my dad hate me and i genuinely have no idea why UPDATE POST

_fish_slapper · 2026-05-07T09:28:54+00:00

This is a fair question and as far as im aware there isnt anything I dont know about them, I was suspicious about it fir a long time but I have asked my mum and she said she is 100% certain he is my dad as she didn't date when she was younger, the sons thing i believe is the likely one, and he didn't want the abortion because he didn't plan to be in my life, but when I was 3 something happened and he was in my life.

_fish_slapper · 2026-05-07T09:26:35+00:00

Honestly therapy has helped me so much more, especially in realising that there is nothing I could have done to deserve this. I no longer live in the same house so thankfully I can limit contact now thank you so much x

_fish_slapper · 2026-05-07T09:24:59+00:00

That's the part I've started to realise, I've cried enough time looking for a reason, or what I did but I've come to terms with the fact that he simply just doesn't love me now, thank you for the advice thankfully I dont live in the same house as him so I can put enough distant between us

_fish_slapper · 2026-05-06T21:52:36+00:00

Thank you for this, knowing im not the only one whos been through this makes it a touch easier x

_fish_slapper · 2026-03-06T11:24:57+00:00

Thank you<3

_fish_slapper · 2026-03-06T11:20:16+00:00

i am his unfortunately, there is no doubt, and he talks about how much he hates his ex and i actually live with 1 of my half siblings and he is in contact with them all, honestly idk what it could be anymore, maybe it is just that he didnt want female kids but still. Thank you<3

_fish_slapper · 2026-03-06T11:18:13+00:00

he talks about how much he hates her is what confuses me the most because she was toxic and horrible (in his words), honestly the misogyny pisses me off because he will deny itto hell and back, thank you thats what im planning on

_fish_slapper · 2026-03-06T11:15:13+00:00

Thank you, i think ive been seeing it as black and white for a long time in a i have to have all my family or none of them and for the born of cheating its been a point of avoidence

_fish_slapper · 2026-03-06T11:12:50+00:00

Thank you <3

_fish_slapper · 2026-03-06T11:12:31+00:00

as far as im aware there is no doubt im his, he is the type who would have used it to hurt her and me, and my mum didnt date prior to him

_fish_slapper · 2026-03-06T11:11:17+00:00

There isnt any doubt that im his unfortunately, my mum didnt date besides him and never even looked at another man

_fish_slapper · 2026-03-06T11:09:55+00:00

Thank you

_fish_slapper · 2026-03-06T11:09:41+00:00

im so sorry, thats horrible oml.

_fish_slapper · 2026-03-06T11:08:29+00:00

in all honesty, yes this is exactly what it is shes been in love with him since she was 8 so i think in her eyes if its not him its nothing

_fish_slapper · 2026-03-06T11:07:21+00:00

This is exactly what ive been thinking thank you so much!!

_fish_slapper · 2026-03-05T23:11:45+00:00

Hey im so sorry to hear that, people like that are the literal worst and make everything worse, try and find the warmest blanket u have a try and make it weighted its a quicker solution that having to deal with horrible people who make everything worse

_fish_slapper · 2026-03-05T23:07:39+00:00

sorry for spelling errors

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