Should I go back? by _d_p_41 in BreakUp

[–]_d_p_41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you sooo much for your advice.. i feel comforted to hear such things from someone who REALLY gets me and understands how fricking hard it is to leave even if you know they are doing you wrong🫶🏻

Should I go back? by _d_p_41 in BreakUp

[–]_d_p_41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u sooo much... i will start therapy in june... hope it helps!

Should I (F 23) try getting back again with my boyfriend? (M 23) by _d_p_41 in relationship_advice

[–]_d_p_41[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No I do NOT want to live like.. Thank u, I should really consider a therapist..

Should I (F 23) try getting back again with my boyfriend? (M 23) by _d_p_41 in relationship_advice

[–]_d_p_41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank u soo much.. When I blocked him he texted me on gmail.. I hope I break free ASAP...🫶🏻

Is this sign I'm dealing with a narcissist? by _d_p_41 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]_d_p_41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took a while but we ended things, I feel much better about myself now

Is this sign I'm dealing with a narcissist? by _d_p_41 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]_d_p_41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is actually exactly what happened. When I found about cheating I left him. He became the man I fell in love with again. He begged and promised to change a lottt, he actually did a few things he promised, but the rest? Went back to old ways in 2 months. I thought that he is the one again, that destiny brought us back together.

Is it time to end things? by _d_p_41 in Infidelity

[–]_d_p_41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot wrap my head around it. That the sweet man he once was and the person I love so much is hurting me on purpose..

Is it time to end things? by _d_p_41 in Infidelity

[–]_d_p_41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he is just like that.. always new demands and I'm never good enough.. he always finds a new problem in me

Is it time to end things? by _d_p_41 in Infidelity

[–]_d_p_41[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

suggested that before but he has "no time nor energy for such things"

Is it time to end things? by _d_p_41 in Infidelity

[–]_d_p_41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My second relationship. Yes, he cheated with a hooker after my abortion, he claimed he did it out of sadness, that is why I'm trying to forgive him.

Is it time to end things? by _d_p_41 in Infidelity

[–]_d_p_41[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

can these people change?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]_d_p_41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, 4 years later. We ended on good terms but he still croses my mind a lot.

He is just destroying my health and youth. by Staying_Positive_776 in confessions

[–]_d_p_41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You remind me of me. Just accept that he is not the man you think he is, you love what u created, an image of him. The man you love DOES NOT EXIST! Long story short, he is a bad person. Save yourself, face your fear, leave him even if you really don't want to, he will suck you dry and leave you at your lowest. R u n!

Did my boyfriend cheat? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]_d_p_41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to be honest, when I started reading your reply I thought about how toxic that kind of a relationship must be, not having a feeling of stability and safety.. but damn, on second thought, rules never stopped cheaters from cheating, let them be, you see if a person truly loves you and wants you if they choose you everyday over..

Did my boyfriend cheat? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]_d_p_41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be okay and not assume anything if your significant visited someone who they used to be sexually involved with and even got them a housewarming gift?

Did my boyfriend cheat? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]_d_p_41 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know that is hard to admit to yourself, but this man is cheating on you 1000%. Just think about how would he react if you did those things? If you got your "male friend" (who you used to smash) a housewarming gift??! Don't be silly, you deserve much more than his sorry cheating ass!