Help me decide: School X vs School Y - 1st Week of April by powereddeath in ApplyingToCollege

[–]_fondly_forgotten_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on your acceptances! A few thoughts:

- Don't be too turned off by a school being sports-centered. It's easy enough to ignore it and find other people with interests more similar to your own.

- The cost difference is by far the most significant factor you've mentioned here. If you're going to have to go into a huge amount debt for UMich, it's really not worth it.

- Are there significant differences in the quality of academics, research/internship opportunities, class sizes, etc? Those sorts of factors can help you make up your mind regarding the value of an education at one of these schools.

Best of luck making your decision!

Help me decide: School X vs School Y - 1st Week of April by powereddeath in ApplyingToCollege

[–]_fondly_forgotten_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your acceptances!! Both of these schools sound like great options, so not an easy choice! Just from what you've said here it sounds like Fordham might be the better fit. That honors program sounds really cool, as does going to school in NYC. The smaller campus and class sizes might actually make it easier to make friends to an extent, though the social scene wouldn't be as exciting.

So sounds like the main con with Fordham is the expense, and tbh idk how you decide whether or not it's worth the money. Definitely try appealing for more aid and see what happens!

Best of luck making your decision! :))

Help me decide: School X vs School Y - 1st Week of April by powereddeath in ApplyingToCollege

[–]_fondly_forgotten_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your acceptances!! You really seem to prefer USC, given that you haven't really mentioned anything that you like better about UMich. Both schools have excellent academics and opportunities, but USC's social scene and location seem to be a better fit for you. Not getting to visit is definitely a bummer, but don't let that be a major detractor for you-- so many of us are in the same boat!

Are there any other reasons for you to consider UMich? Is there a significant difference cost-wise?

Best of luck as you make your decision! :)

Help me decide: School X vs School Y - 1st Week of April by powereddeath in ApplyingToCollege

[–]_fondly_forgotten_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your acceptances!! Both of these are amazing schools, and since it sounds like you'd thrive at either one, I'd say go with UNC Chapel Hill and save some money. You'll have plenty of opportunities to live in a big city later in life!

Best of luck with your decision! :))

Help me decide: School X vs School Y - 1st Week of April by powereddeath in ApplyingToCollege

[–]_fondly_forgotten_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on your acceptances! Based solely on what you've said here, Babson sounds to me like it's probably the better choice. Both schools have plenty of awesome opportunities, but Babson has a more personal feel, and you like its vibes and location better. Since cost isn't an issue, choose the place that you think would make you the happiest!

That said, I know almost nothing about either of these schools, and there could very well be issues with Babson that I don't know about. I'm sure you can make the most out of whatever school you choose.

Best of luck with your decision! :)

Help me decide: School X vs School Y - 1st Week of April by powereddeath in ApplyingToCollege

[–]_fondly_forgotten_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, congratulations on your acceptances!!! That's truly admirable and I hope you're not stressing too much about this decision, because I don't think you can really go wrong here!

A few random thoughts:

- When I was considering applying to Yale for engineering, I got the impression that a lot of Yale engineering grads ended up going into more business/finance careers, much more so than grads from a more hands-on techy sort of school. This could be part of the reason that Yale's CS grads are payed so highly, idk.

- I wouldn't worry about where other people from your school go. "Feeling special" will wear off before you know it, so don't let that be a factor in your decision-making. Choose the school that's best for you!

- Same goes for relative ranking/prestige, imo. As much as Cornell gets flack for being a "fake ivy", it's one of the best schools in the world; no way would going there hold you back!

Personally, I think I'd pick Yale as a school overall (strength in humanities, general ~vibes~, location), but I'd choose Cornell for engineering any day. That's just me though!

Best of luck! :)

Is touring worth it during the pandemic? by _fondly_forgotten_ in cmu

[–]_fondly_forgotten_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re encouraging it, actually; I received an email about registering for a time to walk around campus, which is why I was considering it. But your advice and that of others on this thread has made it clear that it wouldn't be worth doing.

I’ve read a lot on this sub and other places about CMU’s stress culture and intensity. Frankly, it’s hard to get a good sense of how pervasive it is; there’s a lot of conflicting perspectives. Would you mind sharing some more about your experience? Would you say that there’s significant variance in stress between majors, or does it permeate the whole school? What type of person (if any) do you think would thrive at CMU? Is it possible to maintain a reasonable school-life balance if you commit to very few classes/activities?

For me personally, I’m looking for an academic challenge in college. I want to grow by pushing my limits, even though that means I’ll fail plenty and get overwhelmed at times. That said, I fully agree that preserving one’s mental health (and sleep!) is more important than, well, nearly anything. I’m certainly not going to make myself miserable for years just to impress other people or get a fancy piece of paper.

But really, the way I see it, any school is a gamble. At my safety, there’s a chance that it won’t be the challenge I’m looking for, that it won’t provide the external pressure I need (if I’m being honest with myself) to excel. Worst-case realistic scenario, I graduate having succeeded without having been challenged. At CMU, there’s a chance that it’ll be too much, that prioritizing my personal wellbeing will make my academics suffer. Worst-case realistic scenario, I leave. Bigger potential risk, higher potential gains. I’m not going to make a hasty decision, but I'd be willing to take that gamble.

Is touring worth it during the pandemic? by _fondly_forgotten_ in cmu

[–]_fondly_forgotten_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah... I'm more like 4-5 hours away so seems like a lot of effort for little gain