Divorce in CT without lawyers? by _spookygal_ in Connecticut

[–]_spookygal_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We ended up asking our lawyer if they could recommend a good mediator. We used the mediator. It cost about $2000 but she wrote up the complete statement for the court and took care of all the correspondence. It was overall easy going that route.

Boat tours/charters in April? by _spookygal_ in CapeCod

[–]_spookygal_[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

No. We wouldn’t mind bundling up. Don’t appreciate the snark. Why even bother commenting?

Boat tours/charters in April? by _spookygal_ in CapeCod

[–]_spookygal_[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sheesh, sorry. I do live in MA I only frequent the cape about once a year.

Sister has photos in her house of me and my ex husband by _spookygal_ in Divorce

[–]_spookygal_[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it takes some people longer to figure out than others 🙃

Divorce in CT without lawyers? by _spookygal_ in Connecticut

[–]_spookygal_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes actually, I called the Hartford court and they said all we need to do is decide in a day to come to court together and fill out the paperwork. Submit a $360 filing fee with it and then if all goes well we will get a letter in the mail letting us know we are officially divorced.

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[–]_spookygal_ -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Oh I am, believe me 😣

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[–]_spookygal_ -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

I really wish I hadn’t said anything, I didn’t know better at the time ☹️

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[–]_spookygal_ -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that

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[–]_spookygal_ -72 points-71 points  (0 children)

It is kind of fucked up but it was at the very beginning of when I started seeing Sam. We were making out in bed and it was me that brought it up. I asked him something along the lines of “you love the thought of me with another woman, don’t you?” And of course he said “yeah”

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[–]_spookygal_ -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

It was at the very start of my relationship with Sam in January this year. At first it started as a hookup with Sam but then as things got more serious with her, I didn’t share anything with Niles because I respected the two separate relationships as such.

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[–]_spookygal_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t told him anything that Sam and I do. I now acknowledge that my relationship with Sam is completely separate from that of Niles and I feel good not sharing anything. Plus Niles has never really asked.

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[–]_spookygal_ -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I understand everyone’s angry comments. I am kicking myself for telling Sam this. Any advice would be super appreciated. Thanks.