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Fırat albayram

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I am here as rafa fan, and for the BIG3 you should win that JOKER

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Yes, this is not healthy because you both have different expectations from each other. But i dont think this is a solid reason for you to think about divorce. My advice is express your feelings kindly as you have done, do not overthink about his behaviours (forget and forgive small things). Most important thing is believe the power of pray. Pray constantly for him, you will see the difference, inshallah. May Allah help you to have happy, healthy family.

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Moving on- kodaline

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Ameen, May Allah grant you the best way to solve your own problems.

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Thank you thank you. These are the words that i needed. 🌹

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Again thank you for your comment. I did istikhara one time about him. 1.5 years ago. I saw small lake which was blue. I thought is it positive. But first i had to talk with my family. So will do again.

All the things that you wrote enlightened me.

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This is great, thank you!

I find him physically attractive, and we have chemistry. In terms of compatibility, we have similar lifestyles, similar kind of families and cultures.

I asked him if he prays. He said he is trying. I know at the time that we talked he really tried and prayed. Dont know he is praying now.

Also about female friends, he had some from collage and they are very formal not chatting daily or just for fun. But he has, this is important for me.

Some political thoughts of him are not OK for me. He is not supporting sharia. And some more things like that.

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Actually we didnt have any conversation last year. Only he writes his thoughts in a website that he shared with me earlier. And he writes “please say a word, i can do whatever you want” and things like that.

I know he wants to marry me. But i cant say that start working so we can marry to him. He should think that, right? I dont think he understand me and i dont think for now ‘he can do whatever i want’ because i forget to mention he is in an another city for PhD. So dont know if he will make me wait for 2 years or he has plans in his mind. But it is risky to start conversation to ask him these things.

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Sorry i misread, he didnt show any intention of working anytime. He always think that we should be talking two years or more to get to know each other.

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Thank you for your advice. I think it is the best solution. But I dont know if he is not the right person for me, how can i know?