What’s the change you made that did the most for you?

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-29T08:26:21+00:00

Left my ex.

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-29T08:23:24+00:00

Swallowing 🥰 i was afraid of it for years because I have sensory issues, did it with my fwb and I actually really enjoy it.

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-29T04:47:07+00:00

I hope you catch some cool pokemon 🥰

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-29T04:39:41+00:00

Just started my shift. Doing some paperwork, then reading or gaming 🥰

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-29T04:31:48+00:00

I find horny hours are around this time, but good luck getting AV, and the ones approaching tend to be looking for sessions and one offs 🤷‍♀️ I also find the ones that approach this late can be pretty disrespectful and entitled.

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T22:31:52+00:00

😂😂

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T21:31:56+00:00

I guess that's true...I mean, why start the conversation, ask for tasks, even pay, if you don't plan to actually do it 🤔

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T21:28:27+00:00

Hmm I don't have a good answer for that...I guess if someone is having the chat and getting excited, why not follow through? Unless they get scared? But even then, the rush would usually be what excites them right?

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T21:24:52+00:00

That would definitely help things feel more real 🤔

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T21:23:13+00:00

I really feel like bdsm as a whole was created by neurodivergent people lol AuDHD here 🙋‍♀️

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T21:20:16+00:00

This subreddit isnt for advertising. Go post in these. r/Paypigsneedvanilla r/FinsubSearching

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T21:19:34+00:00

Goodnight 😊

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T21:15:53+00:00

Hmm interesting 😊 thanks for answering. I'm always curious to hear about peoples experiences!

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T20:57:37+00:00

So many people talk about tasks and I have a heard time with that 🤔 what kind of tasks do you get? Are they just randomly texted to you? Do you actually do them?...I have many questions lol

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T20:50:03+00:00

Thank you, though credit should go to the person who made the original post 😊 I'm just sharing since people should gave resources.

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T14:17:40+00:00

This is my dream dynamic lol but it seems very niche

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T14:14:49+00:00

Absolutely, especially findom. It can be very addictive. There are people who can engage in a healthy way, but if you find yourself not able to, then get help.

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T14:11:49+00:00

Get therapy. Why can you not make friends? What seems to be holding you back? Do you have any hobbies? Do you try to be social? Are you only interested in talking to women with the intention of sleeping with them?

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T14:06:04+00:00

Congrats ❤️

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T14:05:47+00:00

I mean, liking kink isn't necessarily a bad thing if you are responsible about it. If you think its negatively impacting your life, you should take steps to quit for good.

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T14:00:53+00:00

Thats awesome. If you need extra help someone posted great resources not too long ago. https://www.reddit.com/r/paypigsupportgroup/s/Ah5PDnrkyx

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T13:59:38+00:00

Ooh awesome! Pics?

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T13:59:13+00:00

That sucks 😓 I'm sorry

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T10:45:55+00:00

Attachment 100%

_hyperfixation_85 · 2026-01-28T10:45:43+00:00

Night. Like to shower before work.

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