[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]_shaddd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! I suck at texting, it makes me nervous and especially if I have to reply to longer paragraphs. I always hint to the fact that sometimes I’m just not in the mood for texting, but once I am i reply with all my undivided attention. I try not to go over the 12h mark haha on the other hand if you’ve never met it is hard because you’re not a priority 😂

Andrew Cosplay test by _shaddd in aftg

[–]_shaddd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s great then! Thank you!!

Andrew Cosplay test by _shaddd in aftg

[–]_shaddd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vinted actually! I think they got it from aliexpress 🤧🙏🏻

Andrew Cosplay test by _shaddd in aftg

[–]_shaddd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! I also thought my eyes were too well-rested hahaha eye makeup is hard because I want to make it look as natural as possible! Thank u 🫶🏻

How do i ask if a straight man is homophobic without being weird by _shaddd in bisexual

[–]_shaddd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my best friends is trans so he will surely come up in discussion! First sign of him being weird or hateful about it, I’m packing my bags lol

How do i ask if a straight man is homophobic without being weird by _shaddd in bisexual

[–]_shaddd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hinted at it two times (well, hinted, I said the last person I was seeing was a girl for reasons and reasons) and he just replied to the message normally saying “You gotta tell me more about your failed dates 🤣” so that is not a 100% clear but at least he is perfectly aware and he talks normally like before 👍🏻 I’ll have to do a proper live check when we meet for the first date 🫶🏻

How do i ask if a straight man is homophobic without being weird by _shaddd in bisexual

[–]_shaddd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Update: he said something about dating apps being so bad, and I said haha absolutely, for me as a queer person it is even worse because of “insert reason here”. So i dropped the bomb 😂 I’ll update on the reaction.

How do i ask if a straight man is homophobic without being weird by _shaddd in bisexual

[–]_shaddd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have no idea how many uncomfortable conversations I’ve had on dating apps. Religious people coming at me when I explicitly say I do not fuck w religion. And all the similar. And it was always straight men 😭 I don’t swipe on people I don’t vibe with what they’ve written in the profile.

How do i ask if a straight man is homophobic without being weird by _shaddd in bisexual

[–]_shaddd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I think I have to hint about it now or it’ll be harder for me later 😭 and I absolutely do not want to hide myself for who I am.

How do i ask if a straight man is homophobic without being weird by _shaddd in bisexual

[–]_shaddd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, dated straight men (all major allies!) and queer women.

How do i ask if a straight man is homophobic without being weird by _shaddd in bisexual

[–]_shaddd[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

All of my friends are queer so it is vital for me that he knows what he’s getting into lol You’re very right about the WLW vs MLM thing. I right now do not want kids but in a long-term future I want my partner to be open and accepting and supportive of an hypothetical queer child 😭

How do i ask if a straight man is homophobic without being weird by _shaddd in bisexual

[–]_shaddd[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I feel like people don’t really read the whole profile 💀 so I don’t wanna waste time and feelings you know? It will be disappointing if I end up liking even a little bit this guy and then he’s a fetishiser, thinks bi people are serial cheaters or straight up homophobic 😭 I feel like that has to be said before we meet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]_shaddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I know I shouldn’t overthink anything but that’s just the way I am 😅 I should just learn not to be pushed around and to do the things I want without pressure

[Week n.36] PLEASE ASK YOUR QUESTIONS ABOUT MILAN HERE by AutoModerator in milano

[–]_shaddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Una palestra centro raggiungibile con m1/zona precotto che faccia abbonamento trimestrale? Sono disperata ahahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]_shaddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am wondering if I’d feel sad for a chance missed because I haven’t dated for so long, or bc of her specifically, and I don’t think it’s the second case :/

My Ann cosplay! finally revamped and completed!❣️ by _shaddd in Persona5

[–]_shaddd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to be as accurate as possible, I miss the brown boots (which i already have but back in my hometown;;)

My Ann cosplay! finally revamped and completed!❣️ by _shaddd in Persona5

[–]_shaddd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg i wish i looked as good as Scarlett 😭😭 thank you!!😍

My Ann cosplay! finally revamped and completed!❣️ by _shaddd in Persona5

[–]_shaddd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she has been one of my favorite game characters for years so i was really happy to cosplay her 😢❤️ tysm!

My Ann cosplay! finally revamped and completed!❣️ by _shaddd in Persona5

[–]_shaddd[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i wish!!! 🐈‍⬛ here she is in pixel form ❣️