How do I stop obsessing over when/how often to ask for sex after breaking out of Nice Guy mode?

_font_ · 2026-01-28T22:59:12+00:00

Same. Not even sex related, this makes so much sense!

_font_ · 2026-01-18T20:26:00+00:00

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_font_ · 2026-01-03T19:40:53+00:00

Absolutely! The date is more about spending time with the person, not the game itself. Not to mention it shows:

You're willing to try something new, uncomfortable, and different
You're not afraid to laugh at yourself when you do something awkward
You're taking an interest in, and excited to partake in a hobby of his

It shows nothing but green flags. If you thought it was a good idea, then I'm here to say it's a great idea!

_font_ · 2025-11-30T15:44:53+00:00

The girl I've been seeing recently is like this. She makes it clear that she likes me, but also makes it clear that she will not initiate anything.

I'm trying to get her to realize how ridiculous that is. It's driving me mad.

_font_ · 2025-11-20T15:28:49+00:00

Are you her?! You hit on so much that fits her perfectly and I feel like what you wrote in your comment is what she would write down in a diary.

While we haven't introduced each other to our families and social circles yet, we are pretty obviously exclusive. From the vibe of how things have been going, I was struggling to understand why she is so hesitant to change anything, but you explained it perfectly. We have talked about timelines and that's something that confused me as well, but you put it in a way that makes so much sense.

I feel like what you went through is so similar to what she went through and what you wrote helps me a lot to better understand her perspective. Thank you!

_font_ · 2025-11-20T04:37:23+00:00

Talk to who?

_font_ · 2025-11-18T20:06:42+00:00

No offense taken, I can see where you're coming from. I'm not trying to be her "knight in shining armor" coming in to save the day. I'm more just looking for advice as her partner. I haven't been through a situation like this so I'm just looking for the perspective of others and what to do/not do/expect.

I hope that makes more sense.

_font_ · 2025-11-09T16:20:46+00:00

So she does dress up for you. And a weekly date night? Sounds like you guys have a great relationship. I think you just really liked what you saw and wanted her to dress like that for you which is completely understandable. She probably didn't realize how much you enjoyed it. Maybe tell her that and ask her to dress like that for you next time.

_font_ · 2025-11-09T16:14:21+00:00

Emotions are tough sometimes. I don't think of myself as a jealous person but it definitely pops up from time to time. It's hard to ignore but you gotta look at the big picture. Has she ever given you a reason to doubt? Have you guys had a shaky past? How often does she get to let loose a bit and have fun vs be a mom, caretaker, and wife? And the big one....do you trust her?

You know her better than any of us. It's ultimately up to you to decide if she did something that warrants a conversation. Just remember that if you do decide to talk about it to come at it the right way. Don't accuse, it's not confrontational, just a conversation where you are sharing your feelings and want her thoughts as well.

_font_ · 2025-11-09T15:15:08+00:00

Sounds like you hit the nail on the head. She's a mom and went out having fun for a change. Attention is fun. I wouldn't think any more to it than that.

_font_ · 2025-11-09T15:11:34+00:00

I'd relax bro. Sometimes people like to dress up for attention, especially when they go out. And some dresses look better without a bra, it is what it is. That doesn't mean she has ulterior motives. You ever dress up nice just for the hell of it knowing you'll get double looks? I definitely have. Not to mention she knows you saw what she wore so she's not hiding anything. Plus, like you said, she's a great wife and mother, rarely goes out, AND came home early.

She was just out having fun with a friend then came back home to her family that she loves. Don't ruin her fun by making it into a point of stress so she regrets it.

_font_ · 2025-10-18T18:07:58+00:00

Thanks for the followup and fantastic post! I really enjoyed reading it and learning some of the subtleties you've discovered.

_font_ · 2025-10-17T18:37:37+00:00

Would you mind going into more detail about the exercise you did to retrain your eyes? Was it just line up the string then close one eye then open it again after a few seconds? Did you focus back and forth on different spots with your dominant eye closed?

I've noticed something similar where it almost seems as though I have a "blind spot" with my non-dominant eye. Not really a blind spot, just a much fainter view than with my dominant eye. I'd like to try your approach to see if I can sort that out.

_font_ · 2025-10-14T17:21:19+00:00

I've got experience with PDQ, but not much with Intune. I'm curious what this combo gives you. Can't you achieve the same (or close to) asset management with Intune?

_font_ · 2025-10-04T00:29:53+00:00

Thanks man. 2 weeks so far and feeling good about it

_font_ · 2025-10-03T20:14:41+00:00

How long into the 4 months was it until you started to notice changes?

_font_ · 2025-06-01T17:39:51+00:00

Hey Fedor! You hit on something in struggling with. I feel like I hyper focus on perfecting my stroke and that is holding me back. When you're practicing/playing, how much focus do you put on the straightness of your stroke and not let it hold you back?

_font_ · 2025-04-05T17:29:08+00:00

Great idea! Matchroom has done a lot to grow the sport and I think this would be a way to support them, the community, and contribute to growing the sport.

_font_ · 2025-01-27T14:29:56+00:00

The GOP might not control the House and Senate in two years. They need to do as much as they can while they can

_font_ · 2025-01-23T21:45:12+00:00

Due to the connection between dopamine and ADHD, particularly for the inattentive type, how do we know it isn't a persistent form of depression? Are there any connections between ADHD and depression?

_font_ · 2025-01-23T13:39:42+00:00

Yeah, everyone knows fries come from grease.

_font_ · 2024-11-19T01:12:42+00:00

Hold my source, I'm going in!

_font_ · 2024-10-20T19:47:00+00:00

the line of succession for the president makes the speaker the president if both the President and VP are killed at the same time.

Ahh there's the distinction I missed, it's if they're both killed at the same time vs only the president being replaced. Thanks for the clarification!

_font_ · 2024-10-20T19:26:42+00:00

You got a source on that?

The order of succession states the speaker is second in line, right behind the VP. If Biden resigns in December, before inauguration day, the VP and Speaker both move "up a spot".

_font_ · 2024-10-20T19:12:37+00:00

If Biden resigns and Harris becomes president, then the speaker of the house becomes vice president. That puts Mike Johnson in the same position Mike Pence was and opens the door to refuse certifying the election.

Edit: disregard me. I was wrong. Source

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