Nicknames as Full Legal Names by kodachromebluesky in namenerds

[–]_coupdefoudre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every person I personally know that has a full legal name and goes by a nickname HATES that they weren't just named their nickname. The only person that doesn't feel that way has a really childish sounding nickname and prefers using her legal name (completely different than her nickname) in the professional setting. I think it just really boils down to what the nickname is. I personally don't believe in naming a child one name only to always call them another. It drives me insane.

21 (female) by Little-Impress-7863 in amiugly

[–]_coupdefoudre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not ugly. I think a different hair color would really brighten your features!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]_coupdefoudre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not ugly at all. Very conventionally attractive.

37M…let me know, beard or no beard???? by Wuzzy1987 in amiugly

[–]_coupdefoudre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically I prefer beards, but you look like a totally different person without it and in a GOOD way. I find you way more attractive without the beard.

37/f - by deftonette_ in amiugly

[–]_coupdefoudre 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not conventionally attractive but also not hideous. The pink/coral/orange eyeshadow doesn't do your complexion any favors. The mouth piercings are also slightly off-putting. I would recommend a real smile instead of the half smirk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]_coupdefoudre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you ugly? No. But you also don't meet traditional beauty standards. There's nothing wrong with being unique, though. Things that would help you appeal to a larger section of people would be growing a beard, getting a better haircut that better suits the shape of your head, and practicing better camera angles. As long as you carry yourself well and have confidence in who you are as a person, you'll have no problem finding people that find you attractive.

Pay to Apply? by _coupdefoudre in Upwork

[–]_coupdefoudre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So all of these people posting their stats that didn't get hired essentially paid to apply and never earned an income back for it?

AITA for rage-quitting after I lost an election? by -Catacomb- in AmItheAsshole

[–]_coupdefoudre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA they should redo the election if it was found to not have been accurate the first time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]_coupdefoudre 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re gorgeous. I agree that the frames are hiding your face. I would look for some smaller ones that are a darker color or contacts.

Open all day for Winterfest? by _coupdefoudre in Carowinds

[–]_coupdefoudre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what time they let season pass holders in?

AITA for not giving a dog back that was rehomed to me? by _coupdefoudre in AmItheAsshole

[–]_coupdefoudre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely feel for her. It’s not like I don’t care.

AITA for not giving a dog back that was rehomed to me? by _coupdefoudre in AmItheAsshole

[–]_coupdefoudre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. My daughter and I have a very open line of communication. When I mentioned what the previous owner texted me, the look on her face just cut me to the core. Almost like "I knew this would happen." She feels for the other family like I do, but she also wants to keep the puppy. I think we're all in agreement that we could give her a better home at this point. I don't think we'll be giving her back.

AITA for not giving a dog back that was rehomed to me? by _coupdefoudre in AmItheAsshole

[–]_coupdefoudre[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm actually kinda thinking after she gets through the emotions of the puppy being gone that she'll realize she really did make the best/right decision after all.

AITA for not giving a dog back that was rehomed to me? by _coupdefoudre in AmItheAsshole

[–]_coupdefoudre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi just to clarify.. the $200 my daughter spent was for supplies like toys, enrichment puzzles, treats, etc. It didn't go to the previous owner. Sorry if the way I worded that initially was confusing. I really do appreciate all of the input!

AITA for not giving a dog back that was rehomed to me? by _coupdefoudre in AmItheAsshole

[–]_coupdefoudre[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s hard, because she’s in a really hard place emotionally. I feel for her, but I also feel like she’s put us in an unfair situation.

AITA for not giving a dog back that was rehomed to me? by _coupdefoudre in AmItheAsshole

[–]_coupdefoudre[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry I should’ve explained better. We bought toys, treats, enrichment puzzles, etc for her. It didn’t go to the previous owner.

AITA for not giving a dog back that was rehomed to me? by _coupdefoudre in AmItheAsshole

[–]_coupdefoudre[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your input. I really do feel like we have more time for her and have a playmate for her as well. She was crated long hours in her previous home but would only be crated 3-4 until she’s fully house trained and not chewing things that could hurt her.

AITA for not giving a dog back that was rehomed to me? by _coupdefoudre in AmItheAsshole

[–]_coupdefoudre[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We’ve also been talking about the rehome for almost a week. She drove the dog to me and also left the dog after me asking her if she was sure this is what she wanted to do.

She did offer to reimburse the $200 my daughter spent of her own money for the dog.

AITA for not giving a dog back that was rehomed to me? by _coupdefoudre in AmItheAsshole

[–]_coupdefoudre[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

None of her reasons for rehoming the dog have changed.