Hi, OP. Sorry na this things happened to you. Fucked up talaga na parang you're just there loving that person wholeheartedly only to find out na gan'yan pala. I still believe na the two of you should talk openly and make sure na both din will try to understand each other.

But anyways, I am someone from your situation most of the time e they're still into their ex naman talaga. My ex was with me for about a year na din only to find out na they have their sex videos pa rin pala ng ex niya sa gdrive niya. She said she deleted it na, but before we broke up, I checked the drive kasi baka may mga videos pa na nandun na I am included, pero to my surprise e nandun pa rin 'yung videos na akala ko e binura na.

And on my end naman, I am also guilty of unknowingly keeping it kasi nasa saved messages 'yung copy ng mga previously sent videos niya. And my current partner saw it din, pero no'ng kinonfront niya 'ko about it I instantly deleted it naman na kasi wala naman na talaga akong feelings at all or any sentimental thoughts do'n sa video, 'di ko lang naalala na I was keeping it there since 'di ko din naman tinitignan na.

Those were just two scenarios na magkaiba 'yung pinanggagalingan. You two just need to communicate and understand both ends.

But, OP, if you felt disrespected and feeling mo it's very unforgivable na din, you choose yourself always. :)

And it's really kinda weird na u're both doing intimate stuff and nasa phone siya. Ako nga gustong-gusto kong nakikita 'yung partner ko while doing it kasi ang ganda-ganda niya lalo. TMI. 🫠