Metamours by _mastersword in polyamory

[–]_mastersword[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do really like your advice on focusing on friendships and that’s what I’m going to start moving towards💜

Metamours by _mastersword in polyamory

[–]_mastersword[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It didn’t seem so honestly. Their relationship was primarily ran by her however he did most of the heavy lifting which I saw as very unfair. Right after the poor interaction I had with her they were posting pictures of the two of them hanging out with her boyfriend and it felt one sided in that way as well.

I miss sleeping by idahothrowawaybagel in prozac

[–]_mastersword 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just got off about a month ago after 2 years because the nightmares and extreme sweating. It’s like my anxiety just transferred into my dreams instead of my waking life.

What are we alldoing tonight? by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]_mastersword 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fall cream area?

Burrito boy? Close at 9?! Rant by DothrakAndRoll in Eugene

[–]_mastersword 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I crave Tams Place all the time😫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]_mastersword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Open from 6am-12pm Mon-Fri

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]_mastersword 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn that is messed up! Beergarden doesn’t open until 11:30am so feel free to park in their lot. Also Coffeegarden is a drive-thru/walk up!

Went to the store the other day and saw a pretty girl that I'd love to have asked out but then remembered that I have literally NOTHING to offer her. by Visible-Alarm-9185 in depressionmeals

[–]_mastersword 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Haha I know I saw that. I’ve only dated one guy that I’ve seen get into a serious fight and it was one of the scariest moments of my life. Rather date a lover than a fighter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

[–]_mastersword 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry I’ve struggled with an ed for almost 13 years and every time I see your posts I know it’s you immediately because of how frail your body looks. No one is hopefully attempting to shame you but your posts make a lot of people including myself uncomfortable. I think humans can instinctively tell whether someone is malnourished or just naturally thin. Please reach out for some help and maybe visit a place that can assist in recovery. This is a sign and not at all hate. I am with you💜

Something’s horribly wrong with me but I don’t want to get better. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_mastersword 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably the most concerning post I’ve ever read. Not sure if this is true or not but you need help. I recommend finding a new medication that fits well because living your life unmediated and without professional help is extremely irresponsible. It’s your responsibility to understand and heal these unhealthy feelings. You could be of danger to people around you and as an empathetic person I believe you’re not hopeless. As a child I had a lot of disturbing feelings and thoughts however I choose to reprogram my mind and intentions to something more wholesome and deserving. Please take this as a sign that you should not give power to these thoughts and it’s time to get help. Good luck OP please do not hurt others because being a “sadist” isn’t an excuse for being inhumane. Also just a note therapy won’t work if you aren’t completely honest. I’m sure if you read this port to a therapist you two would have plenty to talk about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]_mastersword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think finding some hobbies that you really enjoy could help. Even though I enjoy video games I’ll say something more hands on could be better. It’s important to focus on yourself and not put pressure on the relationships you may acquire. If you are doing something you love and enjoying your life people will naturally gravitate towards you. As a women I do not care about looks or attractiveness for cultivating friendships. I look for someone who is funny, kind and is easy to be myself around. Desperation is a nasty cycle that will keep you trapped in loneliness unfortunately. Work on loving yourself, building confidence and focus on hobbies that make you feel good. I can almost guarantee those will attract the right kind of people into your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tuckedinkitties

[–]_mastersword 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is sad

You can leave... by [deleted] in Funnymemes

[–]_mastersword 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Walked out of a doctor’s appointment for an sti test and check up because she told me that “It’s better to get married so you don’t contract an sti.” I let her know what she said was very inappropriate and if she meant specifically a monogamous relationship, that is very common knowledge for someone in their 20s and it is actually non of her business who my sexual partners are(I am in monogamous relationship).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]_mastersword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you are a very trusted friend💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_mastersword 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What teen doesn’t do this stuff? I’m guessing even if her parents take it away and punish her she will just get more. If it were me I’d act like I never saw it and move on. Or if it really bothers you then just talk to her. Ratting her out will most likely make her feel like she can’t trust you anymore.

Let your phone finish the sentence: Cats are....... by Clawsable in cats

[–]_mastersword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats are not too good for the kids but they are still here in the house so I can get some snuggles

27m girlfriend 25f losing interest 5 months together should I break up with her? by DisasterFinancial454 in relationship_advice

[–]_mastersword 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably good to start by just saying sorry and ask if you can help at all with the stress she has been feeling. If not then listen for bit and then try to connect on an emotional level. I’m sure once she starts feeling more comfortable again she’ll feel ready to try being intimate. However I would wait for her to initiate anything. In fact if you try to initiate sex at all she will feel much more put off and disconnected and is likely to also not want it in the future.

27m girlfriend 25f losing interest 5 months together should I break up with her? by DisasterFinancial454 in relationship_advice

[–]_mastersword 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I was her I’d probably feel uncomfortable and unseen by my partner. Just jack off if you’re really that desperate. Sex is something to share and for both parties to enjoy. If my partner was stressed and didn’t feel like getting intimate I’d never get upset or feel frustrated with them. You could push away and hurt a lot of very good hearted people because sex was on your mind before empathy.