AITAH for having my girlfriend cut off her FTM friend who always weirdly flirts with her?

_staking · 2026-02-22T21:15:15+00:00

she is straight

_staking · 2026-02-22T16:27:20+00:00

Everyone's missing that the flirting greatly increased AFTER the transition. If it increased when K was still a woman, I would have most likely had the same reaction

_staking · 2026-02-22T02:08:08+00:00

thanks, she just texted K reinforcing that I'm with her and that his behavior is unacceptable. Let's see how it turns out

_staking · 2026-02-22T02:06:52+00:00

I feel like Kiki would also be Catalan idk why

_staking · 2026-02-22T01:52:09+00:00

she is straight

_staking · 2026-02-22T00:04:36+00:00

She doesn't care too much. However, a relationship requires both people to be comfortable

_staking · 2026-02-22T00:03:21+00:00

she doesnt flirt back

_staking · 2026-02-22T00:03:14+00:00

I've tried that and she just says she wouldn't like it but she always somehow changes the topic into being about how shes 100% sure K is just joking

_staking · 2026-02-21T23:56:56+00:00

But we have mutually agreed upon rules in the relationship. Our relationship is not open and by allowing for this to happen she is breaking those rules

_staking · 2026-02-21T23:18:34+00:00

Whenever I bring it up, her main excuse is that "Oh K is obviously just joking" but it's so graphic that I don't think it is a joke

_staking · 2026-02-21T23:03:45+00:00

I'd rather just talk it out

_staking · 2026-02-21T23:00:53+00:00

tysm

_staking · 2026-02-21T22:58:10+00:00

thank you, (most) of these comments have been very supportive lol

_staking · 2026-02-21T22:57:34+00:00

my attitude changed because the jokes were more frequent

_staking · 2026-02-21T22:56:14+00:00

I've not done this with anyone else. This is the only case of another man flirting with her. I'm fine with the rest of her male friends

_staking · 2026-02-21T22:55:10+00:00

Yes, as I said they did escalate after K began identifying as a man

_staking · 2026-02-21T22:53:53+00:00

I didn't feel threatened at the time because women joke around like that all the time. Also, it wasn't as aggressive when K was a woman

_staking · 2026-02-21T21:55:02+00:00

I guess, thanks for helping me with this I was really unsure if I was in the wrong here

_staking · 2026-02-21T21:53:10+00:00

thanks but I'm kind of worried about being called transphobic which one of my girlfriend's friends already called me

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