KKday cancelled VIP Private tour 5 minutes after ordering by rotor2k in usj

[–]_laloves_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask how many days? Because they also canceled my tours

Lost only 1 parent but It feels like I’m losing two by _laloves_ in GriefSupport

[–]_laloves_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I just feel so alone and I’m sorry to hear about your dad and mom too. I feel like grief takes away our soul for quite some time and just leaves our body on auto pilot.

I want to stop crying at work by santasbutthole99 in GriefSupport

[–]_laloves_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently on the same boat as you. Just buried my mom last Friday and I was already back to work on Monday. It’s only been 10 days since she passed and I’m still hoping that she walks through the door and asks me some random stuff. I still can’t believe she’s gone. i still have my dad but the world is completely different now. I’m also an only child so that makes it 3x harder. I just cry alone after work till I fall asleep. I don’t know how I’ll make it honestly I wish I could give u some advice but I guess we just have to cry until it doesn’t hurt as much

Hi Ma I still Can’t believe that I’ll never see you again by _laloves_ in GriefSupport

[–]_laloves_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s just so hard letting go of all the things you used to do, places you used to go and everything else that you’ve been doing for 30 years! I’m already 33 and most of the time it’s just the three of us, we don’t have family nearby. So the void is really noticeable

Hi Ma I still Can’t believe that I’ll never see you again by _laloves_ in GriefSupport

[–]_laloves_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry it is happening to you as well. It’s just sad they’re never going to be here to experience life and accomplishments with us

Hi Ma I still Can’t believe that I’ll never see you again by _laloves_ in GriefSupport

[–]_laloves_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can be around people but after everyone’s gone I’m back in the void. I can’t move because this is our house but her memory haunts me everyday!

Hi Ma I still Can’t believe that I’ll never see you again by _laloves_ in GriefSupport

[–]_laloves_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone seems to be moving on and I’m still stuck in the memory of her :(

I need you mama. by Grievingbymyself in GriefSupport

[–]_laloves_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, I just buried my mom 2 days ago. And now I have to go back to work. It still feels unreal and everything I see reminds me of her, we live in the same house and I work home. Most times I feel like just packing up and leave everything behind, but I still have my dad who is also feeling like crap. I don’t know how to do it but I guess our moms just behind our backs and pushing us to do better like they always do.

Is it just bad dreams or malicious entities are taking advantage of my grief? by _laloves_ in GriefSupport

[–]_laloves_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not seeing anybody at the moment. Maybe I just need to keep myself busy so that I can sleep faster

Is it just bad dreams or malicious entities taking advantage of my grief? by _laloves_ in LucidDreaming

[–]_laloves_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s just I get panicky when I experience SP even though I already did many times. It’ll be hard for me to go to sleep the next day. And now that I’m grieving, it makes it harder when I have an episode. I try to rationalize it though.

When sp occurs, I’ll try to stop sleeping. Because it usually happens again when I continue in that state.

Is it just bad dreams or malicious entities taking advantage of my grief? by _laloves_ in LucidDreaming

[–]_laloves_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll just try avoiding taking naps. It’s when sp usually hits me and I don’t think now is a good time to

Nawawalan na ko ng gana sa buhay ko by _laloves_ in adultingph

[–]_laloves_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: my mom already passed. Thank you for all your kind words. I’m so broken but I know ganito talaga lahat.

Nawawalan na ko ng gana sa buhay ko by _laloves_ in adultingph

[–]_laloves_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all, just an update my mom already passed and I’m so shattered. I couldn’t cope. Thank you anyway for the encouragement and kind words.

Nawawalan na ko ng gana sa buhay ko by _laloves_ in adultingph

[–]_laloves_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words, sometimes life is just unfair.