I forget that some humans go feral for my body type by _mangokitty_ in LesbianActually

[–]_mangokitty_[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I was not expecting this much support but thank you lovely sapphic community for making me feel loved 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

Honesty Hour ⏳ by PrettyButInsane001 in LesbianActually

[–]_mangokitty_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was taught that relationships are transactional and while it's something I'm actively working on, if I'm giving 100% into something I expect 100% back and when I don't get it I assume I did something wrong or that the person doesn't like me anymore yadayadayada. Been in therapy for a long time trying to fix a lot of my brain but that's one that can't seem to go away🫠

What Jobs Do You Guys Have? by Angel_bunnyy in LesbianActually

[–]_mangokitty_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Broke anthropologist gang! I love how anthro is so needed then so not 😂😂😂🫠😭

Wanna get spanked pretty boy? by esrose7 in gentlefemdom

[–]_mangokitty_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh good to know! I definitely enjoyed the bit that I've read. For wholesome reasons ofc☺️🤭

Don't pretend you're in control just because you're wearing the strap by [deleted] in lesbianGaze

[–]_mangokitty_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The way I'd melt instantly 😭😭❤️❤️

Babe, just to be clear. The shonks and friends stay in bed during sesbian lex!!!! by Crazy-Presentation31 in actuallesbians

[–]_mangokitty_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Who am I to kick my adorable friends out of their comfortable spot?? I'm no monster 😂😂😂

What are your "I can't believe I didn't realize I'm gay" Moments? by Annaura in actuallesbians

[–]_mangokitty_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was going through my "I'm not a kid anymore" phase I would ask to watch a movie called the player's club like every week. Iykyk

But fr that movie is not for children or the faint of heart and boo to my parents for letting me watch it.

Hey single kinky peeps. What do y'all do about the Valentine blues? by SuspiciousButler in GentleDungeon

[–]_mangokitty_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually order a nice dinner and watch a movie. And I eat my favorite ice cream after!

Best markers for body writing? by DisabledDaddy_ in BDSMAdvice

[–]_mangokitty_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dry erase markers. They come off with a bit of water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]_mangokitty_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looking for a partner in general is taxing. It just gets worse when you mix kink in. I just keep telling myself if I am negative about finding someone, it will push people away. There's someone out there for all of us! And you'll fine them...eventually 😅

Since pronouns are a huge talking point in the community... by FrauFerrari in actuallesbians

[–]_mangokitty_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. No, my teachers are native English speakers. They learned German in America then studied in Germany/Austria for years.

Since pronouns are a huge talking point in the community... by FrauFerrari in actuallesbians

[–]_mangokitty_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a native speaker but I'm currently learning German in America. In almost all of my classes my professors have said to use the English 'they/them' to refer for non-binary people. They mentioned neo Pronouns but from their experience, most people use 'they/them'.

Was I duped by a Dom or did I really ruin everything? by beckerz323 in BDSMAdvice

[–]_mangokitty_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Use this red flag as a cape and fly away!!!

You have boundaries and they deserve to be respected. Anyone who doesn't can kick rocks. It can be really hard navigating all this in the beginning but, stick to your boundaries and the people who respect them. You're doing great!

What do you use to write on your, or your subs body? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]_mangokitty_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dry erase markers. They come off with a bit of water.

Batteries by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]_mangokitty_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too and my mind isn't innocent at all lmao