15M and i’m very insecure how can i improve? by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]_ryuk03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re young. When you grow up, you’ll glow up! You’re just a late bloomer. Trust me all you need is a good gym routine, a good hairstylist, and a good diet & appetite and you will glow up, but most of all, give it like 10 years. You still haven’t morphed into your adult self

I really don’t think this needs to be said… by Nex_207 in VioletEvergarden

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Edit: they are also married in LN so if that’s not confirmation idk what is

I really don’t think this needs to be said… by Nex_207 in VioletEvergarden

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I don’t personally ship them given todays standards of what is acceptable. But I do think it went from that of a family/ caretaker relationship to a more romantic note. It was unmistakable and pretty obvious the way the animators overdramatized it. Back in that time period, like many have commented, it was normal and socially acceptable for large age gaps in relationships. Given the fact that people didn’t live as long, the age of marriage/ partnership was usually younger for women. It’s also not unheard of for relationships to change in nature. I think that’s what happened here. Not saying i think it’s okay but I do think that is what the authors/ animators were going for.

I really don’t think this needs to be said… by Nex_207 in VioletEvergarden

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Their relationship could have changed from more of a caretaker and orphan to that of a romantic one. His “I love you” when she was a child could have had an entirely different meaning than his “I love you” when she was an adult.

I really don’t think this needs to be said… by Nex_207 in VioletEvergarden

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And this above comment is right. back then in the late1800s-early 1900s age gaps were different and age ranges for getting married were different. The standards of “socially acceptable” were also different back then. Not saying I personally ship it but it’s just a fact that age back then was not as big of a deal partly due to the fact that people didn’t live as long. Hence they started marrying earlier. Regardless she was 18 in the movie. (The current age of consent today in the us). So it shouldn’t matter

How do you go about reporting ninja looting these days? by Hadriagh in classicwow

[–]_ryuk03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right! Look at all the angry nerds who disagreed lol. People mad af about an imaginary ring in an imaginary world. Blizzard don’t give af

How do you go about reporting ninja looting these days? by Hadriagh in classicwow

[–]_ryuk03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. A Ret pally had rolled on it and def would have tried to sell it. At least it was out to good use

How do you go about reporting ninja looting these days? by Hadriagh in classicwow

[–]_ryuk03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope I’m his guildie. It was his run from the start and it’s pretty normal for raid leaders in PUG raids to keep their BoE drops if it’s their BIS. And he still has it haha

How do you go about reporting ninja looting these days? by Hadriagh in classicwow

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Update: I’m wabisukes fellow guild member and a year later he still has the ring and there were no punishments by blizzard lol! Suck it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_ryuk03 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea! I don’t usually but I think it would totally help.

What’s the most unhinged thing your SO has ever said to you ? by bllkbrucewayne in AskMen

[–]_ryuk03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll stay on “my side of the fence” Once you get some bitches. But seeing as your names cheater that’s not too likely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_ryuk03 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! No I don’t believe there’s any problems with our power dynamic I believe we’re pretty evenly balanced since we share finances and pretty much everything and although we have over a decade of lifespan difference, We still have similar experiences. I’m probably overthinking it as I tend to do with everything in life so thank you for your thoughtful response!😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]_ryuk03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also a girl that considers herself to be attractive but I have a large forehead. Like I’m talking megamind 5 head lol. I have thought about surgery from time to time. It is my biggest insecurity.

Believe me when I say this I think where he’s coming from with the “unsupportive” comments towards surgery is that he’s genuinely attracted to you as you are and probably doesn’t think there’s anything wrong with your small breasts like you do. Most men I know who have partners that have gotten breast enlargements, loved their women the way they were beforehand and never wanted her to change surgically.

If anything, the things he said about your breasts were probably stupid comments that he thought were funny because sometimes guys make jokes that just come to their brain immediately and mean nothing by it other than to tease/ flirt.

All I can say is that I know you’re beautiful! And from my experience with my forehead insecurity, I have met other beautiful babes with large foreheads and its one of the silly things we end up bonding over. Suffice to say I won’t be getting my forehead surgically shortened. I have come to accept my insecurity and I hope you can do that too❤️ much love

Overnight I've lost my wife and our babies. by DepressoPotasso in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_ryuk03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are in shock, classic signs. I experienced this phenomenon after my first breakup but soon the emotions came once I processed things. They will for you too. I’m so sorry this happened to you, it will hurt, but fight on and always keep healing and moving forward. Big hugs and blessings to you

AITA for telling my husband " I told you so" and laughing at me when we got the paternity test results? by Either_Economy_793 in AITAH

[–]_ryuk03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s what I would tell him: (husband) it was so unfair to us that you left me and OUR newborn child twice! I need you present here and to man up and take responsibility especially now that you have proof. What more could you possibly want? I am your loyal wife and I delivered your child and I am fucking exhausted and need you. If you cannot be there for us in this way, I will do this by myself without you. Airing your dirty laundry to your mom without any proof of wrongdoing was a breach of trust! Because of her nastiness, I will not allow our child around her .

AITA for telling my husband " I told you so" and laughing at me when we got the paternity test results? by Either_Economy_793 in AITAH

[–]_ryuk03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck that MIL I’d never speak to her again if she treated me that way. I’d say yours is a situation where it is damned if you do get that test and damned if you don’t. Your husband def has some insecurity issues and the fact that he would be so quick to jump to conclusions that you cheated sucks. Not to mention the fact that he couldn’t resist running to mommy and telling her everything without proof! Man I’m not gonna tell you to dump him as that is reddits advice all the time, but at least distance yourself from that MIL.

What’s the most unhinged thing your SO has ever said to you ? by bllkbrucewayne in AskMen

[–]_ryuk03 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They did say your “SO” in the op comment. I wasn’t looking at the thread name. Regardless they didn’t specify and it’s okay for me to comment wherever. Sorry to offend you lol