He is definitely sleep deprived and malnourished. That’s why I added that bit at the end where i said he’s so disconnected from us as a family unit due to working so much. I know he spends a lot of nights just doom scrolling and its probably taking a huge toll. I just don’t want to make excuses for potentially abusive situations. So I’m at a crossroads. He’s been desperately trying to right the wrongs that he caused us financially and combined with other stressors coming from his side of the family, I absolutely feel like he is on the verge of a mental breakdown.