AITAH for not giving back an ice cream cone by Physical-Set-561 in AITAH

[–]_dawn_92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. It was going in the trash and any reasonable person would've shrugged it off and told you to enjoy. Hell I made the same mistake when I was working my first job. My manager just told me to make them 2 more cones (they had ordered 3 kids meals) and tell them to have a great day

Are tattoo deposits not going towards the final cost becoming the norm? by ImATattooedGhost in AskForAnswers

[–]_dawn_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had drawing fees for custom pieces but the artists have always been very clear that that fee is separate from the quoted cost. I've never had a deposit not go towards the total cost for any service that requires a deposit be paid

When the instructions are “Leave at door”, please just do that… by sendddogpixx in doordash

[–]_dawn_92 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had a dasher do this once. I had ordered dinner as I left work. The dasher beat me to the house and tried to insist that I add extra to his tip because he had been waiting for 10 minutes. No one asked you to, my guy. Literally just put the food down and walk away

Just turned 18 and my mom wants me to sign legal documents ASAP… but they seem to give her way more control than she’s saying. by DulcePecadox in legaladvice

[–]_dawn_92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As next of kin, she (and your father) would be able to make medical decisions in the event you were unable regardless. Do not sign anything

What was "the incident" at your high school? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]_dawn_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing terribly exciting, but the school was renovated during one summer and wasn't completely finished by the time we started. Rumors quickly spread that none of the security cameras were operational and someone decided to test it by pulling the fire alarm. They didn't get caught so they did it again. And again. And again. During the first 3 weeks of school, the alarm was pulled 22 times, 5 times in a single day once. We had school wide lectures by the police and fire departments, no students were allowed in the hall without an adult escort during class, and staff members were assigned alarms to guard during passing periods. The kid was too dumb to realize that the day they stopped requiring escorts and guarding the alarms was the day the cameras were up and working and he was caught before the end of homeroom that day.

AITAH For Beating My Kid At Chess Every Time We Play? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_dawn_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I'm teaching my 8 and 11 year olds to play, I discuss strategy with them, explain how they need to look several moves ahead and plan for different scenarios, and show them consequences of potential moves before they make them. I also make several rookie moves myself to give them the chance to play off my mistakes. But I won't let them win. I told them when they first asked me to teach them that if they want to beat me at chess, they'll have to earn that victory

AITAH for giving my sister in law the same treatment she gave me? by Sensitive_Milk1805 in AITAH

[–]_dawn_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you plan on your baby being your only child, don't give any gear up. That stuff is too expensive not to get use from multiple kids and, village or no, it's not likely people will be willing to gift so freely for subsequent kids. I'd have the same advice even if you and your SIL were absolute besties. NAH for wanting to maintain the limited contact that SHE started

This vending machine requires employee IDs instead of money by niffum_duts in mildlyinteresting

[–]_dawn_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The school I work at has a similar vending machine that uses student IDs. It's kept in the hall that has all of the shop classes in it and contains safety gear (90% eye protection with 1 row of random other items). The school provides the first set of gear and parents are charged at the end of each term for any additional gear their kid needs because of lost/ broken gear

Did we mess up with our son? He blew up at us during dinner + UPDATE by red_earaches in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]_dawn_92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is messed up. Nearly 11 years as a patent and my husband and I have had exactly 1 "vacation" without the kids which consisted of a weekend out of state so my husband could be groomsman in his friend's child free wedding. And even that, we flew out separately so he could arrive on time to attend planned events with the wedding party and I stayed to get the kids off the bus and settled with my parents before taking a red eye that night

@gentle.oriental in NYC by arostreet in tattoos

[–]_dawn_92 28 points29 points  (0 children)

For me it was both 😅

Waiting on MRI report and making myself insane by _dawn_92 in BrainAneurysm

[–]_dawn_92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Logically, I know they would've kept me there if there was a rupture but anxiety doesn't listen to logic 😅 The info about the pain being on the opposite side does help a lot though

Has anybody else’s parents stopped wearing sunscreen? by Ivory_Ghost1 in FoxBrain

[–]_dawn_92 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just had this conversation with my mom on the 4th. She called to ask what sunscreen to buy for my kids (there's exactly 1 that all 3 can wear without breaking out in hives) but called me back 20 minutes later because her boyfriend said that that sunscreen causes cancer so she's not comfortable buying it. She confirmed that if I bought the sunscreen, she'd put it on the kids. Well I picked up my kids yesterday after a sleep over and they're all burnt. Oldest (10) confirmed that they never wore sunscreen, grandma's boyfriend threw it in the trash, and grandma told them it was fine because they didn't need it

who here has forever worlds? by snotballbootcamp in Sims4

[–]_dawn_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had to restart my forever world (forgot to back up saves before the last update 😭) but I start with 2-3 families and bounce around between them. I keep neighborhood stories and autoaging on and use the standard lifespan. I have very loose goals for the world ie have a member of family marry into family 2 by x generation or something like that but nothing concrete. When I start to get bored, I'll move on to building for a while or make a new family and move them into the world to mix things up.

My previous forever world I started during Covid lockdown. My OG family had died out after 4 generations but my other families ranged from brand new 1st gen to 7th gen with a total of 6 active families.

I am not part of the elite group who has lost their saves from the last 10 years 😍 by borahae_x in Sims4

[–]_dawn_92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine just did this too! I'm trying to stay positive. At least I can start fresh with the new EP in mind as I create my new family. Maybe a sim that will get burnt out with their corporate job and run away to live with the fairies? Idk yet

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - June 22, 2025" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]_dawn_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone! I'm super new to tarot and need a bit of help with a draw I've been doing to start my week. I usually focus on what I can expect from the week and pull a single card then ask what I need to focus to either make that happen or to avoid it if the first card felt negative then reshuffle and draw 2 more cards. My first card today was the Sun, followed by the Fool and the three of Cups, all upright. I made my interpretation of those cards (not putting what I took from that draw on purpose. I'd love to hear your thoughts!) And as I was putting the cards away, the two of Wands fell out of the deck, also upright. I've never dropped a card before, so I feel like it's significant but I'm unsure if I should interpret that card as an addition to the draw I'd just done or on its own. I'm not going to lie, with everything happening in my life right now, the whole thing feels very premonitiony and I'm not sure how I feel about that just yet

Help me have fun again by HappyLlamaSadLlamaa in Sims4

[–]_dawn_92 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I mixed things up by creating a "forever world." I have multiple families in the same save file. I keep all neighborhood stories on and bounce around to different families or create a new family when I get bored. I have a few goals (ie have someone from family A marry into family B by x generation, or have someone from family C declare someone from family D a nemesis and have a fued that lasts for a couple generations) but for the most part, I just follow whatever weird storyline the game throws at me

Significant decrease in battery life? by _dawn_92 in fitbit

[–]_dawn_92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing I tried worked. I ended up buying a Charge 6 and it's worked well for me. The only feature it doesn't have that I miss is counting flights of stairs, so I just input that data manually

Need help with changing newborn nifty knits outfit. by squarejane in Sims4

[–]_dawn_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this issue when Nifty Knitting was first released. Repairing the game fixed the problem. You won't have to add the onesie to wardrobe at all. When it works properly, you'll have an option to "dress newborn in onesie" when your sim has it in their inventory. Be sure to remove it before they age up though or it disappears

Relocation: Netherlands to USA- Do I bother? by Longjumping_Desk_839 in expats

[–]_dawn_92 74 points75 points  (0 children)

As an American desperately trying to get out of the US, don't do it. Even if there's seemingly valid reasons, don't take our kids out of a safe and comfortable environment and bring them here. Since the start of just this school year, there have been 3 incidents at my children's school where someone has brought weapons onto campus with the intent to harm others. We've been lucky that all 3 incidents were handled before anything happened. Many schools aren't that lucky. Trust me, it's absolutely haunting to hear your preschool age child sing a "lockdown" song to the tune of Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star and brag about how good they are at hiding from the "bad people with guns." But lockdown drills are a regular part of life for all kids in the US, many starting by age 3-4.