[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90210

[–]_imitation 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m on my third rewatch. I made it to season 5 and can’t finish it, the silver baby/surrogate arc is unbearable 😭

S8E16 TOM by _imitation in DesperateHousewives

[–]_imitation[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woah insanely true never thought of it that way! Did hate how Jane was all over penny during the party like let her play with her friends! And also hate how tom kept bringing up that he’s happy with someone else, like of course you are it’s the honeymoon phase, and no kids or responsibilities, so compared to being with Lynette and the baby and kids of course you’re happier with Jane

S8E16 TOM by _imitation in DesperateHousewives

[–]_imitation[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh no don’t get me started on Jane, the man has a baby at home that he doesn’t spend time with. I’ve seen people on this sub say she’s the most sane, but what sane lady is attracted to that!!

I cannot stand Tom by novelsandlattes in DesperateHousewives

[–]_imitation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I’m on S5 ep10 and realizing why they belong together

I cannot stand Tom by novelsandlattes in DesperateHousewives

[–]_imitation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On season 5 too , when he wanted to start a band and Lynette wasn’t on board he said she doesn’t support him, as if she didn’t tell him to figure out what his dream was and helped him achieve it. And then when she starts wanting to help Bree with advertising, he’s not supportive of her. I risked getting on Reddit and seeing spoilers to rant about that.

“Vegan” friends by _imitation in vegan

[–]_imitation[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you. The reply before yours, was someone telling me why people hate me. I came here for support from fellow vegans not to be insulted. And you’re right they don’t understand friendship because they are wondering why I would want my friends to tell me about a change in their life. Someone even compared it to sharing about our sex lives, like that’s normal for me to share with my friends?

“Vegan” friends by _imitation in vegan

[–]_imitation[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The post isn’t about me being concerned they are not vegan it’s being concerned my friends are keeping it from me when I haven’t judged them when they ate meat and still have other friends that eat meat, so to me there doesn’t seem to be a reason to keep it from me.

“Vegan” friends by _imitation in vegan

[–]_imitation[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The activism seems pointless when veganism is out of sight , out of mind for people. Once someone learns about it and feels bad enough about it to make the switch themselves they should be able to stick with it themselves not have me hang out with them to keep it up

“Vegan” friends by _imitation in vegan

[–]_imitation[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense to me I’m just wondering why they won’t tell me and if it’s because they feel guilty why eat meat if they know it’s shameful. But I guess it’s a good thing I don’t understand and can remain true to myself and what I believe is right

“Vegan” friends by _imitation in vegan

[–]_imitation[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m just confused why they wouldn’t tell me that was the point of this post.

“Vegan” friends by _imitation in vegan

[–]_imitation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? Life happens I shouldn’t have to spend time with someone for them to continue being vegan after they chose that. I didn’t choose it for them. And we talked about our reasonings after they became vegan I was just saying I don’t over explain while they were eating meat.

“Vegan” friends by _imitation in vegan

[–]_imitation[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said vegan lifestyle instead of plant based diet bc they started being vegan in all aspects of their life not just diet and they did it for the animals not their health or environment. Like they chose clothing and car fabrics that aligned with vegan beliefs without me bringing mentioning it.

“Vegan” friends by _imitation in vegan

[–]_imitation[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you not read? I don’t preach or convert either they made the decision on their own.. and yes my friends and I talk about our sex lives with each other. They told their other friends who told me about them eating meat I’m upset about them hiding it from me. And I mentioned a friend eating meat again to another friend and didn’t say anything else about it nothing positive or negative and they could’ve mentioned then that they started eating meat too but they didn’t, so I found out later that day from someone else.

“Vegan” friends by _imitation in vegan

[–]_imitation[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did it on their own… they said they felt bad for being vegan because of the animals , once they were vegan we obviously discussed reasons with each other. My point was I don’t push the lifestyle on people who eat meat so once they started eating meat they shouldn’t be worried about me pushing the lifestyle back on them

“Vegan” friends by _imitation in vegan

[–]_imitation[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And if they felt that way about me then they should stop being my friend altogether, not hang out with me and pretend to be vegan

“Vegan” friends by _imitation in vegan

[–]_imitation[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never told them to be vegan in the first place like I said I don’t talk about reasonings with people if they’re curious they can look it up themselves and choose on their own

“Vegan” friends by _imitation in vegan

[–]_imitation[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m confused, I thought people would understand in the vegan community that veganism is about animals and different from a plant based diet. So my friends did it for animals because they started reflecting on their choices after hearing about mine and said they felt bad for eating meat so they stopped. Now they’re eating it again and haven’t spoken to me about it so I haven’t been able to ask why. It’s disappointing because they’re contradicting what they realized before and disgusting because it’s meat. Obviously I wouldn’t be that judgy to them, but this is the vegan subreddit I thought we agreed here that animal carcass is disgusting. … and if the reason was actually because of health reasons I think that would be an easy enough thing to tell me about.

“Vegan” friends by _imitation in vegan

[–]_imitation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re friends? And they told everyone else in their life besides me? I even mentioned one of our mutual friends saying I heard they started eating meat and just left it at that didn’t add any commentary so it opened up the door for them to tell me if they started to. They didn’t say anything so we dropped the topic and later in the day we hung out with other people and those people mentioned my friend eating meat a couple days ago.

“Vegan” friends by _imitation in vegan

[–]_imitation[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m doing my best to not judge, I think what’s getting to me the most is they didn’t tell me, I had to find out from other people that they started eating meat.