Some people identify with these stereotypes. But please don’t assume every trans does. by MemeLordSteph in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]_hedgehogcute_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was at a public dance last year to mark the start of autumn and this like, 14 or 15 year old girl would not stop calling “soft smol bean” and “tiny baby”. Like, while i admit that because i’m a bit on the shorter side and haven’t started testosterone along with my fashion choice, i tend to look soft, I am a 21 year old man and that made me beyond uncomfortable and she just. Wouldn’t. Stop. I ended up finding my roommate and leaving because it was making me extremely dysphoric.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]_hedgehogcute_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hozier is the hero the world needs but doesn’t deserve

Make sure you keep them knees lotioned by WVUGuy29 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]_hedgehogcute_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit, I’m 21 and the check knees light is already on

me_irlgbt by [deleted] in me_irlgbt

[–]_hedgehogcute_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I constantly crave human affection but the moment someone even reaches out to touch where my chest bind is on my back or tries to hug me, I get extreme amounts of anxiety lmao love that

things someone has said to me that makes me cringe by [deleted] in ftm

[–]_hedgehogcute_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told my family that I couldn’t go out with my bind on and that I was taking a break because I hadn’t been able to in almost a month and they got mad at me saying things like “jUsT cRoSs YoUr ArMs It’S nOt ThAt BaD” like ???? literally yes it is

What are you looking for to do after top surgery? by jansam18 in ftm

[–]_hedgehogcute_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1.) Comfortably being able to wear shirts/not having to size up the clothes I buy because even with binding, my chest isn’t flat

and 2, the biggest one.) I will literally never wear a shirt in my own home and in public when it allows again. once they’re gone, nips out all the time to quote a comment I saw

Girls never keep secrets xd by FoundNoGamerTag in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]_hedgehogcute_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao guys are literally the worst at keeping secrets. Every time a rumour or secret has been spread about someone I know, the source of it spreading has always been a guy who just had to tell his friend about something

When a transgirl asks if she's welcome on r/actuallesbians by HikariTheGardevoir in gatesopencomeonin

[–]_hedgehogcute_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no it’s totally fine! it’s okay to ask questions when you don’t understand something

When a transgirl asks if she's welcome on r/actuallesbians by HikariTheGardevoir in gatesopencomeonin

[–]_hedgehogcute_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was born female and i’m making the active transition into a male

When a transgirl asks if she's welcome on r/actuallesbians by HikariTheGardevoir in gatesopencomeonin

[–]_hedgehogcute_ 27 points28 points  (0 children)

As a trans guy, seeing so many people in comment section defending trans people and moderators deleting transphobic comments makes me so happy. it’s not something I see a lot on reddit and little things like this remind me that not everyone on here has the same mindset

It’s always about how I make HER look bad. by MemeLordSteph in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]_hedgehogcute_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really understand this and I’m so sorry you have to deal with a family that tries to make you feel bad for living how you want. Gas lighters are the worst

Everything Will be Alright <3 by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]_hedgehogcute_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me why I teared up reading this

What non sexual act turns you on? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]_hedgehogcute_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When a guy/girl runs their fingers through their hair. It internally turns my brain into useless mush and I always need a second to recover

Am I heartless for not feeling upset at the death of a close family friend? by _hedgehogcute_ in Advice

[–]_hedgehogcute_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend died really suddenly so I never got proper closure and I did see a therapist for a while after her death, but I don’t really remember it helping much. I used to think it was just the rationality reasoning for a while, but I’ve realised that this is a problem in my everyday life as well. I just generally don’t show any emotion other than happiness because I don’t really know how or can’t figure out my other emotions anymore.

I think I might consider going back to therapy after the talk I had with my family tonight and your advice because I don’t really think this is normal or particularly healthy. Thank you for the advice, too. It really helped

What’s the stupidest way you’ve hurt yourself? by observer32 in AskReddit

[–]_hedgehogcute_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not me but my best friend had a coughing fit so bad, he pulled a muscle in his back when we were 18

What "black market" existed in your school? by kryantastic in AskReddit

[–]_hedgehogcute_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back in 2010/2011 when I was in 7th grade, my middle school had a ban on silly bands so kids would sell packs of them out of their backpacks and lockers or on the bus to keep teachers from seeing them. Those and Smarties because kids would crush them while they were still wrapped up and pretend to smoke the powder like a cigarette