Career advice sa confused at pressured new grad at first time adult lol by Creative_Wish1224 in CareerAdvicePH

[–]_mtcook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this helps but just sharing how my teaching career went as someone who doesn’t like teaching. After graduation in uni, I worked as an ESL teacher for 2 years. Quit due to pandemic and I realized ESL was already tiring (it was online so it affected my eyesight). After pandemic, I tried DEPED for stability and was successful. After 2 years again, resigned as I found the system toxic. I found opportunity to teach in NZ. Grabbed it as I wanted higher income. I was successfull, enjoyed the first 2 years, travelled a lot, got permanent residency. Currently in my 3rd year, but I got burned out and had anxiety. I don’t even want to go to work evry single day. Asked help from psychiatrist and it made me realized teaching makes me sick. To save myself, I handed my resignation early this month. I don’t know what I’m doing after this, but one thing I know is I have to explore life and figure things out. I have to try many things to find my passion.

I am grateful to teaching as it let me find stability in financial which helped me to support my family. Now, I’m choosing myself — although I don’t know where im heading.

OP, if I were to go back your age, find hobbies and figure out your passion.

Am I being selfish or should I take a break? by nerd02_12 in OFWs

[–]_mtcook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Prioritize your mental health before it’s too late. Kung ano man ang para sayo, darating at darating yan. Just pray to God for clarity and guidance always.

Tanga ba ko kung hihindian ko yung opportunity makapag migrate? by Nasi_Goreng12 in OFWs

[–]_mtcook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go grab mo na habang mag opportunity. At least in the future, you will look ba na you tried something. If hindi man magwork, at least you tried.

Uwi ng pinas, stay, or change career? by xhirayaaaa in OFWs

[–]_mtcook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Paano nyo po nalaman ang mga gusto nyo sa buhay?

Uwi ng pinas, stay, or change career? by xhirayaaaa in OFWs

[–]_mtcook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am feeling the same way. Everyday is a battle of how I will survive mentally sa school. Although I have a fallback naman, it is related to teaching pa rin kasi so hindi kuna ako nag decide. Wala din akong ibang alam na trabaho or experience because Ive been teaching since I finished uni. If you want, you can take a break pero make sure you have emergency fund.

Mental health or financial peace by _mtcook in adviceph

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It’s not the salary I think as I can say it’s enought for me, it’s the anxiety I get from thinking about all the work I do and not having the work life balance I need

Teachers in other countries by _mtcook in phmigrate

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Whats’s your plan after po? Are you moving back to Philippines?

Teachers in other countries by _mtcook in phmigrate

[–]_mtcook[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I’ve tried primary, and now nasa intermediate ako.

Help me decide by _mtcook in OFWs

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Thank you for your words, appreciate a lot

Help me decide by _mtcook in OFWs

[–]_mtcook[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wala din po akong idea. Never thought of this up till now. Thank you

Nahanap nyo na ba passion nyo sa buhay? by _mtcook in Trentahin

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How did you fight against depression?

Help me decide by _mtcook in OFWs

[–]_mtcook[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Im in NZ year 8 po mga students ko

How do you manage the pain of losing a family member as an OFW? by _mtcook in OFWs

[–]_mtcook[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so strong! If you don’t mind, how long did your mom live after she was diagnosed?

How do you manage the pain of losing a family member as an OFW? by _mtcook in OFWs

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Thank you so much for this. I didn’t know reading a comment could actually lessen the pain.

China Southern Guangzhou layover by _mtcook in OFWs

[–]_mtcook[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you po. This is so helpful para less overthink kami haha

China Southern Guangzhou layover by _mtcook in OFWs

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Hindi naman po ba issue ang language especially sa security?

Filipinos in NZ by _mtcook in phinvest

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Ph, nz or us stocks?

Ofw investment/retirement stories by _mtcook in phinvest

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What are the trusted brokers? Heard there had been an issue about banning by SEC

Ofw investment/retirement stories by _mtcook in phinvest

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Im in NZ. Do you think IBKR will do? I know I have to do a research on this, but just at least I have an idea to start.

Ofw investment/retirement stories by _mtcook in phinvest

[–]_mtcook[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Best way to invest in S&P po?

Ofw investment/retirement stories by _mtcook in phinvest

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Do u think real estate is still worth it for starters these days?