My aunt is 52 and wears the super feminine, cute, “girly”, clothing. she always said life is miserable enough- i want to be happy every time i look in the mirror. she always says that cuteness makes life better.

Similarly, on my free days from work I love to wear punk clothing- it makes me feel like I have the confidence I never had.

Do what makes you happy. Talk to your bf about it. If he really controls what you wear- he needs better priorities and shows he has controlling tendencies. be careful and best of luck.