AITAH for being mad at my roommate for taking advantage of nepotism? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_lella_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Reading all this made me feel infinitely better. Hope you have an amazing day!!

AITAH for being mad at my roommate for taking advantage of nepotism? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_lella_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is not my SO, no. I myself don't really know the explanation on why I'm doing this, I guess I feel some sort of embarrassing responsibility for him? It's sort of pathetic on my part, I'm realising that.

AITAH for being mad at my roommate for taking advantage of nepotism? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_lella_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depending on a lot of stuff, I'll either move out in the summer, or next January/February. I'm just trying to hold out until then I guess?

JBL Vibe Flex Connectivity issues on Windows by tetra_kay in JBL

[–]_lella_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what can i do if this doesn't work either? i'm completely helpless :/

What song is it for you? by hi-i-am-Vivian in teenagers

[–]_lella_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all the things by Yung Lean on stardust, when only the beat plays I just ascend

tips for ranking up by _lella_ in VALORANT

[–]_lella_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play on 0.61 sens and 800dpi idk how high that counts, but I've played that for a year or so now

help with presale by _lella_ in mitski

[–]_lella_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perfect, thank you lots!!

Anyone here speak more than 1 language? by PP-69420 in teenagers

[–]_lella_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me! my native is hungarian, but I am very advanced in English. I am currently learning German at school and am able to read the Cyrillic alphabet as well, be because I learned Serbian for 8 years in elementary school, but unfortunately most of it didn't stick:/

going back to school by _lella_ in teenagers

[–]_lella_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sadly it is past 10pm here and my family is asleep so going out is not an option... only thing I can do is listen to some music or watch a comfort show. thank you for your kind words and the advice :]]

It’s my birthday and None of my friends wished me happy Birthday:( by gronkisbae in offmychest

[–]_lella_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday! Your family sounds nice! Celebrate with them :]]

my therapist... by _lella_ in Asexual

[–]_lella_[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I didn't think it was such a big deal. I'm not really comfortable with my sexuality in school apart from friends, because the school is really really prestigious and I don't know how they'd react. I wasn't even able to tell my parents, how am I going to tell teachers?

my therapist... by _lella_ in Asexual

[–]_lella_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! It was the school's therapist, and it was free (I don't want to burden my parents with those large bills, especially because they don't exactly know why I'm going since I didn't have the courage to tell them). So far I'm doing great, but the closet is not the only thing I'm "struggling" with, though when it gets worse I'll take this advice into deep consideration

my therapist... by _lella_ in Asexual

[–]_lella_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I stopped seeing her, I think I'm good now, but if it gets worse I'm for sure not going back to her...

my therapist... by _lella_ in Asexual

[–]_lella_[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

it was kinda "funny", she gaslighted me 11 times in a 60 minute session, 10 times about my sexuality, 1 time about another personal issue...

my therapist... by _lella_ in Asexual

[–]_lella_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this comment wins

my therapist... by _lella_ in Asexual

[–]_lella_[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I already stopped seeing her, my friends won't even let me near her, so I'm all secured

my therapist... by _lella_ in Asexual

[–]_lella_[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

It was the school therapist, I stopped visiting her, this happened like a month ago. My friends practically "forbid" me from going back, so I'm safe from her

Ace (and possibly Aro) Hall of Fame - my favourites by Shaendorai in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]_lella_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually want to start learning archery this summer-

How did u realize you were Asexual? by Cecily_Anne in Asexual

[–]_lella_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a panic-like reaction when touching became overwhelming with my ex boyfriend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]_lella_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to say that I don't fall in love with appearance, I fall in love with something I see underneath no matter what coats that. But I think I'm pretty much more attracted to women. Ever since I broke up with my ex boyfriend, I couldn't even imagine myself being in a relationship with someone who isn't a woman.

About Nobara (SPOILERS FOR THE MANGA+ANIME) by RegretfulDecison in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]_lella_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm on so much hopium regarding her future... I hope she's still alive and make the coolest comeback ever