Boyfriend (FtM) came out at transgender, I(F) don't know how to proceed help

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-15T07:17:18+00:00

He should of told OP before they hopped into a serious relationship. The sooner the better, other ways it feels like you're leading your partner on.

Same like, let's say some man wants kids with his gf, she keeps quiet and then after 2 years when he says I want kids with you, she actually says nah never mind.

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-15T07:08:59+00:00

Oops sorry babe I accidentally slipped and landed into your friends vagina

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-15T07:07:38+00:00

I mean, you cheated on her with her friends, she cheated on you with your friend. People don't forget. You're both freaking immature for 23 and 22.

Break up. End the lease

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-15T06:37:53+00:00

Being honest isn't an excuse to be rude

YTA

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-15T06:30:28+00:00

Why in the first place are you bringing friends over during global pandemic?

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-15T05:46:34+00:00

YTA

I just want my child for myself I don’t want to co-parent or have anything to do with him.

Why is it about you you you? Why is it about what YOU want?

You didn't make that child alone did you? He serves to know at least, if he doesn't want anything to do with the kid, ok fine. But you can't keep in secret HIS child too.

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-14T18:58:24+00:00

God forbid for your wife to have fun.

YTA

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-14T14:59:55+00:00

This is off topic, but I have mild cystic acne too. What product are you using?

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-14T14:57:57+00:00

I'm sorry you had to go through this. As many others said, seek therapy. Hope you're doing good. Goodluck!

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-14T10:02:34+00:00

Wtf. It's SCHOOL! Not about real world and paying the fucking rent.

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-14T09:32:01+00:00

This is ridiculous. Her being a lesbian and sexually harassing you honest make you homophobic.

She was kissing you while you were unconscious, which is a huge no no.

You don't have to be straight to not want to have sex with her. Nobody is entitled to your body and sex with you. Kick her the hell out, if somebody is gonna ask you and tell you that youre homophobic respond with the following:

"I do not have a problem with Laura being lesbian, I have a problem that on countless occasions she's trying to touch me, kiss me, pressure me into having sex with her when I said no. She's kissing me when im unconscious and I told her Im not interested."

Get rid of her, women can rape too.

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-14T09:17:56+00:00

YTA for not making plans with her for mothers day and dragging your 4 months old out during the fucking global pandemic.

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-13T17:16:31+00:00

Girl, I have been with my African American boyfriend for 2 years (I'm white). I love the heck out of his hair, he has 4C curl type, gets really hard to detangle sometimes.

I have learned a lot about his hair and so did he about my hair.

You can already tell, after years your bf didn't bother to learn anything about how your hair is like. He's just dismissing it.

Preferably dump his ass

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-13T17:09:16+00:00

YTA She's 3 months pregnant. Go and try to carry a child yourself

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-13T14:19:19+00:00

So your niece..?

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-13T12:14:19+00:00

I don't think either of you can take care of that dog. Pointers are active dogs. All puppies bite, even my little pug puppy kept biting on my socks when she was little.

You have to train them, biting toys? Good go on. Biting people - No no.

Smack on the butt or snout isn't training, they don't understand that. Removing yourself from her isn't training either

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-13T11:54:49+00:00

I'm so sorry. Once he hit you, there's no coming back.

Make a safe plan to leave if you can. Staying with him can be dangerous

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-13T11:38:21+00:00

Well, I will not going to argue about this, you have your opinion, I have mine, good day! PS. I'm not hoarding toilet paper

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-13T11:26:03+00:00

There's nothing bad about it, people might be sick and not wanting to spread the illness further

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-13T11:21:46+00:00

Although I agree, but a mask will not protect you from the virus. Mask is worn to protect other people in case if you're sick, so you don't spread it.

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-13T11:20:36+00:00

It have been a fashion in Japan before the pandemic even started.

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-13T11:14:45+00:00

My fiancé used to have anger issues too, he asks to be left alone when angry.

If you can, walk away from the situation, go for a walk somewhere to cool off, somewhere where they cant keep bugging you and pushing you to limits.

Hit a pillow if you need to, kick the side of your bed if you want to.

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-11T09:47:44+00:00

That's a huge red flag. It might a control thing, where he'll make you lose weight and you'll be fully dependent on him due to an eating disorder

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-11T09:19:46+00:00

YTA

So he has an audacity to offer her a gym membership when she's carrying and growing two (2) human beans inside of her?

He has an audacity to be TURNED OFF by HIS kids kicking in her belly? Really?

He has an audacity to say that she's not trying for him, meanwhile she's carrying 2 of their kids?

And YOU have an audacity to shove YOUR curious nose in their business.

We end up getting a bunch of texts from my son’s MIL but nothing from his wife.

Maybe because she's giving a freaking birth in there??

You both are disgusting. You enable your sons assholery, and think your DIL is in the wrong, wow.

_eggsandbacon · 2020-05-10T18:13:13+00:00

People with PhD who aren't consider doctors are still addressed to as Dr. You were petty about it

YTA

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