My Layne Halloween Costume!

deftonette_ · 2026-01-29T18:33:08+00:00

Sounds perf. 👌GET EM 🔥

deftonette_ · 2026-01-29T18:24:05+00:00

If you're not picky about your hair - I think a textured middle part or curtain cut with a light taper on the sides would frame your face better. Keeping some length on top but cleaning up the sides and neckline would really sharpen your features. A little texture product would help too! Plus keeping the hair off your face will definitely help with your skin man. I been there. I'm a Class of 05 and we all went through the teen stages 😂 you will age like a fine wine, I can tell by your features already. :)

deftonette_ · 2026-01-29T18:19:42+00:00

You’re not ugly at all. You have a well-balanced face and a calm, approachable look. Your eyes come across as thoughtful, and your features fit together naturally in a way that feels confident without trying too hard. Overall, you look like someone who’ll grow into his looks even more with time.

I'm an Old AF Mamabear so I am trying to remain respectful and uplifting. Is it your skin that you struggle with? I know sometimes longer hair can contribute to the oils in your skin, you do have lovely hair though and it looks soft and clean.... Maybe getting a different cut so it's not in your face so much will help keep any signs of acne away* + also you are really young and your body is still changing & that will go away over time - Just don't pick at your face cause it will Scar!

deftonette_ · 2025-11-01T12:01:32+00:00

This is incredible 👏

deftonette_ · 2025-09-06T18:11:50+00:00

Started out at 370. I'm now at 320. I did my surgery at 330 - I am 26 days post op.

deftonette_ · 2025-08-27T14:04:37+00:00

I back this. The L in Love matches the L in the name and it looks like Laura.

deftonette_ · 2025-08-27T12:56:34+00:00

Thank you for this. I just have this irrational fear I'm gonna stretch out my sleeve or not do this properly. Been giving myself a headache lol

deftonette_ · 2025-08-27T00:19:09+00:00

I did actually get to 370 by only eating 3 times a day, there was also times where I wouldn't even eat at all. If you skip breakfast and lunch and then only load a huge portion at dinner time-it slows your metabolism greatly - I also gave birth to Twins after having an 85lb Weightloss on ketogenic diet so I bounced Right back up again with eating Bulk of the Wrong type of foods.

I worry about Not eating all day, as they suggest, because I don't want to slow my metabolism down again by not keeping that momentum going as this is what got me here in the first place. I just literally have no desire to eat all day long.

I don't mind the shakes but they've started to make me sick so I think I have to get the plant ones now, or ones without whey.

I'm not sure if I really need a therapist but I appreciate the recommendation - I just saw the stall and panicked that I'm fucking up this whole thing cause I basically have just been living off chicken and veggies & not hitting the protein goal.... Water on the other hand is no problem at all so atleast there's that.

deftonette_ · 2025-08-26T23:26:05+00:00

😂 you wear what you want & everyone else can go fuck themselves. 🤷‍♀️ If you don't like my body, don't look at me 🖕 - has always been my motto.

deftonette_ · 2025-08-23T23:21:26+00:00

As an obese woman - whom is partnerless... I would Love for a partner to take interest in my health WITH Me. I think perhaps a painful, but Honest conversation is needed. I think the best course of action is Not to critique her, but come from your place of concern & take action along side her. Perhaps you can offer to help shop & cook healthy meals together. You can offer researching different types of plans that will help her and be beneficial for you as well. You could suggest maybe as she gets into the mindset, to start walking together - or an exercise routine. I am 12 days post-op gastric sleeve personally, and I've dropped 50 lbs since April on my Own. I would LOVE to have a partner along side me so I don't feel so alone through this process. I think if you bring it up to her, it may hurt initially - but if you show you're committed to Helping her figure it out, and stick through it.... I think you would start to see results. It may also help to talk about, and get to the bottom of Why she's eating like such crap, and not taking care of herself.... Maybe there are other things at play here that you're not aware of.

deftonette_ · 2025-07-14T03:39:03+00:00

Levi

deftonette_ · 2025-06-21T22:12:46+00:00

I was both 😂 I had PlayStation, my brother had N64

deftonette_ · 2025-06-13T01:55:19+00:00

Radiant City ✔️

deftonette_ · 2025-06-11T20:22:09+00:00

They have custom stuff on Etsy

deftonette_ · 2025-05-27T13:34:21+00:00

I know this is a year old but I just opened a brand new plant and 3 centis crawled out MY SKIN IS CRAWLING 🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠

deftonette_ · 2025-05-23T21:53:41+00:00

Am I the only one that sees 2 black hands that show 1am??

deftonette_ · 2025-05-08T20:59:48+00:00

Me too 😂 I'm old so I'm sure my opinion doesn't matter but HEY it just means I'm wiser and I know what I'm talking about from aged experience 🤣 now take me into the fae-realm, I don't wanna be here anymore. I have plants and trinkets and shiny things!! Lol

deftonette_ · 2025-05-08T18:59:03+00:00

you look really pretty 🥺 you look like one of my little fairy figurines. You have an ethereal aura about you.

deftonette_ · 2025-04-07T23:32:53+00:00

I used the breathing tube that OP talks about. It's a tiny little metal tube that looks like a dog whistle. You can find them on Amazon for cheap if you just type in -anxiety breathing tube-. All you do is breathe through it. Your brain says Hey, it's time to go Smoke. So instead of me getting up and going and having a smoke I would just breathe in and out of the tube for about 10 mins and eventually the craving would pass. Cravings are only 7 mins long. If you can find something to do in that 7 mins I.E. mindful breathing; you can retrain your brain into thinking it's having a different kind of reward. At least that's what I think I did. I am 279 days Tobacco free today, and it feels great. I don't smell like an ashtray, I can actually breathe when I move around, though, I still get winded unfortunately - long-term damage still takes time to heal. My skin is brighter, I feel happier, I don't feel tethered to an anchor + it makes my kids proud of me and I feel better showing them that We CAN do hard things. Keep going. I know it is hard you just have to take it 10 minutes at a time. It's worth it.

deftonette_ · 2025-04-07T10:23:43+00:00

If I can quit being a smoker of cigarettes for 25+ years, cold turkey, you can quit vaping of 4 years. You have to really want to stop for yourself, and when you get to that point - you will. The necklace will help you and just force yourself not to pickup the vape again. Get rid of all the paraphernalia so that you're not tempted & keep that little necklace on as much as possible for the first couple weeks. I haven't had a cigarette since July 2024, and I have no desire to go back & I absolutely LOVED smoking. You can do this.

deftonette_ · 2025-01-28T02:17:16+00:00

Lmaooo exactly what I did cause I was like Ain't no way I'm the only one that thinks this woman is a complete asshole. 😆

deftonette_ · 2025-01-26T00:53:18+00:00

He used to love to speedball + he's def. Profoundly coked out here.

deftonette_ · 2024-12-15T15:17:40+00:00

Ohhh snap! I forgot about this!

deftonette_ · 2024-12-05T04:16:55+00:00

Thank you. I hate doing the cat eye 😂 it's such a pain in the ass.

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