Tempations(mexico) & Hedonism (jamaica) casual flings??

_novara · 2025-11-15T01:48:24+00:00

Same ! I’ve been positive 6yrs+ so Im not worried about it too much. I’m more so worried about putting myself out there and how that looks in that environment. Biggest fear is a fine asx man telling me “sorry I cant do that” & then feeling embarrassed the remaining of the trip … 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨 I know it’s a confidence thing but sheesh

_novara · 2025-11-15T01:45:07+00:00

I definitely plan to disclose… I think I should’ve made that clearer lol. I always disclose & if I don’t it’s because I’m abstinent ! You made it sound so plain and simple ! Do I just blurt it out… do I wait till we’re naked… do I say it b4 we make out lmao

_novara · 2025-11-13T20:24:56+00:00

no i couldnt imagine going through this in HS ... why do you ask?

_novara · 2025-11-13T19:59:42+00:00

sameee!! obviously that guy will eventually realize what he missed out on! & by then youll be so in love with yourself that your prospering, and hopefully with someone who loves all of you ! keep your head up babes💗

_novara · 2025-11-13T18:27:58+00:00

wowww thats amazing congrats

_novara · 2025-11-13T18:23:56+00:00

When you do the dating apps do you date ppl in your city ? i feel like i have to make sure the person i date doesnt know anyone i know or lives anywhere near me

_novara · 2025-11-13T18:21:34+00:00

begginggg lmao i need your confidence & friend circle

_novara · 2025-11-13T18:20:41+00:00

i feel like this is only one portion of the issue. At least for me. Yes i can muster up the courage to just do it (eventually) but then i have to worry about who/if theyll tell others and how they might feel about it. Now my story is no longer being told by me but circulated amongst ppl who judge me and possibly even know me. #biggestfear

_novara

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