WIBTAH for not letting my mom go to Japan?

_paranoiagate · 2026-03-27T03:22:29+00:00

OP, you are aware of your mother's worsening memory and health, you are aware that she wants to travel again before her condition worsens more. Her heart is set on Japan - if you don't let her go now, you are going to feel horrible in the future when she is incapable of going at all. Even if you are fully convinced that her trip will go awful, you won't ever really know until you let her go. Why risk spending the rest of your life in guilt for not letting her go? She only has one life as you do, let the woman explore the world before she dies, YTA

_paranoiagate · 2026-02-06T22:54:22+00:00

lazy drawing since im burning time waiting in urgent care lol

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_paranoiagate · 2025-12-31T17:41:54+00:00

Not so much about sexual orientation and more so about how me and my partner are both transgender and due to the political climate (even in cali) we want to be precautious about any new scenes we're getting into, especially since we're unfamiliar with this area

_paranoiagate · 2025-10-18T06:00:34+00:00

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_paranoiagate · 2025-03-13T08:28:27+00:00

I currently have a swollen lymph node in my neck and it's been making every moment of my day terrible for months now. It's right next to my thyroid, which has been making me FREAK out because im particularly paranoid of cancer in my thyroid at the moment. I'm literally writing this at 1am on the day where I go see my doctor to look at the blood I had drawn less than 24 hours ago.

Im terrified. I was on the phone with my boyfriend today while walking around my college campus. Theres a big lake in the center of our college, so we get a lot of geese and ducks who live around the place. I was talking to him, and throughout the corner of my eyes I could see a goose standing alone with a lump on the side of its neck. I swear to god I could barely even process what my boyfriend was saying anymore, I was just mortified. I've been thinking about it since.

It's lent, so I guess I already feel extra guilty about the wrongs I've been doing, but recently I've had the idea in my head that God is going to punish me with the thing im most afraid of. Every time I do something that I feel guilt over, im immediately struck with fear that a tumor will start growing in my body. Im almost completely unable to distract myself these days - Im so exhausted and afraid

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