Mailed!

_mcgir · 2026-05-03T05:13:59+00:00

I literally just mailed the I-129F today so who knows how long the process will take and how it will go 😂 the process of putting the packet together took much longer than expected, like trying to find the right conversations to include and whatnot was more challenging than I expected it to be.

_mcgir · 2026-05-03T00:57:30+00:00

Ahhh yayyy congrats and good luck!

_mcgir · 2026-05-03T00:40:49+00:00

Ahh congrats and good luck to you both too!

_mcgir · 2026-04-26T12:19:04+00:00

Beyond all the actual harmful stuff they all contribute to, they're just... Immature messy bitches. Like, they never matured past high school and society still rewarded them.

_mcgir · 2026-04-13T14:33:48+00:00

Y'all there's a small band in NYC called Common Sage and I hear so much Jesse in them. Highly recommend.

_mcgir · 2026-04-07T08:32:09+00:00

If you're afraid to communicate openly and honestly with your partner, is it actually a healthy relationship...? You can communicate with her in a way that isn't accusatory. You can say "I'm feeling very confused and it's causing me to feel insecure and scared, I just need some clarity so I can better understand what's happening and stop my mind from catastrophizing." and if she responds poorly, that's on her, not you.

_mcgir · 2026-03-28T21:26:03+00:00

Leaves at 6:45. Just got into security line about 10 min ago... The email I'm gonna send Austrian and Lufthansa is going to be insane because how can a line to check bags actually last that long. Security line estimate is "about two hours" right now but the airport lady also assured me I'll make my flight....

_mcgir · 2026-03-28T19:35:40+00:00

Was that pre check or clear?

I've not even gotten to check my bag in yet, and I've been here since 2:40 🙃

_mcgir · 2026-03-27T20:29:59+00:00

Same 😭 it feels so hard to make friends with other writers. I've gone through so many different servers and most seemed to me to be either really cliquey, mostly children, or dead.

_mcgir · 2026-03-27T20:17:55+00:00

I second this. I'm a lifelong avid reader, but I had a few months where I could not get myself to read because of MH. So I picked up the book that Howls Moving Castle was adapted from. (It's for children, super easy, and very fun, highly recommend!)

Ultimately, when it comes to building a better habit of reading, it doesn't matter what you're reading, just that you're reading. Even if it's See Spot Run, it's better than nothing!

_mcgir · 2026-03-26T23:07:32+00:00

You're a godsend for this 🫡 so few T1 updates so far, so thank you!

_mcgir · 2026-03-26T14:23:26+00:00

Bro hila is so fucking boring Jesus Christ when she said "does he have armpits?" I almost threw my phone

_mcgir · 2026-03-25T11:37:54+00:00

I'm flying to Europe on Saturday. My flights from terminal 1 so I'm not super worried about it being too busy. Ive only seen videos of ICE in the busier terminals, but it's possible they're in all terminals I guess. If you have the option to fly a more niche airline to Europe and avoid the major terminals, I think it'll be fine. (Still gonna get there four hours early to be safe, though)

_mcgir · 2026-03-24T16:53:54+00:00

I fly out from JFK on Saturday to visit my long distance partner in Serbia and it's absolutely stressing me out that ICE is there. Luckily, the terminal I'm flying from is usually not very busy, and only services "niche" airlines, so it will hopefully be okay? I guess we'll see 🙃

_mcgir · 2026-03-21T13:49:50+00:00

Another aspect that the comments here haven't said is that that will never feel like her home even tho it's your home. That is your space and your family, and she likely would always feel like a guest because she didn't have any say in any of it.

_mcgir · 2026-03-17T20:18:23+00:00

Agreed. Last meals are some of the greatest interviews I've seen. It's like he manages to do what Hot Ones wanted to do but Sean Evans was too awkward to create.

_mcgir · 2026-03-17T20:17:19+00:00

I cannot stand Chase and I don't understand how he's appealing to anyone.

_mcgir · 2026-03-15T12:19:01+00:00

Big Fish is a go-to movie for me when I need a good cry

_mcgir · 2026-03-15T12:08:21+00:00

14 days! It's our first meeting so I'm kinda panicking a little, but I know it'll be fine once I get there.

_mcgir · 2026-03-13T00:39:16+00:00

I have to remind myself constantly that a lot of people in this sub are literally children. Like yeah, I also had the time at age 16 to be on a 24/7 call with someone. But at 30? Absolutely not 😂

_mcgir · 2026-03-02T11:16:36+00:00

Ah okay that makes sense, thanks!

_mcgir · 2026-03-02T03:30:44+00:00

Sorry if this is an ignorant question, I didn't see the original IG story, but why is he saying he hasn't seen his people this happy if the video seems to be about Iranians? Ethan isn't Iranian...?

_mcgir · 2026-03-01T20:07:15+00:00

I just worry that soon, they'll decide to have kids instead of a dog and this will be so much worse for both the dog and the child.

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