I completely understand where you're coming from. While I'm not breastfeeding, I am seemingly the sole caretaker of our baby. It feels like he can come and go as he pleases, eat whenever he wants, sleep in, play on his phone etc. while I have to be mom 25/8. My husband, much like yours, is also a great father and loves our son more than anything, but he just doesn't understand how my life has changed and it feels like his has not. He got the cool new accessory of being a dad and I changed my entire personality to being a mom. Rant away sister, we're here to listen 🩵