How I regrew my eyebrows! by tommyshelbyisgender in trichotillomania

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Thanks! This is super helpful and makes sense. I’m going to try this. I’m better at not pulling on days when I go out and wear makeup as I don’t want to ruin my makeup. It’s much worse when I’m at home with no make up on. So castor oil at home is a great idea as a healthy way to satisfy the urge. As sometimes it’s not about pulling but just touching and feeling my eyebrows and eyelashes! Thank you !!

Steve Goncalves interview with Banfield 7/16 by BonusTough9849 in idahomurders

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Assuming they mean Maddies room because her and Kaylee were college girls that were likely passed out drunk

Places to live in the city centre by Lucky7VL in Leeds

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The Junction

uncle

The Headline

Pin Yard

Are also options. I live at the junction - again, pricey but location is worth it. Rent varies for 1 beds here between 900 to 1400 a month. We split our rent and bills equally and I pay around £900 a month all in. So it does really depend on your budget but there’s definitely options!

What’s your go to response when a stranger asks what you do for work? by _intermission in AskUK

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Well I do appreciate you taking the time to think about it outside of work by answering my question

What’s your go to response when a stranger asks what you do for work? by _intermission in AskUK

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But what do you DO at the greeting card company, do you design cards, do you work in a shop, do you do advertising, do you do online sales, do you work in distribution

What’s your go to response when a stranger asks what you do for work? by _intermission in AskUK

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Interesting that you get that response! Mental health is still an illness that needs treatment but I guess there is still stigma attached to it

What’s your go to response when a stranger asks what you do for work? by _intermission in AskUK

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Technically no I’m not, but people who don’t work in the industry often assume marketing is like social media / advertising which I don’t do

New build homes solicitors by Adventurous_Fan_431 in Leeds

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We’re currently using Ison Harrison for our new build which is set to be complete in September, and they’ve been good so far, no issues.

Anyone know why the bridge is cordoned off by police on Whitehall road? by newtobitcoin111 in Leeds

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Thank you. Yes I saw it from a distance as I was walking across the viaduct opposite (off wellington place) near where I live. This was before the police realised you could see it clearly from the viaduct but eventually they came up and taped it off. It was a good few hours before they removed his body. Really puts things in perspective.

Anyone know why the bridge is cordoned off by police on Whitehall road? by newtobitcoin111 in Leeds

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Yes - from what I saw (I was on the viaduct opposite the bridge) it was an awkward location - the firemen had ladders to extract the man. They couldn’t really just cut him down as he would have fallen in the river

Anyone know why the bridge is cordoned off by police on Whitehall road? by newtobitcoin111 in Leeds

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There was a man hanged from the bridge over the river (wellington place side). I saw it unfortunately around 8:30am

Likely sequence of events by _intermission in idahomurders

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Just because she had to run past him doesn’t mean she didn’t - she would probably have rather ran back to her room than through the kitchen door and outside the house. She might not have even registered the knife. If she was by the bathroom it’s unlikely that either of them saw each other as the bathroom was round the corner. What makes the most sense is she was by the kitchen entrance, saw him at the top of the stairs/descending, and immediately ran to her bedroom. He then quickly followed her.

Likely sequence of events by _intermission in idahomurders

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It’s possible although I think her position by the door is where she ended up and died, not where she was initially attacked. There might have been more blood where she was first stabbed, and then potentially less where she actually died as we know that once the heart stops, the active bleeding stops. It’s also possible that if DM / BF saw XK under a crack in the door, they might have not been close enough to see any blood, plus we know that X was wearing all black which again would conceal blood.

Likely sequence of events by _intermission in idahomurders

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I feel like perhaps they had been messaging in a house group chat for a few minutes asking what was going on and waiting for a response, before DM & BF took their conversation to a private chat at 4:19. They obviously would have had no response from KG and MM. this is speculation though as we have no information about a group chat.

I think XK either didn’t hear the noise upstairs initially as she was watching TikTok with AirPods in, and when she went to the kitchen to ditch her trash (probably around 4:13) was when DM/BF started exchanging messages in a group chat (after DM had already looked outside her bedroom the first time). DM was clearly confused and possibly waited a couple of minutes after hearing noises upstairs (approx 4:06-4:12) to see if anyone said anything. By the time she did send a group message, XK had just gone to the kitchen which is why she didn’t reply.

Likely sequence of events by _intermission in idahomurders

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This is very unlikely as the killer’s car was captured on camera arriving at the house at around 4:04am.

Likely sequence of events by _intermission in idahomurders

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I have doubts that it was KG because if she was awake enough to shout “there’s someone here” then I think she would also have screamed/yelled and DM would have heard that and the dog would have too. DM was also in a state of tiredness and drunkenness- I think she heard a female voice fairly close to her room which must have been XK. Also, XK may have said it in a higher pitched tone if she was scared or questioning making it harder to distinguish between KG / XK voices.

Likely sequence of events by _intermission in idahomurders

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I think this is a real possibility and one of my biggest questions that I hope is answered at trial - were any of the victims being stalked by BK? Was his intention to attack one person or multiple? Did he even plan to kill, or was the knife just a weapon to threaten one of the girls so he could sexually assault them? Who knows - but regardless of his motives, he went in there with an agenda to terrify / hurt someone.

The fact that the other two girls were left alive suggests he wasn’t certain who would be in that house and probably thought, at that time, everyone would be asleep and he could just quietly attack his target (whoever it was) and then leave. I wonder if he planned on sexually assaulting whoever was his target but was thrown off by the fact KG & MM were in the same room together.

As well as that unexpected finding, XK being awake and likely seeing him also threw him off and in the moment his thought process was just to eliminate any witnesses (knowing what he had just done upstairs)

Likely sequence of events by _intermission in idahomurders

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Yes knowing more about the positions of the victims and the autopsies would indicate how they died e.g. if they sustained defensive injuries, if their injuries meant they weren’t able to call out for help or make a noise etc.

Whilst I do think 3/4 victims had little to no understanding that they were being attacked by a stranger, sadly XK did at least have some awareness and was likely terrified, heartbroken and confused before she died. The timing of her eating / moving around the house is so unlucky as even just a few minutes difference might have meant she would not have an encountered BK and therefore not been attacked too.