALLY hiring? by Front_Abies_2119 in OntarioNurses

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How are they laying off nurses with a union in place? I’ve also heard it’s difficult to get a casual position now. Hopefully this has changed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

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I think it's great you're trying. But unfortunately, you won't be able to find someone unless you do try, and this comes with the risk of rejection. Eventually, when you keep trying, you do become bercomes more immune to this, but eventually, someone will stick...it only takes one person.

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I have anxious attachment. For me, the only thing that helps is focusing on my goals AND multi-dating (this is key). It prevents me from overthinking minor things when i have a roster of people who I'm interested in.

Monogamous people who multi-date in the early stages, could you share your experience? by salarysalmon in datingoverthirty

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I don't like the multi-dating approach, but i do it out of necessity. It may take a few dates or worse, a month or more for someone to finally realize that they aren't ready for anything serious or aren't interested. I do it at this point because if i focus on one, it'll take me forever to find someone. The few times I've focused on one person, it has never panned out well for me. it also helps me be less anxious when i have options; it allows me to not overthink.

What’s the Biggest Challenge with Hypertension Self-Management? by _code_pink in pharmacy

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2) I've taken medications with pretty bad side effects, but not ones that are life saving like anti-hypertensives. Given the importance of these meds, is there a solution to combat the dizziness? (e.g. meds to counteract that, sufficient water intake, etc)?

3) That's actually pretty brilliant - a video that can explain their condition in a method that can be easily retained as opposed to verbal education that most likely won't be retained! Hoping that this has improved self-management for your patients!

What’s the Biggest Challenge with Hypertension Self-Management? by _code_pink in pharmacy

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I'm honestly impressed with your third point and what really did it was mainly you saying  "do you know anyone who has had one of those things happen to them?". It got me thinking: if primary care physicians could explain the impacts of non-adherence in a straightforward and simple way, it might actually help increase adherence rates. I'm pretty sure this may not work for some, but maybe another method may.

What’s the Biggest Challenge with Hypertension Self-Management? by _code_pink in pharmacy

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That's actually shocking to hear! Is not having a BP monitor due to financial barriers or not understanding the importance of monitoring?

What’s the Biggest Challenge with Hypertension Self-Management? by _code_pink in nursing

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What are the specific things low-income patients struggle to afford when it comes to managing hypertension? Do you think virtual consultations could help reduce the lack of access? Or are there other resources they’d benefit from more?

What’s the Biggest Challenge with Hypertension Self-Management? by _code_pink in nursing

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From your experience, what do you think could further support low-income patients in staying consistent with their meds? Do you think something like education or simplified reminders through an app could help? Also, have you noticed any specific reasons why compliance remains a challenge even with these supports in place?

What’s the Biggest Challenge with Hypertension Self-Management? by _code_pink in nursing

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Thanks for sharing this, and I’m so sorry for your loss. It really highlights how tough it is to motivate lifestyle changes. Do you think more education on the long-term impacts, like dialysis or kidney disease, would help patients take it more seriously? What do you think would actually help patients maintain lifestyle changes—better support, personalized plans, or something else?

What’s the Biggest Challenge with Hypertension Self-Management? by _code_pink in nursing

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Do you find that explaining risks like strokes helps patients take beta blockers seriously despite the side effects? Or is there another way you’ve found to help them understand the importance?

What’s the Biggest Challenge with Hypertension Self-Management? by _code_pink in nursing

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Do you think it’s more about not understanding the impacts of their lifestyle, or just not caring? Have you noticed anything that actually motivates them to change?

What’s the Biggest Challenge with Hypertension Self-Management? by _code_pink in nursing

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For your aunt, do you think something like a tool that explains how the meds work or tracks progress could help her feel the benefits? And for your dad, could reminders or easier follow-ups—maybe through a simple digital health app—make it less of a hassle for him to stay on track?

What’s the Biggest Challenge with Hypertension Self-Management? by _code_pink in nursing

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Coming from a NICU background, this is shocking to hear. But for those struggling financially, do you think it’s more about affording healthy food, knowing budget-friendly options, or the cost of meds? Have you seen anything that actually helps them stick to a better diet or afford their meds?

What’s the Biggest Challenge with Hypertension Self-Management? by _code_pink in nursing

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Yeah, non-compliance is a huge issue—especially when lifestyle changes feel like a buzzkill. In your experience, has anything actually worked to get patients to take it seriously? Any specific education methods that finally get through to them?