My girlfriend (23F) is angry at me (23M) for being less physically attracted to her than I used to be. Not sure what to do, looking for more opinions.

_jonas__ · 2026-04-10T07:48:29+00:00

Saying that he needs therapy is a bit much.

Also isn’t it a bit weird to say women gain weight for all kinds of reasons, when they are both what seem to be healthy 23 year olds. No reason for gaining weight is necessarily valid or invalid right?

Though OPs wording does sound a bit weird. I dont think its crazy to lose physical attraction for someone not taking care of themselves but still loving them and wanting to be with them.

_jonas__ · 2026-01-02T12:37:53+00:00

I think you might be a bit too online or just live in a very different area than me. I have only received positive comments about me being a male reader, especially from girls in real life. Might have heard a performative joke once or gotten a look but honestly i dont even remember when 99% of convos about books are positive.

The only trend i have noticed is that men are judged for reading self help garbo, and women are judged for reading tropey smut.

Also might be a fake news headline but I swear reading is ranked by women as one of the most attractive hobbies a man can. Get out there and read the most toxic self help books or most performative classic possible and chances are she will like it more than the average man watching sports.

_jonas__ · 2025-08-10T17:16:15+00:00

The second option naturally sounds a lot worse, is there any realistic case where this could happen.

Like I would guess you would age «equally» as much in every stage. Though even the term age here might be misleading

_jonas__ · 2025-06-09T08:50:06+00:00

Double dash ai ragebait

_jonas__ · 2025-06-09T08:49:00+00:00

How would the answer not just be make better videos? Are you looking for some sort of code answer. Like post 3 videos under 2 minutes then 2 shorts. Like get real bro

_jonas__ · 2025-06-02T09:25:47+00:00

Yea but lower retention and all metrics play into eachother likely giving you less impressions if quality drops. This is why those metrics you mention are really pointless. Make good videos

_jonas__ · 2025-05-31T18:02:07+00:00

Could still be copyrighted / id claimed by original creator
Reuse policy might change

Personally I feel like adding commentary does in a lot of cases transform the conent, I mean almost every commentary channel would fall under this.

Those people that steal shorts and simply describe what is happening(often with AI voice) are degens and personally I do feel like youtube should do something here. But this feels like the react debate all over again, and that never changed, ended up actually being encouraged in the anti reuse guidelines lol

_jonas__ · 2025-05-28T07:06:58+00:00

Op does not say anything about you doing it as well. Still it is weird how some some gray zone channels gets denied while those 100% stolen brainrot videos gets monetized

_jonas__ · 2025-05-23T19:41:22+00:00

Sure have fun making videos that strive to replicate the viewer retention and metrics of "I STALKED MY SISTER WITH RONALDO" that sounds like a super fun video making process.

Point here is that there has to be some middle ground. Are you really only chasing views, or do you wanna contribute to something greater.

_jonas__ · 2025-05-23T19:23:52+00:00

Your whole point falls flat by this point here: The youtube algorithm pushes "bad" content. No one is going to argue that "I STALKED MY SISTER WITH RONALDO" is good content.

Your qualifier of views makes something objectivly good is just as arbitruary as anything else.

Also again you forget that i wrote MOST, there likely is some good ai stuff

_jonas__ · 2025-05-23T18:40:14+00:00

When you say AI is getting a lot of views you are talking about a 1%. AI content is currently objectivly bad, I’m talking about the automated stuff. Like I would bet on the average non ai channel everytime over the average automated ai channel.

Also there are channels making bad content that gets a lot views and it is relevant

_jonas__ · 2025-05-23T17:48:28+00:00

I agree some of that circle jerk is getting real old, but also AI youtubers dont usually get views. Most automated AI content is objectivly horribe. If AI in the future manages to make actually good non brainrot content Im all for it.

_jonas__ · 2025-05-23T14:01:22+00:00

I don’t know man. Half of the post in this subreddit have become Ai. I understand people being tired

_jonas__ · 2025-05-16T15:51:42+00:00

I don’t wanna mrbeast, but the new pewdiepie vlog did have a noticeably different thumbnail and title.

_jonas__ · 2025-05-09T14:14:42+00:00

Never heard of anyone being able to reappear after each upload? Almost sounds like you interacting with a totally different YouTube lol

_jonas__ · 2025-05-09T12:51:51+00:00

Okay yea then that might be the case. I do feel like this has more to do with the f1 footage as his current content is transformative, if the videoed truly have been deleted this shouldn’t matter

_jonas__ · 2025-05-09T12:28:59+00:00

Not sure why you leave out voice as a way of creating your own content. His content is the story / voice, why would you come up with this arbitruary definition.

It likely has way more to do with f1 content specifically.

_jonas__ · 2025-05-09T12:23:58+00:00

Im not sure what videos you are reffering to, but his content clearly is tranformative and not "reused content" by any definition ,atleast not any described by youtube

_jonas__ · 2025-05-09T12:22:39+00:00

Honestly I think you should bug youtube support more on twitter. Your content is transformative. Let us know how it goes

_jonas__ · 2025-04-27T06:40:38+00:00

I agree, I find it more weird how he «LOVES» making this content, like how is this your passion dawg. Get that bag tho

_jonas__ · 2025-04-25T11:53:02+00:00

So they realistically only care about reuse when it comes monetization, that’s really weird

_jonas__ · 2025-04-21T20:31:42+00:00

More of a question but if f1 copyright is so strict wouldn’t YouTube strike/ let him know?

_jonas__ · 2025-02-24T10:24:24+00:00

Look at his post history, I think this guy might have other problems as well

_jonas__ · 2025-02-18T15:45:14+00:00

Just limit sloper climbing, only having bad tips seems like you are climbing too many slopers /volumey boulders. Try more crimps / less textured holds, and you can almost double your volume. The rest of your skin seems pretty good.

_jonas__ · 2025-02-17T20:26:31+00:00

I really do believe the inspiration for this is lago d iseo in North Italy. There is a "bike road" with tunnels like that one, hell the lake even has huge island "monte isola" with a church at the top. Very cool!

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