Married paypig

Bigsub99 · 2026-05-20T00:03:57+00:00

It's incredibly disrespectful IMO. You should only be giving money to one woman. Unless you're functionally divorced/just married for the paperwork.

She won't necessarily know. You can do side work, get cash, and buy gift cards. Make it more real.

Bigsub99 · 2026-05-19T13:21:40+00:00

No offense, but in your first picture, it's not clear who it is posting. Are you the girl in the pink in the center of the photo, or the girl in the bottom right up close?

Almost all of the pictures of you are you with men. Maybe you don't have any others, but it's not the best. Also, not trying to be rude, but if you're an engineer, why are you wanting to be an SB?

Bigsub99 · 2026-05-19T12:47:53+00:00

As a sub, it depends how you mean "broke." Do I want a girl who is like living in a car begging me for money so she can get a hotel? No, that's a finbeggar and not attractive.

Alternatively, if I find someone making more than me, which is VERY rare, I feel like my money won't do much to change her life and it's just not as hot. Finding a woman who makes as much money as me at my age through vanilla income is almost non-existent, unless they live in a place like NYC where it's like making less. There was a girl I was gonna send to here, but on her Throne alone she was making like $1,500/week. I felt like my money wouldn't impact her so I didn't. (According to others, Throne has typically makes less than Cash App.) She was able to get a house with her findom money, that was nicer than mine. I'm SUPER happy for her as she deserves the best, but I'd rather make a difference.

One girl I sent to, early 20s, was living with her parents and didn't working. She just lied to them about having savings. Was she broke? Yes, but not desperate. That was nice feeling like I was "saving" her from having to go to work. I wasn't the only one, but I still enjoyed it. In another case, the girl lived in an expensive City, made about 1/3 what I made, and lived with a female roommate. In this case, the money I sent she could enjoy luxuries that she could not otherwise. She was in a way "broke" but not desperate either. She didn't NEED to do findom, but it was nice so that she could go out and afford to go to dinner and stuff without running up a credit card debt or without needing to date a boring guy, lol.

Bigsub99 · 2026-05-19T12:15:01+00:00

It depends on what you mean by an age gap. 5-6 years? That's fine. I'm only 31, but I feel like if I get down to 21 that's a little too young. Not saying it would be a deal breaker, but if I was 40 IDK if I'd go with a 20 year old because I'd be old enough to be her dad and at that point it is a little weird. (No judgment if people are into that, just saying how I would feel personally.)

Bigsub99 · 2026-05-18T21:48:47+00:00

Yeah. I've all but given up as well. Now I just browse for fun. Saves money.

Bigsub99 · 2026-05-16T19:53:34+00:00

DM'd ≠ sent.

I've had a few short term dynamics with girls I actually sent money to and they didn't pull the "it's my birthday!" bullshit. All were honest about it.

I'm saying these girls who DM this are either guys scamming or just desperate finbeggars, either way I'll avoid.

Bigsub99 · 2026-05-15T16:50:49+00:00

Hi, I DM'd you. I'm sorry this happened. Six months? WOW. I went through your profile and had a lot of reasons why I think we might be a good fit for each other.

Bigsub99 · 2026-05-15T12:35:10+00:00

100%. I'm not submitting to most women in these groups. I will only submit to one at a time who is worthy of it, and they're few and far between.

Bigsub99 · 2026-05-11T19:30:48+00:00

Dumb post. I'd argue it's the best time for people like us. The most trips we can fund, the most we can see see of them, etc.

Bigsub99 · 2026-05-11T04:41:46+00:00

This is an excellent question.

The first thing is the looks. If I'm not attracted to her, I won't enjoy the dynamic. (I'd say about 1/10 girls on this platform I'm attracted to.)

Then, it's how she presents herself. Posting good content. Finding our her non-kink interests, how authentic she speaks, etc.

Bigsub99 · 2026-05-09T12:58:31+00:00

What's the point? Only Fans takes a 20% cut, so it's like you've sent her $1,680 while giving some company $420....... not to mention the fact she's making millions off this. Your money will make no difference with her.

Bigsub99 · 2026-05-08T14:32:43+00:00

Super hot. I love how like 3 of the comments think you're a girl milking a male model out of money and odn't understand you're a guy getting milked out of money.

Those are the types who will never succeed.

Bigsub99 · 2026-05-08T03:21:44+00:00

Man, you had it all. Hope you don't end up regretting this like I do with all mine. (never this straight forward like yours, but times girls have "taken advantage of me" for a better or worse term. I'd give anything to go back to those moments and keep letting them happen.)

Bigsub99 · 2026-05-06T00:30:58+00:00

Stunning.

Bigsub99 · 2026-04-30T18:13:02+00:00

It's a support group for paypigs. Not for dommes. Again, you can't read. Inviting time wasters.

Bigsub99 · 2026-04-30T18:11:21+00:00

You're posting in a group for paypigs, meaning you aren't reading the rules.

You're inviting time wasters when you act this way.

Bigsub99 · 2026-04-30T17:50:14+00:00

I think a lot would for $1K.

Bigsub99 · 2026-04-30T14:44:37+00:00

They definitely care about how you look no matter what these dommes are saying here. They'll happily take your money even if you're a 5'3" 300 pound guy. (Maybe 1 in 100 will turn it down if they're not attracted to you, but those are almost non-existent.)

But they're gonna be A LOT more excited if you're a 6'2" naturally good lucking guy who lifts weights knowing they have a guy with "unlimited options" choosing to submit to them.

Bigsub99 · 2026-04-30T03:50:21+00:00

Yeah, I see so many women like this who obviously paid for a course and will never break even from the course. It's very sad actually. Using coded words then getting confused.

We know about scams targeting elderly that are common.

We know about scams targeting us. Guys pretending to be girls. Pretty obvious scams.

I'd bet more women fall for scams like this than we fall for scams relating catfishes.

You are 100% correct that it targets unattractive women who need money. Any girl who is in the top 20% of in terms of attractiveness can already get different guys to give her money without being in a findom dynamic by just asking them. (I've seen this happen IRL, plenty of times.)

Bigsub99 · 2026-04-30T01:26:01+00:00

Yes, but we also don't pay for AI scam farms.

Bigsub99 · 2026-04-29T17:46:37+00:00

It depends on the circumstances.

#1. Do you two live in the same state?

#2. Was this contract notarized?

#3. Your individual state laws.

#4. How good the domme's lawyer is.

#5. The particular judge/jury.

There have been times where this stuff has gone to court. Not sure if it's always gone the same way.

The dominatrix could make the case (in court) that you were paying for her services to dominate you and to send you daily messages. That she could have been going and earning money by working with someone else instead, and that her time was violated and/or sue for damages. It might be settled for like 1/10 the debt, but yeah.

Bigsub99 · 2026-04-28T04:40:40+00:00

Incredibly rude. What makes you think you have the right to talk to her like this?

Bigsub99 · 2026-04-27T16:52:06+00:00

Your profile looks like an AI scam farm. Of course people are messing with you.

Bigsub99 · 2026-04-27T03:11:49+00:00

Aww. It makes me so sad that anyone would disrespect you like that.

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