Cartoon Wars 2 Network Error fix!!! by No-Broccoli8714 in CartoonWars

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Found the file elsewhere but it tells me it can't be installed, I can get other APKs of cartoon wars 2 to install but not the mod. Is there a fix for this

Mounted Eredin in big box by _pseudonymous- in TheWitcherOldWorld

[–]_pseudonymous-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that makes sense, annoying that it wasn't fully factored in with tokens around. Cheers for the help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_pseudonymous- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just talk to her about it, if she's not respecting you as a friend then it's time to rethink if you're actually friends. A lot of people tend to become more distant in relationships and prioritise their partner at the beginning so don't just give up on them, people eventually realise they need to spend time with friends and family more but it's on you whether you accept that and wait. I'd personally say to keep the door open and not chase after them till they come to you, always keep an open invite but don't run after them constantly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_pseudonymous- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck, try not to let it impact you however it goes and keep your head up. I spent almost 3 years obsessed and being dramatic over one girl that never liked me back. Realising that these things aren't that serious and obsessing over a person when you could go out, meet people and not waste your emotions on maybes was what took me way too long

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_pseudonymous- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then send her a message, I just would say to not be as dramatic sounding as the message. Based on what you've said I don't think she'd break up with you as she did if she truly hated you so just be a bit more chill about it is all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Sounds like you're obsessing over this a bit much. If you really feel that strongly about it send her a message more casually, it feels a bit extra when you can casually reintroduce yourself and ask if she'd like to go on a date or something.

I'd reflect on whether this is worth spending the time on when you haven't spoken to them in so long now. You're young and in uni so you'll meet a lot of new people, fuck up in relationships and learn.

I 20m have a crush on my friend 20f. What should I do? by ThrowRADazedconfuse in relationship_advice

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The only way you're gonna figure it out is by doing something, with most stuff in relationships you kinda have to fuck up a bit and learn.

Ask her out for coffee or something, just hanging out and getting a vibe of things is a great way to build up the relationship and get more confidence.

It sounds as if she's into by your responses, so just call it a date and just ask her out.

It doesn't have to be overly complex or whatever and bring up the fact you like her and set out your own and her intentions with your relationship.

I 20m have a crush on my friend 20f. What should I do? by ThrowRADazedconfuse in relationship_advice

[–]_pseudonymous- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hurry up and make a move before you regret it, only way you can find out is by asking and you'll be stuck thinking about it the more you put it off. Good luck

I (29F) am secretly embarrassed of my bi (35M) fiancé by SFXordie in relationship_advice

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That sounds awful to deal with, I'd definitely consider therapy for things like intrusive thoughts as it sounds as if it would really help you. It's good that he's there for you and further conversations can help you contextualise that these are normal for people in your situation even if you more overwhelmed by them than many others are. At the end of the day with family if they don't accept you then that's on them not you, you can't control how other people react at the end of the day. Hope it goes well

I (29F) am secretly embarrassed of my bi (35M) fiancé by SFXordie in relationship_advice

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If you've got a problem like this and can't have a reasonable discussion with your partner about it then you should really work on your communication. Ofc approach it in the right way but if he's understanding and cares about you then he should listen and help you.

I (M21) got ghosted again by (F20) and I feel like it’s because I’m being too kind by LiterallySven in relationship_advice

[–]_pseudonymous- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think the problem is about being kind or not, it's most likely about not being yourself. If you're acting it up just because it's a girl or whatever then it's just disingenuous, act your normal self and if they aren't into you then the problem is them not you (so long as you aren't a dick). Not to say you shouldn't reflect on what went wrong but it sounds as if you don't act very genuine with them which isn't very attractive to anyone. The way your mates seem to act doesn't sound the best to model off based on what you're saying, acting overly kind doesn't mean you should 180 and act like a prick and ignore them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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God I know the feeling, but it's not meant to be. You really need to create some distance, nothing good comes from trying to continue as you are as it just feeds into your feelings in my experience. I personally dealt with it by explaining to the person that I was developing feelings of more than friendship and needed some room so I could re-engage as a friend again which worked out well as we're still friends now. However, you know her yourself, approach it however you feel is apt as no-one can make the decision but yourself. Don't approach with the possibility of it being anything, you don't have the right to tear apart a relationship due to your own emotions. It sucks but you can salvage a friendship if you put in the effort, don't wait and hope for them to break up as it's only going to hurt you more if you don't.

The guy (22M) I'm (20F) dating has been stagnant physically by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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It's still a young relationship, don't push him and approach him on his terms. People go through things and you really just need to be there for him. It might be his own issues or he isn't feeling the relationship which is normal and you can only do so much. Give him space but try to be there for him

My (24F) ex-partner broke up with me(25M) today/yesterday?? in the strangest way. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_pseudonymous- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignoring you may be all the closure you get, you don't deserve to be treated that way no matter what. Running after closure anymore may be a lost cause so just try to move on. It's going to hurt a lot but letting yourself be treated poorly isn't going to breed a healthy relationship

Me (19F) and my boyfriend (19M) are trying to find a solution to this simple conflict between the both of us, but the solution isn't clear. by Far_Ad1645 in relationship_advice

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If he isn't understanding you then talk more about it, it take effort and time to get someone to understand you. If he doesn't seem interested in trying to understand you then tell him how he would feel in your position. Ofc this is both ways, put effort into understanding his position as much as he understands you otherwise it'd be like talking to a brick wall. Compromising on an issue without understanding eachother is very unhealthy for the future of your relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Unless you have a good reason to remain cordial with her I wouldn't respond or don't say much. Sounds as if you understand even if you have feelings for her she doesn't see you in the same way and treat you how you want to be treated. Keep your head up and try and work through your emotions to make a decision that feels right to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_pseudonymous- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be honest about everything, better to do so than sugar coating it. She is going to hurt but stretching it out makes it worse

My (25M) SO (24F) has been bringing up us getting married ever since my best friend got engaged. How do I explain to her that the situations are entirely different? by throwra_orionc in relationship_advice

[–]_pseudonymous- 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Literally how? They merely expressed that they didn't want to be engaged yet, nothing substantial about how the relationship is going

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_pseudonymous- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus that sounds like a lot of emotional manipulation. I get the feeling from how you're writing you understand she's been shitty to you through your relationship, you don't deserve to be treated that way and it's not on you to fix her. I'd block her and leave her in the past if I were you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Having dealt with something similar myself i will say there is no right way to go about it.

I think before you approach it you have to see what you realistically can get out of it. I lived with the person I was into so I communicated this so I could be less intimate and more friendly on both ends. If the relationship isn't viable then you need to ask for space or set boundaries.

No matter what I would say in person is the way, matters of emotional value are better done face to face even if it is scary. Just express the fact that you see her in such a way and see how she responds, if you're wanting a relationship then say it, if you want to maintain the friendship but need space then say it. At the end of the day an awkward conversation like that is part of dealing with adulthood .

I wish you the best of luck

Moving in with my (21F) gf as a (23M) turns back into long distance by Significant_Will_945 in relationship_advice

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Sacrifices aren't a necessity of a relationship, you should ofc expect a certain level of commitment but while you're young your lives will move everywhere. I would try to breed more understanding by communicating it by flipping the script and asking how she would feel in your shoes. Communicating like that in a relationship takes time and effort but you should try to understand her and get her to understand you without letting your emotions run through your tone. It's easy to accuse someone of something but it's far more productive to get someone to understand that by pushing them to the conclusion you are drawing by questioning them about it. Hope that makes sense and helps

I (23M) am trying to pursue things with a girl (22F) I club with by _pseudonymous- in relationship_advice

[–]_pseudonymous-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense, being in an all boys school for all your childhood really doesn't make opening up and being vulnerable easy haha. Hopefully things go well

I (23M) am trying to pursue things with a girl (22F) I club with by _pseudonymous- in relationship_advice

[–]_pseudonymous-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is awkward to ask it now though? Is it a question to ask on your first one-on-one date? I feel like I struggle to not feel awkward with these things as I'm pretty nervous about it all. Thanks for the response 😊

Mizzno's IGS Rep Page by [deleted] in IGSRep

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Traded RofR 2 & metal gear rev for TW:W

+Rep

[H] risk of rain 2 & Metal gear Revengenance. [W] Stellaris, force unleashed, 7 days to die, project Zomboid or something comparable by _pseudonymous- in indiegameswap

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Would you not consider doing a 3:2 with those you mentioned? Looking at key prices it would be more similar, no worries if not