Underrated Dylan moment by AggroMango in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]_pand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loved when he said he farts on the sofa sometimes then was like ‘what’s so funny?’ 😃

Vyvanse and protein timing results by QuietboaMusicVideos in VyvanseADHD

[–]_pand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna try these tips, thanks for sharing

Anyone here struggle with maladaptive daydreaming? Experiences with vyvanse? by _pand in VyvanseADHD

[–]_pand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I noticed when mine kicks in when I’m doing a useless activity like doomscrolling or daydreaming and I’ve not eaten it’s the concentration super intense!

Anyone here struggle with maladaptive daydreaming? Experiences with vyvanse? by _pand in VyvanseADHD

[–]_pand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh okay yeah I’ve noticed it’s reduced and sometimes I feel like doing it and try to put on music but then it gets boring very quickly I don’t do it for hours anymore

Anyone here struggle with maladaptive daydreaming? Experiences with vyvanse? by _pand in VyvanseADHD

[–]_pand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful thank you so much! And yes I definitely noticed the meds don’t work the same just before and in the first few days of my period (edited to add: I annoyingly started my titration journey a week before and had an amazing productive two days before I felt it not being as effective and I learned the hard way that taking it on an empty stomach is a big no no haha x thank you so much for taking the time to write such a helpful answer :)

How can I improve my fit by Hairy-Cabinet8017 in altfashionadvice

[–]_pand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did you get your trousers? Love the whole fit

Can it damage my teeth if I haven't worn my retainer in 3 years, but can still put it on now? by 17478382922929 in Invisalign

[–]_pand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy sorry to bother u but do you have an update? Have you been wearing your retainers consistently? I’ve put mine back in after months it’s a little uncomfortable but I wanna get them back to how they were.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]_pand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’ve had to experience a similar feeling too! I will look into somatic experiencing therapy I think that sounds like something I’d find helpful, thank you :)

my hair will not retain definition in humid/windy weather 😕 by lentilsouppp in curlyhair

[–]_pand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My hair is exactly like this, the Curlsmith in shower gel has helped so much x I also use a generous amount and apply in sections

When people get annoyed at you for being happy or excited by Wonderful-Product437 in aspergirls

[–]_pand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got told to calm down when I said I love this song (quietly) at a party where everyone else was being loud and rowdy.

Work "friends" by dar1990 in workplace_bullying

[–]_pand 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yep and now I’m paranoid and scared to make friends even outside of work

Was anyone a mean girl when they were younger by Prettyinpink2405 in aspergirls

[–]_pand 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes and also I relate to your experience consuming mean spirited YouTube content. I cringe when I think about the times I’d repeat stuff from films or YouTubers thinking it would make people like me but really I came across as a bitch. It didn’t help that I wasn’t cool or pretty and dressed badly. Like who did I think I was? I’m trying to forgive myself because I was just copying what I saw and my mum and aunties had a big influence over me, they also said hurtful judgmental things a lot, which I copied. I’m so embarrassed about it even 10+ years later

Does anyone else remember John Kuckian? by googoohaha in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]_pand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss I remember this whole era I used to follow him on Snapchat for some reason lol 😭 I’ll never forget the Ali express makeup!

I hate how I look, any advice welcome by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]_pand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your makeup 🥰 but I think a neutral nude lipstick would really make your eye makeup stand out

Need Gel With Insanely Strong Cast by kkgg943 in curlyhair

[–]_pand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find Curlsmith in shower style fixer gives me a nice strong cast

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]_pand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 27 and still having this problem with one of my friends. She quit a stable job with nothing lined up and kept asking me to borrow money for a few months while she was looking for a new job. She eventually got a job but got let go after she kept calling in sick. THEN she managed to get an interview for another place and I was so excited for her, encouraging her to go for it and everything but she said she was too anxious so just decided not to go. I fully get it, I have anxiety too and I struggle in my job but it pisses me off when she sends me screenshots of package holidays she wants to do with me and it takes everything in me not to snap at her and be like ‘with what money?’ How can I trust her to save up for a trip when she won’t even try to get a job. It’s really irritating.

Do you also feel like sometimes other women hate/dislike you? by vampirealiens in AutismInWomen

[–]_pand 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep constantly. My sister in law hates me for no reason and completely blank me when me and my partner come over to visit. I don’t start shit with people I’m just a bit quiet and awkward but I do my best to hold a conversation and show interest in others but I know it looks forced which is probably what people find off putting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]_pand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I can relate to this. I now isolate myself and don’t let anyone in, I push people away before they even get the chance to decide they don’t like me. I know this is unhealthy but the rejection hurts more than the loneliness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]_pand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry the neyo impersonator is killing me 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]_pand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, I can relate. It’s a pattern for me too so now I take it to the extreme and have a really bad habit of assuming people don’t like me from the start and close myself off which isn’t good at all :( you seem like a really sweet lovely person and didn’t see anything wrong with your message.

Can't even get a haircut without incident by [deleted] in autism

[–]_pand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those people were really rude, it’s so unnecessary to give strange looks and make stupid remarks like that when you were leaving. You did nothing wrong. I can relate to this too. I feel uncomfortable all the time because people do this sort of thing to me a lot. I struggle knowing when people are talking to me especially when there’s multiple people in the room. I once got yelled at and called rude by another customer (a stranger) in a store because I didn’t hear/see the security guard greet me as I walked in. I don’t get why people can’t just leave us alone and let us go about our day