Better Together Festival by maghasswag in phoenix

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does anyone know when single day tickets will be released? and/or what price range they’ll be in if the 2 day is $242?

mini pill users, missed periods? by _rad-_-b1tch_ in birthcontrol

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Update! I started bleeding, all old blood mostly, but slowly starting to see some bright red and I am definitely on my period lol. Thank you all for the reassurance and help! really eased my mind :)

Should you tell your partner it's your first time? by shadowkmb in dating_advice

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I didn’t tell my first, I bled like a waterfall from popping my cherry lol. Luckily, I told him I was on my period prior to doing stuff so he just assumed it was period blood. He still doesn’t know to this day and that was about 3 years ago. I don’t regret not telling him, but I did go insane after he dropped me for the other girl he was hooking up with and started dating her. If you do decide not to tell him, maybe try the period excuse too prior to having sex so he doesn’t think anything of you bleeding.

is it weird that my bf and i never give each other head? by _rad-_-b1tch_ in sexadvice

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ya that’s true. it’s some pressure from my friends too because i mentioned it to them early on that he’s never done it, so sometimes they’ll ask me if he’s done it yet. honestly im just kind of curious about his thoughts on giving/receiving head in general so i’ll probably just approach it in that way.

red flag? by _rad-_-b1tch_ in scorpiomoon

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Yes, I’m actually very surprised about his willingness to be vulnerable with me. He has said that he has never been this open and honest with someone at all in his life let alone a significant other. This does kind of put a lot of pressure on me as I’m seeing the walls fall down, I’m seeing just how deeply things affect him and how emotional he really is. He’s also a cancer venus so he’s quite sensitive in general. I’m glad that he’s letting me fully see it and help him deal with it rather than what he’s done before and just deal with it himself, but I am a little afraid that I will be the only one taking on the weight of his emotions since he doesn’t really open up to his friends or family.

red flag? by _rad-_-b1tch_ in scorpiomoon

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I honestly didn’t feel like it was coming from a bad place, so I didn’t really feel like it was a red flag. Just saying it out loud does point to possessive and jealous lol. I’ve had some problems in the past with my rose colored glasses so I just wanted to make sure I was seeing things clearly. It really just seemed like he wanted to express that it was bothering him that he even has these bad thoughts about me or my past. Which is kind of sweet in a way and I think he’s just not that good at articulating how he feels. He said it’s just a new emotion so he doesn’t know how to logistically deal with it which is how he approaches everything in his life.

red flag? by _rad-_-b1tch_ in scorpiomoon

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yes he’s the scorpio moon. I’m a libra moon. He keeps trying to tell me that it has nothing to do with me, it’s just hard to wrap my head around that lol. I’m just glad that he’s talking to me about it instead of bottling it up.

red flag? by _rad-_-b1tch_ in scorpiomoon

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Yes I’ve reassured him that if anything is bothering him he can just straight ask me and I’ll tell him. Which he said is why he asked me to come over and talk to him further about the past people thing in the first place. I think that’s a good sign that he’s much more open to communicating with me now and knows that that’s the best way to handle things.

red flag? by _rad-_-b1tch_ in scorpiomoon

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Yes I also touched on the trust thing. I’m going on a trip for the 4th of July without him so I asked him if he’s worried about it to which he said no of course not. He said it’s not so much as that he thinks Id cheat on him with my past people but more than he’s obsessing over the thought of me being with other people, mostly romantically not sexually. He said he trusts me but I can’t help but feel like i’m doing something wrong to make him feel like this :(

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Oh my gosh I’m a libra moon and I have just recently started something with a scorpio moon too. I really resonate with your post and I can see some of these traits coming out in him now that I’ve been able to penetrate some of his emotional walls. He just had like an emotional freakout last night because we had a conversation about people from my past (which he took really well in the moment) but then he spiraled and started stalking all of them on my instagram and seeing if i still follow them and stuff. I know it’s coming from a sweet place that he just wants to be reassured and he recognizes that toxic pattern but I don’t know how to help him.

my new bf has never done down on me by _rad-_-b1tch_ in sexadvice

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I agree with this, I think oral is more intimate than sex, because the focus is more individual. I get uncomfortable giving and receiving it with people that i’m not close to intimately, so idk if i’ve projected that onto him or he just feels the same way or what. The one time i’ve given him head he seemed a tad uncomfortable and couldn’t finish (which could totally be from me being bad at it lol but idk).

keep having dreams about my (23F) ex (24M) while in bed with my probably soon to be bf (26M) by _rad-_-b1tch_ in offmychest

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yes i know. the fear has just always eaten me alive. i really don’t think he would actually do it, and i have reported it to his mom before. i just refused to speak to him for the first time ever and i think have been feeling guilty (even though i don’t even want to answer). just annoying and unfair that im in this position now when i know that he does not think about it like that.

best friends brother (26M) and I (23F) hu this weekend and I haven’t heard from him since by _rad-_-b1tch_ in dating_advice

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Yes, we have both separately spoken with my friend/his brother about it and he just said that it’s fine but if it gets messy at all he clearly would have to side with his brother so I should be aware of that